SHIT HIT THE FAN THIS WEEKEND

[Timber]

Originally posted by redsquirrel
"Eye for an eye". I interpreted as if a woman hits you over the head w/ a frying pan, it's ok to do the same to her. When I said you don't touch her, I meant don't "clock her"...

A response to any situation is determined by the circumstances of the moment. If however you assault me using and kind of deadly force, a weapon of any kind be it a knife or a frying pan I will knock your teeth down your throat. If you slap me I’m gona slap you. If you punch me I’m gona back hand you . I demand the same respect you expect me to show you. I don’t care how pised of I am at you or anyone I will never strike you but if you launch an attack on me I will not hesitate.

Originally posted by redsquirrel
, it's the man's responsibility to diffuse the situation without further contact or violence.

Since when is it anybody's responsibility to control your actions. You are responsible for you and what you do not me or anybody else. Do you even listen to yourself, Your entire argument is woman are not responsible for what they do and it is completely up to men to control your behavior because we are the ones pushing your buttons. You are very disturbing to me with your view. You expect me to exercise self control but yet you don’t feel that you need to exercise any yourself because its a mans responsibility.

[redsquirrel]

You keep putting words into my mouth, so I'm finished with this conversation. I never said women are not responsible for their actions. I never said women shouldn't exercise self control. WTF?

As far as my interpretation of your "Eye for an Eye" mentality, I seem to be dead on.

This one is my favorite " If I have a 5”10” 200 pound broad coming at me with big tits and a fat ass and mad as a hornet looking to kill me I’m gona pick something up and hit her as hard as I can with it and ask questions later"
What happened to the "you won't hit her unless she hits you?" defense????? I thought your whole defense was that a man can't defend himself...BUT I do believe with this sentence..you're saying to go at a woman first!! Make up your mind!!! How hipacritical!!!!

I do believe I DID sya some women are psychos and are violent! And I never said women are helpless. I DID say men have an advantage in these situations. If you want to get into a discussion about this, at least quote me correctly.
I don't care if this disturbs you or not.; it's my opinion. Rather than not hit a woman, lets go ahead and punch her how she punched me...because a fight like that would be so FAIR?!?! Whatever! Not taking the initiative to control a situation where men clearly have an advantage is ludicrous.

I really don't appreciate you disrespecting me because of my opinion in this matter. Of course I listen to myself, and I don't appraciate the implication

[redsquirrel]

Originally posted by playthegame
and then you say this



Things that make you go, HHHUUUMMM!!

Unless you have something constructive to say, sarcasm in this serious of a thread is not appreciated.

[Auriflex]

I would escape or evade rather than physically harm a woman. And if she had something deadly in her hand - I'd be gone in between blinks.

Fighting sucks, someone always gets hurt at the least, and sensible people always regret it.

[trip]

Excellent point Auri, said very well.

the nutso's have so many nutso emotions it's just another day at the office.

A reasonable responsible person will question their actions and have to deal with the pain of regret, a very powerful and negative burden.

Excelent reasoning.

[redsquirrel]

Originally posted by Auriflex
I would escape or evade rather than physically harm a woman. And if she had something deadly in her hand - I'd be gone in between blinks.

Fighting sucks, someone always gets hurt at the least, and sensible people always regret it.

Thanks Auri...what you just said is how I expect most men to react. And what you said is exactly what I have been trying to convey to Timber. I'm glad there is a sensible man in the bunch! LOL..

[Cory]

First off let me say this....I would never be with a woman that was phycho enough to get physically violent with me in the first place. But, if the situation did arise where she would be crazy enough to want to get physically violent, my reaction to it would depend on the severity of her actions. If she just slapped me or something minor like that, I would just restrain her and then leave until she calmed down. But if she hit me on the head with a frying pan or gouged my eyes out with her nails or something that serious, then the relationship at that point is obviously in dire straights and if I feel that need to defend myself, I will at that point as a last resort. Peace folks!! :)

[Timber]

if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen

[Auriflex]

I think that's where the whole 'walking away' thing works. Which as I've said - I'm a big fan of.

[redsquirrel]

What heat? I'm still in the kitchen- better yet- I'm on fire in the kitchen!!! LOL

[Timber]

you are well we can't have that

[Timber]

I'm not realy considering this as an argument but just an exchange of views.LOL I still as of yet ever had to hit a woman or anyone for that matter in a very long time. But I would if I felt the need too

I am more in love with my wife now than when we met 20 years ago. We have way to much respect for each other to reduce are selves to Physical confrontations

[Puddles]

I think we all understand eachother now. Use good judgement, walk away when you can, defend when you have to, never strike first unless you're willing to take the heat for your actions.

Now...lets forget about this fighting stuff and get on to other more fun issues...like making love. :smooch:

[Cory]

:kiss: Puddles, you always have a way of smoothing things over with your sweet self!! I just wuvs you!! :inlove:

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Cory
:kiss: Puddles, you always have a way of smoothing things all over your sweet self!!

Kama Sutra sweet almond oil is one of my favorites. ;)