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Life has been pretty shitty last couple weeks. Very stressful with spliting up with my wife and everything. We are still living together but she closes on her new house in a couple weeks. Its kinda embrassing but I'll say it. We are filing bankruptcy. I feel like such a failure, Im giving up two houses. One of them I rent out so I had to tell the lady she is going to have to find a place soon. I did tell her she can stay there for free until she does. My wife bought a new house in her mothers name and Im staying in this house until they come and kick me out. I think I have till May or June then I will get a apartment or rent a house or something. But the shitty part is my wife is turning into a bitch, well, she always was one but we were going though this very calm and civil. Now, since we are filing bankruptcy we stopped paying everything so not paying any bills leaves me with alot of cash in my pocket which drives her nuts. She tried to get me to start paying her child surport a few weeks ago even though the kids still live with both of us...lol So, we split food and ultilites 50/50. And its a struggle getting her half every month. She is like the roomate from hell. I just want us to be nice to each other and she just isnt a nice person. I have been driving myself nuts trying to make her see how she acts but she is to sellfish and immature to see. I see now why so many fathers arent in the picture, the women make it so hard on the men that if you dont stay away you might end up stabbing her in the face or something. I would never let her keep me from my kids but I wish she could just grow up...
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sorry to hear that bro.Originally posted by FrankTheTank55 View PostLife has been pretty shitty last couple weeks. Very stressful with spliting up with my wife and everything. We are still living together but she closes on her new house in a couple weeks. Its kinda embrassing but I'll say it. We are filing bankruptcy. I feel like such a failure, Im giving up two houses. One of them I rent out so I had to tell the lady she is going to have to find a place soon. I did tell her she can stay there for free until she does. My wife bought a new house in her mothers name and Im staying in this house until they come and kick me out. I think I have till May or June then I will get a apartment or rent a house or something. But the shitty part is my wife is turning into a bitch, well, she always was one but we were going though this very calm and civil. Now, since we are filing bankruptcy we stopped paying everything so not paying any bills leaves me with alot of cash in my pocket which drives her nuts. She tried to get me to start paying her child surport a few weeks ago even though the kids still live with both of us...lol So, we split food and ultilites 50/50. And its a struggle getting her half every month. She is like the roomate from hell. I just want us to be nice to each other and she just isnt a nice person. I have been driving myself nuts trying to make her see how she acts but she is to sellfish and immature to see. I see now why so many fathers arent in the picture, the women make it so hard on the men that if you dont stay away you might end up stabbing her in the face or something. I would never let her keep me from my kids but I wish she could just grow up...
just try and focus on things you can control.
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How are the kids handling it? If it's easy to talk about.Originally posted by FrankTheTank55 View PostLife has been pretty shitty last couple weeks. Very stressful with spliting up with my wife and everything. We are still living together but she closes on her new house in a couple weeks. Its kinda embrassing but I'll say it. We are filing bankruptcy. I feel like such a failure, Im giving up two houses. One of them I rent out so I had to tell the lady she is going to have to find a place soon. I did tell her she can stay there for free until she does. My wife bought a new house in her mothers name and Im staying in this house until they come and kick me out. I think I have till May or June then I will get a apartment or rent a house or something. But the shitty part is my wife is turning into a bitch, well, she always was one but we were going though this very calm and civil. Now, since we are filing bankruptcy we stopped paying everything so not paying any bills leaves me with alot of cash in my pocket which drives her nuts. She tried to get me to start paying her child surport a few weeks ago even though the kids still live with both of us...lol So, we split food and ultilites 50/50. And its a struggle getting her half every month. She is like the roomate from hell. I just want us to be nice to each other and she just isnt a nice person. I have been driving myself nuts trying to make her see how she acts but she is to sellfish and immature to see. I see now why so many fathers arent in the picture, the women make it so hard on the men that if you dont stay away you might end up stabbing her in the face or something. I would never let her keep me from my kids but I wish she could just grow up...
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Yeah, Im trying. Not to sound queer or anything. But, I feel so alone. I have never felt so isolated. I feel like Im about to explode I have alot of shit inside and noone to tell it to. I dont want to talk to my boys about such emotional things. Im at work all day and Im on my own walking around wiith pretty much no interraction and your mind just goes and goes. Then I come home and try to talk to her and she pretty much tells me to shut the fuck up. Then its hard to smile and play with the kids or help with homework. The whole thing sucks. I need a girlfriend I think. Just someone to occupy my thoughts with.Originally posted by THE BOUNCER View Postsorry to hear that bro.
just try and focus on things you can control.
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i give awesome hugs. :)Originally posted by FrankTheTank55 View PostYeah, Im trying. Not to sound queer or anything. But, I feel so alone. I have never felt so isolated. I feel like Im about to explode I have alot of shit inside and noone to tell it to. I dont want to talk to my boys about such emotional things. Im at work all day and Im on my own walking around wiith pretty much no interraction and your mind just goes and goes. Then I come home and try to talk to her and she pretty much tells me to shut the fuck up. Then its hard to smile and play with the kids or help with homework. The whole thing sucks. I need a girlfriend I think. Just someone to occupy my thoughts with.
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I have to say I am worried about the sudden flood of life changes they are about to get. Parents splitting, different living situation... I hope it will all be ok though.Originally posted by FrankTheTank55 View PostThey dont know we are splitting up. They know she bought the new house but they dont know Im not coming along.
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i went through all that shit.Originally posted by Shibby View PostI have to say I am worried about the sudden flood of life changes they are about to get. Parents splitting, different living situation... I hope it will all be ok though.
as long as one of the parents are there for you (my mom) it will be ok.
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