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my wife is sitting in the chair behind my talking on the phone to one of her girlfriends. they are talking about the girls boyfriend's and how lazy he is in the bedroom. my wife was straight hacking on this poor guy and i know the girlfriend was doing the same. does my wife talk like that about me when she is pissed at me? she was trashing him hard. i asked her and she said "oh no baby i would never talk that way about you" but it didnt sound sincere.
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lol, I think most girls do..... but that doesnt have to be a bad thing. Thats just how most girls are, their like us, we chat about embarrsing stuff about them,and they do the same to us. My girlfriend says she doesnt talk about me, but I bet she does -
It's not like we're making stuff up. Sometimes frustration builds and you gotta let it out. If it doesn't need to be discussed between the couple to resolve issues, or if repeated discussions don't fix the issue, a little venting between friends will make a girl feel better. It doesn't mean the woman doesn't care or love the guy, she's just needing to vent. Talking to another woman who's dealing or dealt with similar issues is always helpful and good for a laugh or two. Plus, it's a lot cheaper than going to a shrink. Afterwards, the woman will feel better and go back to her guy with some of the negative energy released. If it's a really good person she's talking to, that person will remain objective to a degree and sometimes help the woman see her role in helping to resolve the issue.
I have two close friends that I can talk to about anything. Both are married for a long time too, so we help eachother out just by being there for one another when we need to vent. After all's said and done though, we always wind up saying how lucky we are to have the husbands that we have and how much we love them even with their little quirks. :)
Tonight I'm going out with one of them...she's got some venting to do because it's that time of the year for baseball and he was a basketcase last night when the game was rained out. LOLComment
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Yeah, what Mrs p said!Comment
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that sucks, I wish my girl never talks bad about meComment
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My girl thinks I am a god, she never talks bad about me................................................ ..............................
WHO THE HELL AM I KIDDING..Comment
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thanks mrsP a wealth of knowledge as always. and purty too!Comment
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Juice...it's not really talking bad about our guys...it's just sharing frustrations. Face it, no one is perfect and sometimes leaning on a friend just makes ya feel better. We don't do it to make our guys look bad or have a laugh at their expense, because that would make us look bad for staying with them if there were really jerks.Originally posted by THE JUICE
that sucks, I wish my girl never talks bad about meComment
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Flattery is always appreciated. :kiss:Originally posted by jipped genes
thanks mrsP a wealth of knowledge as always. and purty too!Comment
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JUICE...can you honestly say you've never trashed your girl to your friends after she's pissed you off?Comment
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I don't think I'd do that, I like everyone to think I've got the the best, sweetest, hottest guy around so I wouldn't trash him;)Comment
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Thats a good point of view!!Originally posted by Hollywood
I don't think I'd do that, I like everyone to think I've got the the best, sweetest, hottest guy around so I wouldn't trash him;)
P.S. Congrats on getting MOD status!! Sorry if I was a little slow to notice....Comment
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Tell me that again after you've been married for 15 yrs. LOLOriginally posted by Hollywood
I don't think I'd do that, I like everyone to think I've got the the best, sweetest, hottest guy around so I wouldn't trash him;)Comment
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just like, no honey size doesn't matter...right guys holla if you here me...anyone please (crickets in the background)Comment
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