gf's parents caught me

[dna9488]

It's one thing being protective and wanting to meet your son/daughter's boyfriends/girlfriends before they get anywhere near their bedroom, thats fair enough, but we were all you once so they should understand deep down.

However, if this turns out to be one of those muslim families that have come/or their parents come to a Christian country to benefit from a better more prosperous living and then start insisting that Christians arn't good enough for their kids to date then this really pisses me off, it's hypercritical at best and I bet they don't say non muslims money isn't good enough when selling whatever they do in their line of business.

Sorry just a rant from an older fart than you, life does this over time

Well thing is, I am Muslim, and her mom knows is because before i left I said to her "Asalaamalkam" and she responded to that.

The thing is, her mom doesn't want guys involved in her life, because we are "evil" and she wants to get an arranged marriage set up.

[Mr I]

The thing is, her mom doesn't want guys involved in her life, because we are "evil" and she wants to get an arranged marriage set up.

well who's she gonna get an arranged marriage to a girl?

I'm sorry bro I have respect for everyones religion and chosen way of life so long as it doesn't adversely effect others basic freedoms, an arranged marriage is bang against someones freedom and seems to be all about ensuring the furtherence of the Muslim way, over and above the ideals of marriage as I see them. Marriage is about loving someone and comitting to them and someone has to do it when they are ready and with who they choose.

It may be that people want to just date, then later they may want to get married to that person or another. In my eyes if the parents want to do that shit, go to Pakistan and stay there.

[dna9488]

well who's she gonna get an arranged marriage to a girl?

I'm sorry bro I have respect for everyones religion and chosen way of life so long as it doesn't adversely effect others basic freedoms, an arranged marriage is bang against someones freedom and seems to be all about ensuring the furtherence of the Muslim way, over and above the ideals of marriage as I see them. Marriage is about loving someone and comitting to them and someone has to do it when they are ready and with who they choose.

It may be that people want to just date, then later they may want to get married to that person or another. In my eyes if the parents want to do that shit, go to Pakistan and stay there.

Amen to that bro, thats what i say to all those fuckers.

Arranged marriages are WRONG, and its because of the damn parents.

In Iran, arranged marriages stopped, and people have begun to modernize themselves. In Pakistan it won't stop, because they are too damn strict to follow anything. its all about praying a zillion times a day, reading the Quran, and forcing religion on kids. In fact Islam is about taking things in equaling things out and follow a few basic rules. You have to moderate your things in life.

If her father finds out about me, than i am pretty much fucked. Than again, if my girl brings me up and comes clean to her dad, than i might be ok.

[COLOSSUS]

meet some new girls.

[Bouncer]

this has nothing to do with religion or race. its simply a case of fucking weirdo parents. they are going to fuck there daughters head up.

[FrankTheTank55]

How did you even fit under the bed? I thought you would be to big. DNA, listen, try thinking about shit before you do things.

[caged]

try thinking about shit before you do things.

Yeah, try telling that to some 20year olds..they know everything!!

[dna9488]

How did you even fit under the bed? I thought you would be to big. DNA, listen, try thinking about shit before you do things.

Her bed is pretty high, it was a tight squeeze but i managed to get in and than got stuck for a second as i tried to crawl out, my shoulder got stuck lol

But ya i thought about it and told her it may not be such a good idea, but she was kept saying NO NO NO, its ok, i have all this planned out, and i will nothing will go wrong.
Her family just came home 10min early than what was anticipated. Her mom said we will be home at 8:30pm, instead they came at 8:20pm, just as i was about to leave they came home.

But ya, lesson learned, never again am i going to her house. On the other hand she can come over anytime she wants to because my parents don't care.

[COLOSSUS]

unless your obligated may it be by religion or w.e. i'd really suggest you finding some different girls.

doesnt sound like your making much progress with the girls your getting with.

[FitnessBrat]

unless your obligated may it be by religion or w.e. i'd really suggest you finding some different girls.

doesnt sound like your making much progress with the girls your getting with.

Seriously....

[FitnessBrat]

But ya, lesson learned, never again am i going to her house. On the other hand she can come over anytime she wants to because my parents don't care.

Not - because certainly her parents have to know where she is 24/7....

[COLOSSUS]

Not - because certainly her parents have to know where she is 24/7....

:agree:

[GearTripper]

Only Jack Bauer can help you now!

[dna9488]

Not - because certainly her parents have to know where she is 24/7....

Ya of course, i can't just keep her here, but a few times a week she does come to my house after class to see me for a few minutes before heading home.

I updated my text messaging plan, so we constantly text each other

[dna9488]

unless your obligated may it be by religion or w.e. i'd really suggest you finding some different girls.

doesnt sound like your making much progress with the girls your getting with.

Bro its not just this girl, but a few girls in the past. I date middle eastern girl and i am happy with them.

Don't get my wrong, i have dated white girls, black girls, hispanic girls, etc...
but i don't feel a strong connection with them like i do with middle eastern girls.