girlfriend has bullshit excuses

[parabody]

Ive been with this girl for about 2 years off and on receltly we got back together and she talked to her ex occassionally and at first i didnt really mind then i saw some text that pissed me off, she promised me it would end and it did for about 6 months and now they just started texting again, and im not willing to stress myself out about this should i just end it with her since she made a promise it would never happen again and focus on me or should i try to trust her? there are past issues where she cheated on me in the begining with him like a year ago and thats why we broke up and im hessitant about even seeing her text him back after he sends her 10 messages, she seems to be ehad over heals for me but im n ot willing to take that chance i tried talking to her about it last night and she claims that he is like her best friend has known him for like 6 years and she has no family so she trys to keep friends close but im not willing to take any chances at this point what do i do? should i give her the benefit of the doubt?

[Bouncer]

should i give her the benefit of the doubt?

no fucking way. she cheated on you with this guy before and now she is texting him!!!! come on brother, open your eyes. You don't need her. When you dump her, tell her bouncer says, "eat shit bitch." :D

[curtus e flush]

dump the bitch....tons of women out there bro...focus on yourself and family

[parabody]

yeah i think thats what im going to do just wanted some oponions

[Shibby]

She's not head over heals for you. She is comfortable in you allowing her to act the way she does and she still has you. She may not be someone is ready to commit now or at all. She wants a sure thing and wants the excitement of being free. She doesn't know what she wants and you know what you don't want.

[FrankTheTank55]

Guys take so much shit from women its crazy. My wifes friend cheated on her boyfriend and told him about it and then broke up. He was crying like a 2 year old little boy. He calls her everyday begging to get back with him. I dont understand it. I have alot to lose if I ever got divorced but if my wife did some stupid shit I would throw her ass out without hesitation.

[dna9488]

1st of all DON'T TRUST ANYONE, especially girls

2nd, dump her and find another girl. Plenty of fish in the sea man

[toolwtf]

This is a pattern bro, I had an ex who did this very thing. It is an excitement thing for women. They will stop talking to their ex for a few months, then something will happen, spark things up again and it will just be a repeating cycle.

Dump her. It will be hard at first, but you'll eventually get over it and will thank god that you did it.

[The_Grinder]

I wasted 3 and a half years of my life with a girl like this. I was never strong enough to leave when I had the chance. I regret it every day that I didn't drop her like a bad habit every time I had the chance. Get rid of her. It will hurt like hell at first but she isn't ready for commitment.

[parabody]

that bitch got kicked to the curb yesterday went grabbed all my shit and she was like what are you doing i was like you know were done you wanna talk to him im out she started crying begging to talk but thats not happening anyway not like i ever saw her with work school and the gym im out from 6 in the morning until 11 at night mon - friday and weekends are devoted to getting the boat ready for summer, weekdays body gets ready for summer weekend boat gets ready life is good

[The_Grinder]

I think you made the right choice but you don't have to act like it doesnt hurt. I knew splitting up with my girl of 3 & 1/2 years was the best thing, but it still hurt. like i said though, i think you made the right choice.

[curtus e flush]

that bitch got kicked to the curb yesterday went grabbed all my shit and she was like what are you doing i was like you know were done you wanna talk to him im out she started crying begging to talk but thats not happening anyway not like i ever saw her with work school and the gym im out from 6 in the morning until 11 at night mon - friday and weekends are devoted to getting the boat ready for summer, weekdays body gets ready for summer weekend boat gets ready life is good

thats it bro...good choice:)

[babyblues]

Yeah, dude, you did the right thing. If it's been off and on for the past two years and she's cheated on you, it's not going to happen anyway. There would never have been any trust.

[Bouncer]

that bitch got kicked to the curb yesterday went grabbed all my shit and she was like what are you doing i was like you know were done you wanna talk to him im out she started crying begging to talk but thats not happening anyway not like i ever saw her with work school and the gym im out from 6 in the morning until 11 at night mon - friday and weekends are devoted to getting the boat ready for summer, weekdays body gets ready for summer weekend boat gets ready life is good

awesome, did you at least hit it one more time when she was crying? that would have been sweet. :D

[Control]

You should have said "I can tell you're not really into me, so I'm dumping you"

Then she would have said "No, I'm totally into you, please stay".

Then you could have said "Well I've always wanted to piss on a girl. If you let me piss on you then I would know you really care about me".

She probably would have let you. Then you could have left her anyway and when she asked why you could have said "Cuz you're a piss-slut"