Originally posted by Shibby
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double rejection (old news, but still like input)
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guess your kinda right, but in your excellent relationship counselor opinion...do you think i made that specific girl feel rejected?Originally posted by TimmaThen it sounds like me you don't have the time for anything right now. I would not worry about finding a girl right now with so much on your plate.
I'm not completely heartless, even if a girl i'm not exactly into has the nerve to come up and talk with me i do my best not to brush them off and give them my time...so to kinda throw someone in the cold like that i felt bad about, still feel a little bad for her
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In the girl's eyes, you did. In a guy's eyes you didn't. Girl's think we have this extra sense that picks up on their hints and subtleties (sp?). We do not and cannot read into these if we do not know the girl. Yet girls stil drop them on us waiting to pick them up. IMO I think you made the right choice cause this girl seems to have some issues if she got pissed off over that.Originally posted by Taylorguess your kinda right, but in your excellent relationship counselor opinion...do you think i made that specific girl feel rejected?
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the only girl i'm really interested in right now is my physical therapist....but i'm a bummy little college student, she's not much older then me but she's got a full time job and making 60-70,000 a year...me bringing in next to no money and her bringing in what she's bringing would never work would it
i'm 20 and i'd GUESS she's 25 give or take a year
i know i don't have the most time for her but once you've had a couple of good relationships in your life and then you don't have one i think inevitably you feel a little somethings missing
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That shit shouldn't matter bro - would you date a girl that was in school to get a good job later in life after you had already graduated?Originally posted by Taylorthe only girl i'm really interested in right now is my physical therapist....but i'm a bummy little college student, she's not much older then me but she's got a full time job and making 60-70,000 a year...me bringing in next to no money and her bringing in what she's bringing would never work would it
i'm 20 and i'd GUESS she's 25 give or take a year
i know i don't have the most time for her but once you've had a couple of good relationships in your life and then you don't have one i think inevitably you feel a little somethings missing
I say if she digs you then ask her out, money shouldn't be an issue - at least not until you're married or living together :D
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to be honest i really don't know, i think it would depend on the girl and the entire situationOriginally posted by fog_hat1981That shit shouldn't matter bro - would you date a girl that was in school to get a good job later in life after you had already graduated?
I say if she digs you then ask her out, money shouldn't be an issue - at least not until you're married or living together :D
i guess since i've never dated anyone whose not in school, i'm not used to the idea of it all
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Originally posted by TimmaIn the girl's eyes, you did. In a guy's eyes you didn't. Girl's think we have this extra sense that picks up on their hints and subtleties (sp?). We do not and cannot read into these if we do not know the girl. Yet girls stil drop them on us waiting to pick them up. IMO I think you made the right choice cause this girl seems to have some issues if she got pissed off over that.
You're right.
Girls will be more subtle in expressing their attraction and desires for a guy. Why? Because if we're direct it generally makes us look like sluts.
This girls sounds kinda immature though...maybe it was best you two didn't hook up.
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