What the fuck is a signal

[NewbieChris]

Okay, we'll try this a different way. LOL. What the fuck is considered a signal to someone that you like them? I would never have realized that having a conversation with someone was a signal that you are interested in them. I have been told numerous times that I am sending signals to chicks / or that they are hitting on me when all I think is going on is conversation.

Can someone help me with this, so I don't look like an ass when I leave a conversation to pick up a hotter chick. :thumup:

[Shibby]

You should watch a show called The Pick Up Artist :)

[NewbieChris]

You should watch a show called The Pick Up Artist :)

Sometimes I hate you.

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If I were gay would that be considered hitting on you?

[Shibby]

It depends on the tone and context :)

[Shibby]

I was serious about watching the show. Not to learn how to pick up women, but to see how these inexperienced guys interact in the bars and see how the women act when a guy is doing well and when he is embarrassing himself.

[NewbieChris]

Part of the problem is, I am blatantly not from this planet. I wouldn't even notice that she was sending a signal. Ya know?

Like I had no idea this weekend.

[Shibby]

Do you know what show I'm talking about?

[blm]

I was serious about watching the show. Not to learn how to pick up women, but to see how these inexperienced guys interact in the bars and see how the women act when a guy is doing well and when he is embarrassing himself.

From that perspective, it was a decently interesting show; an entertaining social experiment.

[NewbieChris]

Do you know what show I'm talking about?

Not really a TV person. I'm just assuming its one of those shows where they turn socially awkward guys into studs or something on VH1 or MTV?

[blm]

Not really a TV person. I'm just assuming its one of those shows where they turn socially awkward guys into studs or something on VH1 or MTV?

Basically....

...but then again...you are one of 'those' awkward guys. :hibb:

[Shibby]

Not really a TV person. I'm just assuming its one of those shows where they turn socially awkward guys into studs or something on VH1 or MTV?

Yes and you can see how they are from another planet, and how the women react to them positively and negatively.

[NewbieChris]

Yes and you can see how they are from another planet, and how the women react to them positively and negatively.

I hate to be redundant, but unless he spells out what the hell a signal is..it doesn't matter. I'm pretty sure I know when I'm getting on a chicks bad side/or annoying her. I just don't know what kind of signals I am sending to THEM.

[Shibby]

No one can give you a direct answer. It's all situational.

[NewbieChris]

I really do have to live and learn. Damnit.

[liftsiron]

The first thing to realize it that guys don't pick up girls, most girls just let guys think this. It's the female that makes the choice from the getgo.