Why can a woman

[urso8up]

Could someone explain to me why a woman can treat you like total shit and be a total bitch to you and You would still care deeply for her and still want her in everyway possible? What kind of special powers does a woman have?

[Irishgirl]

Guys treat girls like shit all the time too, it goes both ways.

[Stonecold54]

Re: Why can a woman

Originally posted by urso8up
Could someone explain to me why a woman can treat you like total shit and be a total bitch to you and You would still care deeply for her and still want her in everyway possible? What kind of special powers does a woman have?

ummm did you check between her legs? just kidding. usually it has more to do with the person who stays and takes it. Get some books by Nathaniel Branden-they are self help self-esteem books. I highly recommend them.

[urso8up]

Re: Re: Why can a woman

Originally posted by stonecold54
ummm did you check between her legs? just kidding. usually it has more to do with the person who stays and takes it. Get some books by Nathaniel Branden-they are self help self-esteem books. I highly recommend them.

ha ha
I wil llook into those books thanks

[urso8up]

Originally posted by Irishgirl
Guys treat girls like shit all the time too, it goes both ways.

You never answered being a woman and all you should have a great answer for me

[Stonecold54]

I hope that didn't come off as condesending or anything. I recommend them to most people I meet. a lot of times there is a stigma attached to people who seek help. just mention the word pyschologist and people usually take a step back. but I was sincere that people that take abuse need to look at themselves first, before and if they want to help the person that is doing the abusing.

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by Irishgirl
Guys treat girls like shit all the time too, it goes both ways.

so true IG. I work in the family court area of my county and most of the time in situations guys and girls are pretty much even on the abuse factor. I am not sure why guys have taken the rap for all these years.

[urso8up]

Originally posted by stonecold54
I hope that didn't come off as condesending or anything. I recommend them to most people I meet. a lot of times there is a stigma attached to people who seek help. just mention the word pyschologist and people usually take a step back. but I was sincere that people that take abuse need to look at themselves first, before and if they want to help the person that is doing the abusing.

I am going to look into those books to see what they are all about and maybe aftre i am done with them i will give them to my ex to read and maybe she could learn a few things. I appreciate you telling me abut those books. And i am going to get a book to read, BEcause I do not like feeling like shit al lthe time and careing for someone who doesn't care for me

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by urso8up
I am going to look into those books to see what they are all about and maybe aftre i am done with them i will give them to my ex to read and maybe she could learn a few things. I appreciate you telling me abut those books. And i am going to get a book to read, BEcause I do not like feeling like shit al lthe time and careing for someone who doesn't care for me

good for you.

[Irishgirl]

Originally posted by urso8up
You never answered being a woman and all you should have a great answer for me

I really don't know. But I will admit that I wasn't always good to my ex and for the most part he was very good to me. I know he loved me more than anything in the world, and I took that for granted. I guess it's not until after the fact that you realize these things, and hopfully work out the issues so it doesn't have to happen again in another relationship. Like I said, it works both ways. I know a girl who does everything for her man, and he's a complete asshole. In her case, I think she's got low self esteem and stays with him because when he IS good to her on occassion, she's very happy. I don't think she feels good enough about herself to know that she deserves to be happy ALL the time. So yeah, I can see how self help type books would help her. Good luck to you though.