my current update

[beefcake]

Let go juice. You're just hurting yourself in the long run. She's a different person now, you can't change that. Move on buddy.

[space mountain]

juice bro i went thru the same thing last yr ! took me almost a yr to finally accept and let go . its not easy i dont care what anyone says..if u never been in the situation then people really just dont know how it feels!

[Shibby]

Juice, one thing that hasn't really been adressed is you blaming her for acting like a single woman. She's single now and she WILL ACT LIKE A SINGLE PERSON. Do you really think she is going to tell you about a male interest or about what guys she met up with? Do you think you really want to hear about it? You are trying to justify your anger, with being in love with her still. You need to realize you are angry because she hurt you. It's not fair, it's not easy, it's not her fault, it's not your fault, it simply didn't work out. Maybe there are things you both could have done different, but playing the what if games isn't going to change anything. You had your run together being the people you were when you met, but you have both grown and changed into different people. You unfortunatly didn't grow and change toghther. She's doing her thing and it's obvious she still has some sort of feelings for you or she wouldn't go on friendship dates with you. But those feelings might just be old ties and niether of you will really know unless the space is given. As far as the family goes, they are going to be on her side. They like you, but if you make there daughter miserable(wheather it's from missing you or being annoyed by you) they are going to want what's best for her.

[trip]

post 19's space, is oh so true

post 20, shibby's is a hammer on the nail

shame on your friends for giving you shit, it's like anything else, if it was easy everyone would do it

it's a crappy ass quick sand feeling, no matter what you do, you don't go nowhere, yes, it sucks, in the long run it is a learning process, not much to do except go through it

it's great your getting YOUR feelings out on the board rather than bottle them up, that shows alot of honesty and growth

cliched, yet, time heals all wounds

yeah it's that time thing, as time passes pleasant emotions will eventually replace the most recent painfull ones, and at times the painful ones will re-arise and bit you in the ass, and you'll have to go through some temporary down crap nowhere nears as bad as now, and then one day you'll wake up, and the grieving of the loss will be over, and you'll be pumped for the future, that'sa life and how you learn life lessons


on a side note, damned shibby you're getting gooooooooddddddd

[babyblues]

Yeah, that's true. I didn't mean to imply that you should keep seeking to get her back. What I should have said is that if you still want her as a friend, than just be her friend. Be yourself, don't try to be what you think she wants in a guy, because in the end that's a waste of time. I do know what it's like. I've been through it twice. Work on being the good guy that you were even before her and you'll come out better in the end.

[Shibby]

on a side note, damned shibby you're getting gooooooooddddddd

:dancingne Thanks, it espeacially means alot coming from you.