The infamous, "have you been tested?" question...

[3v1lj03]

"The Medical Institute for Sexual Health’s board chairman, Dr. Tom Fitch, who has previously pushed FDA officials for label changes, said some STDs are much more easily spread than others. In addition, STDs such as herpes and human papilloma virus, or HPV, can be transmitted by contact with skin not covered by a condom."

[The_Grinder]

"The Medical Institute for Sexual Health’s board chairman, Dr. Tom Fitch, who has previously pushed FDA officials for label changes, said some STDs are much more easily spread than others. In addition, STDs such as herpes and human papilloma virus, or HPV, can be transmitted by contact with skin not covered by a condom."

Trust me I know. Its not a mistake I plan to make again. Its not one I have made before. I have NEVER had sex with a stranger without a condom before this once. I have an appointment to get tested on Sunday. The least you people can do is not WISH the stds on me! :wacko:

[FitnessBrat]

Trust me I know. Its not a mistake I plan to make again. Its not one I have made before. I have NEVER had sex with a stranger without a condom before this once. I have an appointment to get tested on Sunday. The least you people can do is not WISH the stds on me! :wacko:

I would never wish such a thing on you. I understand that everyone makes mistakes. My original reply was only to answer your question - that YES, it is offensive to be asked that question, after the fact.

Good luck to you.

[Shibby]

I would never wish such a thing on you. I understand that everyone makes mistakes. My original reply was only to answer your question - that YES, it is offensive to be asked that question, after the fact.

Good luck to you.

Yea, if you ask it before, you will never get an STD :D

[3v1lj03]

Trust me I know. Its not a mistake I plan to make again. Its not one I have made before. I have NEVER had sex with a stranger without a condom before this once. I have an appointment to get tested on Sunday. The least you people can do is not WISH the stds on me! :wacko:

Grinder I do not wish anything like that on you. I just wonder if you are living a little recklessly since your last breakup. I can say only by the grace of God am I not infected with something because I did the same kind of thing out of despair in my past only lot worse. I hope that is not the case with you.

[The_Grinder]

I just wonder if you are living a little recklessly since your last breakup. .

I wish I could disagree but I can't. I definately see myself starting to get into some bad habits. I'm trying to catch it and keep my fun under control before its too late.

[Bouncer]

grinder, how is your diet? how has your training been going? lol

[FitnessBrat]

grinder, how is your diet? how has your training been going? lol

Haha, here comes Papa Smurf to bust your chops :whip:

[Bouncer]

Haha, here comes Papa Smurf to bust your chops :whip:

:P

its funny though. when ever someones life is a little out of control, almost every time you will find that diet and training has been put on the back burner.

you might make the argument that that life has made it hard or imposable to keep up with diet and training. but i would argue that letting the diet and training go down hill accelerates the out of control lifestyle and speeds up depression/anxiety etc..

[The_Grinder]

:P

its funny though. when ever someones life is a little out of control, almost every time you will find that diet and training has been put on the back burner.

you might make the argument that that life has made it hard or imposable to keep up with diet and training. but i would argue that letting the diet and training go down hill accelerates the out of control lifestyle and speeds up depression/anxiety etc..

Nah I wont argue at all that life has made it impossible. I'm not depressed or anything I just see myself starting to become a bit to carefree. The training hasnt been terrible, (still there 5 days a week), but the diet has been shit I will admit. More because of work and inconsistent sleep than my new wild lifestyle. Oddly enough I am having trouble keeping on weight when my diet is shit.

But hopefully things are starting to change I just got done boiling a bunch of chickens for the next few days!

[FitnessBrat]

:P

its funny though. when ever someones life is a little out of control, almost every time you will find that diet and training has been put on the back burner.

you might make the argument that that life has made it hard or imposable to keep up with diet and training. but i would argue that letting the diet and training go down hill accelerates the out of control lifestyle and speeds up depression/anxiety etc..

Absolutely, I definitely won't argue that. When I'm stressed (badly - not just a bad day) that's the first thing to go for me. Although if you keep some semblance of your lifestyle, you would be less likely to feel so out of control.

[Nekrawulf]

I'll offer a different perspective....

Regardless of her answer, the same conclusion could be made prior to you asking the question: You STILL have no idea if she has an STD or not. Hence, making the question itself redundant, and the consequences that followed needless.

She got pissed, you got no closure, and you just lost a hot(maybe) piece of ass.

Glad you are getting tested. I got the clap once... it sucks, but at least its treatable.

Treat yourself well man, its easy to fall into pit traps after a bad breakup.... the ending of my first marriage almost killed me with my wreckless behaviour.

Be safe!

[Nekrawulf]

You can't test for STD(Herpes 1 or 2)unless you have an outbreak...Just an FYI.

Nor HPV, or Crabs

in fact, condoms do little to prevent the spread of above noted STI's (STD's).

Fun facts for you!