Originally posted by rado
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Something I've noticed lately
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sex drive goes up, ability to find a decent girl goes down. most horny guys have the world's worst pick-up lines. reminds me of this video. YouTube - Bing Bong Brothers
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Chris, your belief system will change at least a bit. Tell me if I'm wrong on this, but be honest wit yourself. You mentally crated part of that system to help you psychologically cope with your inability to meet women. That's a big part of your internal struggle now. You are reavaluating what are the fundamentals of your beliefs and what you created to cope.
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exactly what i was saying. belief system based in insecurities and none sense.Originally posted by Shibby View PostChris, your belief system will change at least a bit. Tell me if I'm wrong on this, but be honest wit yourself. You mentally crated part of that system to help you psychologically cope with your inability to meet women. That's a big part of your internal struggle now. You are reavaluating what are the fundamentals of your beliefs and what you created to cope.
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Lol, cope with not being able to meet women. Dude, it's not like I'm a introverted person who stays away from society. I went to college, lived in a frat house for 4 years and have had plenty of interaction and opportunities to have sex. I think it's funny that ya'll instantly assume I have a social disorder. :rofl:Originally posted by Shibby View PostChris, your belief system will change at least a bit. Tell me if I'm wrong on this, but be honest wit yourself. You mentally crated part of that system to help you psychologically cope with your inability to meet women. That's a big part of your internal struggle now. You are reavaluating what are the fundamentals of your beliefs and what you created to cope.
Some of us just make choices and promises that we intend to keep. That doesn't mean, bouncer, that I don't every once and a while wish I could just step out and never had made that promise.
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You know what I meant by meet. Hook up... and even if you had the opportunity, you were to insecure to do anything because of your inexperience and you hid behind your fictitious wall to feel ok about it. Unless you are waiting for marriage, the only difference between meaningful sex and meaningless sex is the emotions... NOT THE SEX.
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:clapback:Originally posted by Shibby View Postyou were to insecure to do anything because of your inexperience and you hid behind your fictitious wall to feel ok about it.
"belief system" = something i came up with to make myself feel better about my insecurities.
its sort of goes hand and hand with religion in a way. people want to feel better about the "after life". they don't want to think of an end so they come up with magical places in the clouds.
me and shibby would like to invite you all to our church.. The Church of Reality. :)
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It's all important in the big picture. You talk about wishing you could step outside yourself, but you find excuses not to, even though it's what you really want. Reasons and excuses are not the same thing. Just like when you started getting in the gym. You only had excuses not to workout and reasons you should workout.Originally posted by NewbieChris View PostLol, I wish i had never written that last sentence. The primary focus of this post was to say I couldn't believe how different my sex drive is.
And for you rado, I'll be nice and gentle.
This may not have been the intention of your original post, but the opportunity to develop more is there, so take it.
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