Bad News

[trip]

My heart and prayers go out to you redsquirel.

And very good words above^^^

[bad14u]

Man, oh man...for whatever reason, when I saw this thread I got lump in my throat. Now I know my gut feeling was right, but I wish it hadn't been.
RS, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your child. I can't imagine, nor do I want to imagine what you and Sonis are going through right now. Just know that you two are in my prayers and will be for a long time.
For whatever reason, this time it didn't work out. There is a reason though, even though someone here on Earth, may not be able to explain it to you. My sister-in-law went through the same thing a few years back. She didn't think she would be able to have a baby either, but they kept trying though. Last month they celebrated their baby boys first birthday! He is a very healthy and beautiful little fella too. You and Sonis will get through this, together, and when the time is right you two will try again and succeed. God Bless you both!

[babyblues]

Very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

[dreamgirl]

Red- I am truely sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through. I know there isn't anything I can say to help you. I know how much you wanted this.. I am really sorry. I feel terrible that this happened. PM me if you ever need to talk. Hang in there.

[BBAddict]

RS, I am so sorry to hear this. I know other people that have gone through this, but none went to the lengths you did to get pregnant. My thoughts are with you and we're pulling for you and for the next time to come quickly and successfully. Good luck and stay strong.

[Cory]

awww honey, I am so sorry to hear this.....you guys will certainly be in my thoughts.

[redsquirrel]

Thanks again, everyone. Each day is getting a little better. I'm going back to work on Monday, so that will help me to get my mind off the situation.

My biggest fear, is obviously not being able to get pregnant again. But, if I got pregnant once, it should happen again....but sometimes things happen and they are just flukes.

We will be trying again shortly, so hopefully the next time around it can be somewhat uneventful..That's probably the worst part...we were starting to prepare for her arrival....I was actually going to register for baby things the very next day. Now, it just seems so desperate that we have to start all over.

And, of course, my body thinks I have a baby to nurse, so my boobs have engorged themselves. My doc said that will go away in a couple days.

[Puddles]

I'm so sorry, Red.

Hopefully once your body and soul have some time to mend the next pregnancy will come easier without complications.

Friends of ours lost their baby at about 6 months into the pregnancy and it was of course a very difficult time but a few months later they were blessed with another pregnancy and everything was fine, he's now 4 months old. :)

You and your husband will be in my prayers.