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    I got a question concerning my ex chick. We are cool now, talk as friends and all, nothing more to it. Just like we said, take it a day at a time.

    She recently told me that she was thinking of moving out of her house and getting an apartment. She said that she has 2 girls who wanna move in with her. The thing is, she has months knowing them. One of those girls is my cousins ex girl. She works part time, troubled chick (sorry to say that), family issues, doesnt go to school. Shes also from what i heard a druggie (dont know if thats true or not). Then theres another chick that went to high school with me. Now this chick is cool and all but bad rep. Shes an easy girl, drunk, same about the drugs (dont know if she still uses them). But overall shes cool.

    What are you all thoughs on this one? I mean as in the situation, what would u all do. I say this because, the aparment is going to be under my ex's name. Those chicks have part time jobs, like i said troubled (i wouldnt trust), then comes that she only has known them for a few months. I spoke to her and told her to think about it twice since she has to know them better. Its none of my business but i dont wanna see my ex go down. What if the chicks do not pay off what they owe and stuff. The comes if they get into arguments and all, then just dump the bills on her. Or if they come short in cash.

    I told my ex since she needs 1.5 years of school for Radiology, to wait and save some cash for now. She has a good home and all, car, everything why pay more bills for now. I told her as soon as she finishes school she can think about it, since she will have more money.

    Me personally i would wait, i wouldnt depend on no one. Thats why im waiting to finish school this fall and start a career job, therefore i can see the houses to purchase.

  • #2
    You're 100% right....however, your role in this ended after you gave her your friendly advice ONCE. Don't harp on this...you voiced your concerns, and by doing so you have fulfilled your responsibility as her friend.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by hitmansb
      You're 100% right....however, your role in this ended after you gave her your friendly advice ONCE. Don't harp on this...you voiced your concerns, and by doing so you have fulfilled your responsibility as her friend.
      Well said...

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      • #4
        You're her friend juice, not her father. As hitman said, you gave your opinion, but ultimately its her choice. Its really not your business. If she goes down.....well, lesson learned.

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        • #5
          I think everybody is right on this one. I had the same type of thing where a friend of mine (guy) was doing something that I thought it was a big mistake. It ended up causing more trouble than good. You told her once, if she doesnt take your advice, then its up to you to be there to help if things go down the shitter.

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          • #6
            i agree with you guys here, im only her friend. I gave her my honest opinion on the situation but like you all said, "its her choice".

            The reason I posted this question is to get you alls opinions on it. But good advice guys. In the past besides her, Ive had friends make bad decisions and go the wrong way on things. I always try to help people but some do not listen till its too late. But thats part of the learning process.

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            • #7
              Agreed, oppinion once..now you just have to let it ride.

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              • #8
                You're probably right about those chicks, but then again, you might not be. There's lots of people who like to party, sleep around, etc. but still pay there bills and show up to work. The main problem will be if they want to stay up late partying with a bunch of guys and she wants to get some sleep.

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                • #9
                  She needs the responsibility to learn from her own mistakes. It's not easy to watch a friend do things you don't agree with but this is how people learn what's right/wrong for them. Sometimes you gotta get burned to learn not to play with fire.

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