Something I've noticed lately

[the art of war]

even if there was a god why wouldn't he want you to evolve yourself into the maximum in every area you can? Not like he'd feel threatened since he created you lol.

[NewbieChris]

You know what I meant by meet. Hook up... and even if you had the opportunity, you were to insecure to do anything because of your inexperience and you hid behind your fictitious wall to feel :tired:ok about it. Unless you are waiting for marriage, the only difference between meaningful sex and meaningless sex is the emotions... NOT THE SEX.

I have stated numerous times that I intend to wait until marriage. What I don't get is how you somehow try and qualify marriage as the exception. Personally I seperate it, like you said, by the emotional connection.

[Shibby]

I have stated numerous times that I intend to wait until marriage. What I don't get is how you somehow try and qualify marriage as the exception. Personally I seperate it, like you said, by the emotional connection.

I only qualify marriage as the exception because it has a faith base and not a personal one that was developed out of insecurities (although it will help in letting the insecurities control you instead of you controlling them). I think it's all silly, but I was respecting it.

[NewbieChris]

It's all important in the big picture. You talk about wishing you could step outside yourself, but you find excuses not to, even though it's what you really want. Reasons and excuses are not the same thing. Just like when you started getting in the gym. You only had excuses not to workout and reasons you should workout.

This may not have been the intention of your original post, but the opportunity to develop more is there, so take it.

Seeing as how you don't know me, it's a lot to assume that...because I say to bouncer that it would have been nice to not have made a promise to be selebit, I somehow am always jumping out of my skin. Or that even is the case a majority of times.

I don't think you will ever understand me specifically as a person, because you respond to something I say without understanding how I feel.

[Bouncer]

I have stated numerous times that I intend to wait until marriage. What I don't get is how you somehow try and qualify marriage as the exception. Personally I seperate it, like you said, by the emotional connection.

wait, are you a virgin?

[Shibby]

Seeing as how you don't know me, it's a lot to assume that...because I say to bouncer that it would have been nice to not have made a promise to be selebit, I somehow am always jumping out of my skin. Or that even is the case a majority of times.

I don't think you will ever understand me specifically as a person, because you respond to something I say without understanding how I feel.

I know who you present yourself to be on here and if it's not you, that's not my misunderstanding, it's your misleading.

[the art of war]

I have stated numerous times that I intend to wait until marriage. What I don't get is how you somehow try and qualify marriage as the exception. Personally I seperate it, like you said, by the emotional connection.

Just curious - do you want to have a partner when married who has also waited ? And what would be the reasoning behind either way, her being a virgin or not.

[NewbieChris]

I know who you present yourself to be on here and if it's not you, that's not my misunderstanding, it's your misleading.

I'd be curious to hear what I present myself as.

[Bouncer]

I'd be curious to hear what I present myself as.

hint: read the responses you have gotten here and in other threads.

[NewbieChris]

wait, are you a virgin?

Depends how you define virgin, but to you...probably yes.

[Bouncer]

Depends how you define virgin, but to you...probably yes.

what the fuck does that mean?

have you ever had sex or not?

[NewbieChris]

hint: read the responses you have gotten here and in other threads.

What? That I'm Arrogant or something? Or fake?

[the art of war]

what the fuck does that mean?

have you ever had sex or not?

gotten a hand job or some shit lol.

[NewbieChris]

what the fuck does that mean?

have you ever had sex or not?

Full on sex, no. I've recieved head.

[the art of war]

What? That I'm Arrogant or something? Or fake?

condescending.