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I had my daughter when I was 22. I am now 30 & with a sweet guy I have been with for 2 years. He wants 3 children. So you can see there are going to be quite a few serious talks about having babies over the next few years. I'd like to not have anymore children, but I also understand his need to have his own. I had completed 2 years of a teaching degree when i had my daughter and then couldnt complete it because her father lost his drivers lisence and i had to quit studies to drive him to work and back (thats what paid bills). Well Ive done your basic jobs to pay the bills but I would really like to go back and complete my teaching degree and become a high school sports teacher. Obviously not going to happen if i decide having 3 kids is the better option. I honestly dont know what I want. And turning 31 this year I dont think side is too much on my side. I flat out refuse to have children past 34 years old. And lets not forget I reckon I am about 2 years of hard work away from reaching my BB goals (which ive finally put my mind, heart & soul to).......But Still have to Smile. If these are the least of my worrys, then life is going pretty good :) Wouldnt be dead for quids!Originally posted by ShibbyIt's ok, not everyone is into having their own children. If you know that ahead of time it's best for both. Dosn't mean you can't enjoy nieces, nephews and your friends kids.
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Originally posted by xxxkazxxxI had my daughter when I was 22. I am now 30 & with a sweet guy I have been with for 2 years. He wants 3 children. So you can see there are going to be quite a few serious talks about having babies over the next few years. I'd like to not have anymore children, but I also understand his need to have his own. I had completed 2 years of a teaching degree when i had my daughter and then couldnt complete it because her father lost his drivers lisence and i had to quit studies to drive him to work and back (thats what paid bills). Well Ive done your basic jobs to pay the bills but I would really like to go back and complete my teaching degree and become a high school sports teacher. Obviously not going to happen if i decide having 3 kids is the better option. I honestly dont know what I want. And turning 31 this year I dont think side is too much on my side. I flat out refuse to have children past 34 years old. And lets not forget I reckon I am about 2 years of hard work away from reaching my BB goals (which ive finally put my mind, heart & soul to).......But Still have to Smile. If these are the least of my worrys, then life is going pretty good :) Wouldnt be dead for quids!
You don't necassarily have to choose between kids and school. You just may have to scale down your life. My son is ten months old, I am working and taking classes part time and my wife is playing basketball for the college and taking classes full time.
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