My life (long)

[xxxkazxxx]

You say that you "forgave and forgot". I truly doubt that, you might have forgiven, but something like that will, and cannot be, ever forgotton. When a mate cheats, it's a horrible experience for the other, man or woman. It would be awesome if someone could truly forget, but in reality that is not a possibility. I believe that's beyond the human capability. Sure, as time goes by, it might not "sting" as bad, but it can never be total erased from memory. That, in my opinion, is why, before someone cheats on their mate, they should always think the other party WILL find out and be willing to face what ever consequences, usually bad ones, will come from their actions. I've done it before, and have had it done to me. I know I hurt someone deeply, but as they say "what goes around comes around", and thus, I got my just reward. Believe me, I am old enough to be most of your dads, so I have been hurt many, many years ago, 30 or so, and I still have that pain in my mind. Yes, it's tolerable, but it's still there after those 30 years. IT NEVER, EVER TOTALLY GOES AWAY. BB

If you re-read my post, you will see that I wrote at the time I believed I had forgiven & forgotton, but it wasnt meant to be & the emotions came out in other areas. In the next paragraph I wrote how I came to discover you cannot ever truly forgive because it's mentally impossible to forget.

Maybe you mis-read or skipped a few lines! I understand. I do rave on at times :)

[bonebreaker]

If you re-read my post, you will see that I wrote at the time I believed I had forgiven & forgotton, but it wasnt meant to be & the emotions came out in other areas. In the next paragraph I wrote how I came to discover you cannot ever truly forgive because it's mentally impossible to forget.

Maybe you mis-read or skipped a few lines! I understand. I do rave on at times :)

Yup, that's what happens when you get old and senile. BB

[xxxkazxxx]

Yup, that's what happens when you get old and senile. BB

Or in my case, take too long to get to the point *LOL*.