so i was watching an episode of Fox's Royal Pains and the female physician's assistant went through with an engagement to a man her parents had arranged for her to marry. this just sparked some thoughts.
first of, my parents attempted to get me "pre-engaged" for a first cousin at the age of 17. my mother decided even though i had said no, i actually meant yes. so she gave this cousin my cell number and email address. after arguing and "standing up" for myself, it is a situation that will never arise again.
a few of my older, middle eastern friends have gone through with arranged marriages and a majority of them are happy. some of them had an "semi-arranged" marriage which is where the parents pre-approve the guy and allow the couple to "date" before they make a final decision.
i am just wondering what and how people that aren't middle eastern feel about this.
for the record, i'm against it. i think that both men and women should have the right to date and find someone they feel compatible with. most middle eastern parents marry their children for their own reputation, not their child's happiness.
first of, my parents attempted to get me "pre-engaged" for a first cousin at the age of 17. my mother decided even though i had said no, i actually meant yes. so she gave this cousin my cell number and email address. after arguing and "standing up" for myself, it is a situation that will never arise again.
a few of my older, middle eastern friends have gone through with arranged marriages and a majority of them are happy. some of them had an "semi-arranged" marriage which is where the parents pre-approve the guy and allow the couple to "date" before they make a final decision.
i am just wondering what and how people that aren't middle eastern feel about this.
for the record, i'm against it. i think that both men and women should have the right to date and find someone they feel compatible with. most middle eastern parents marry their children for their own reputation, not their child's happiness.
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