I don't know that I'm "surprised", but the comment itself is a little shocking because it was probably the rudest thing he could say to Goliath. The man posts that his world was turned upside-down, he sought outside help, etc - and then for another member to say something so horrible....:confused:
rado dosent relate to people very well. his intention in his post was not to hurt goliath so to speak. with rado, you cant look at the words he types. you have to look beyond that. it is kind of like training a dog. you cant train a dog like you would with human methods. you have to understand how a dog thinks and train him in that fashion. rado views me as the pack leader so i don't have any problems with him. he knows i am alpha. the rest of you just have to establish dominance over him also. you guys should really watch Dog Whisperer. it gives all the incite you need in order to deal with rado. :)
It's easy for me to say I don't care that he *thinks* I'm poor and that my stuff comes from KMart, but when I see him "joke" about other members in that fashion (very poor taste), it bothers me. I'm sure Goliath will say "who gives a fk what rado thinks" and that's great, but it's crappy.
It's easy for me to say I don't care that he *thinks* I'm poor and that my stuff comes from KMart, but when I see him "joke" about other members in that fashion (very poor taste), it bothers me. I'm sure Goliath will say "who gives a fk what rado thinks" and that's great, but it's crappy.
i guess i see him different then everyone else. for example, you bring up the "poor and stuff from kmart" thing but you seemed to have forgotten when he said the following to you, "you probably have more money then me".
i also know that as much as shibby and a few other dislike rado, rado would be the first person to help them if they ever needed his help. rado has to many issues to list but at his base he is a good guy. that is what i see.
i guess i see him different then everyone else. for example, you bring up the "poor and stuff from kmart" thing but you seemed to have forgotten when he said the following to you, "you probably have more money then me".
i also know that as much as shibby and a few other dislike rado, rado would be the first person to help them if they ever needed his help. rado has to many issues to list but at his base he is a good guy. that is what i see.
For a lot of those same reasons I wouldn't let him help me. I kind of reached out once to try and get past everything, but I wasn't being myself. You can't make everyone happy and to be foolish enough to think so and try and be that image, you will be in constant turmoil. You are the living definition of a hypocrite and nothing you say or do will seem genuine. How much is an exaggeration to get instant acceptance and where does the truth end? I'm with FB that his stupidity gets him a pass on saying things that he will in turn cry about. He talks about what is probably Goliath's most sensitive subject (which he seems to have in insight to due to some false sense of trust) but if you were ever to slightly mention a random everyday joke that would refer to which ever one one of his parents it is that is dead, he acts like you are the most sadistic and cynical person in the world.
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