4 years/now its probably over

[Shibby]

Haha i just found her bottle of vodka in the freezer and im killing it as we speak. Time to have some fun tonight and start moving on. Thanks all for the good words...

Enjoy it and have fun, but be careful it doesn't consume you and become your crutch. I went through a period like that and it's was very difficult to get out of.


For me I used alcohol as a way to empower myself, regain control of my feelings, or so I thought. Anytime I would start getting stressed about loosing her I would drink. It gave me the feeling that I had control of my emotions since I knew I would forget about her. It developed into other bad times making myself feel like I was loosing control of my life and I would drink to "feel better". It go to the point where every stressor in my life would make me want to drink and most of the time I would if I wasn't at work. I luckily never got so far as drinking while at work, but the nights before did effect my performance.

[Shibby]

You were probably too nice to her and too predictable. Women respond to challenge and mystery. PM me for more information.

Bob :hmmm:

Ok, Bishop Don Juan

[FitnessBrat]

Ok, Bishop Don Juan

That's Archbishop Don Magic Juan :P

[Gods Son]

itll be ok bro..this is something we have all been through

[Gods Son]

Grinder I just saw your location.. Newberry Indians huh? Tymere Zimmerman is from my hometown.hell Zak Willis too.

[The_Grinder]

Grinder I just saw your location.. Newberry Indians huh? Tymere Zimmerman is from my hometown.hell Zak Willis too.

Man its a small world. Yeah we had a hell of a season this year. Coach Willis has really helped out and Tymere is just superhuman. Between him and Stepp at QB, it was a deadly combo. Well just see what happens next year when they are gone....



Anyway, back on topic. I've been doing so much better. Had a lot of fun this weekend. More fun than I've had in a while. Its nice not to have anyone to answer to. Not to say it doesnt still hurt, it does. I wouldnt be human if it didn't. But looking back, I have no regrets. I loved her, and I treated her so good. The way I see it, its her loss.

[Shibby]

Is that her in your avatar? If so, I know it would help the healing process to post all the scandalous pictures you can of her. :P

[The_Grinder]

Is that her in your avatar? If so, I know it would help the healing process to post all the scandalous pictures you can of her. :P

Haha, nah thats not her...

[Shibby]

Well I still think it would be a good idea to help us empathize and help you through your tough time also. :D

[The_Grinder]

Well I still think it would be a good idea to help us empathize and help you through your tough time also. :D

She was too damn boring to take scandalous pictures, haha....

[rude]

Youll live bro, I went through the exact same thing u are going through except I spent nearly 8 years with her.... I was torn apart for nearly 8 months, then I met a girl that made me realize my ex wasnt the world, while thigns didnt work out with the new girl, I did realize their is someone else out there.

I still miss my ex at times, but eventually you'll meet someone else, trust me, I spent nearly 8 years with my ex, dated in jr high school as well, and we both had a crush on each other in elementary school.

[The_Grinder]

Update... Doing a hell of a lot better. I feel so free and going out at night with friends is a hell of a lot more fun than being in with the old ball and chain. I love not having to answer to anyone. Plus, I feel so much more motivated with my lifting, running, and dieting. My cravings to sit on the couch and eat shitty foods are basically gone. I guess this whole experience may be making me a stronger person.

I'm not saying it doesnt hurt anymore. It still does. I wouldnt be human if it didnt. But I feel a lot better about myself than I have in a long time....

[JUICE]

sorry to hear that bro.

I went through the same thing also, was with my ex for 4 years until we split last year. Like everything, ups and downs, but this time it was different, no more feeling and see each other less towards the end. I tried making it work again but nope.
I was hurt for about a year, until I realized things werent meant to be. I still managed to talk to her and all, keep her close but nah didnt work out.

Its hard bro and I feel your pain bro, but at times its best to let go instead of being hurt. Like they say, only time will tell. I too heard the space thing, the best thing is to give it to them or else be prepared on being called annoying (well happend to me).

Just hang in there bro, its good hanging out with your buddies and all, get some distractions going. Focus on school, hitting the gym, and other things and you will be all good.

I already moved on, took me a while but sure did. After I found out my ex's been around (to be honest with some ugly short fat sob's), golddigger, and abuses drugs.

[The_Grinder]

Funny you said that at the end Juice about your ex going out with some fat ugly mother fuckers. Looked at my old girl's myspace profile and she's got a new "friend" it looks like. This mother fucker looks like the other dude in Tenacious D (not Jack black), except younger, with hair and he may be slightly thinner. Not to mention he's 23 and I'm pretty sure he still lives at home. Way to go babe, lets give you a hand...
:bravonew:
Anyway, I'm gettin over it and lovin the single life. Startin gettin out there again in the last few weeks and I'm gettin more dussy now than I was when I was datin the girl. Just givin an update. I'll update again to see what happens with the ol' girl and Fatass Mcgee....

[JUICE]

Anyway, I'm gettin over it and lovin the single life. Startin gettin out there again in the last few weeks and I'm gettin more dussy now than I was when I was datin the girl. Just givin an update. I'll update again to see what happens with the ol' girl and Fatass Mcgee....

yea it takes time at times to get over someone youve been with a long time. I go thurt, but now im happy living the single life. Like they say, "she isnt the only women out there, theres millions out there".

Im just concentrating on school, work, friends, family, and pumping iron...


Hahhahahaha Fatass McGee. :laughnew: