Am I wrong here?

[ROCKETW19]

I would in a second. It may sound selfish, but I do come first. I can't be the rock for everyone, so I start with me. The path I am on right now, if completing it means disconnecting from my family, I will do it in a second. And it seems like I need to at this point.

Wow ok maybe we had different relations with our parents!
I would give up "almost" anything for her.

[Bouncer]

yea, i think it has to do with relationships with parents.

my mom was always there for me. would defend her to the death.

[ROCKETW19]

yea, i think it has to do with relationships with parents.

my mom was always there for me. would defend her to the death.

:thumup:

[Mr I]

I understand awg to a point, and alot of it is about where he's at right now.

My mum raised me single handed from 12 and would do anything for her, but at the same time I had this whole thing with my nephew, and still do to a point, he lives with my mum, did the whole drugs thing, brought trouble to the house, I wanted to drive the 300 miles and throw him out, did once. I had to shut myself off from it for a bit.

Now, he still a little con man in some respects, but a certain sense of descency has returned to him, like the kid I once knew, works all he can, maybe never gonna be a rich man but he's definitely more grown up and more pleasant to talk to, more descency about him. Could be all bullshit but it looks like my mum turned him round to some extent.

Fucker still lives in the house though and mums moved in with her partner of 16 years so the creep has the house to himself lol!

He's probably trying to creep his way into her will now lol!

you know what though, it makes my mum happy so I don't care, life is too fragile to hate

[Bouncer]

I understand awg to a point, and alot of it is about where he's at right now.

My mum raised me single handed from 12 and would do anything for her, but at the same time I had this whole thing with my nephew, and still do to a point, he lives with my mum, did the whole drugs thing, brought trouble to the house, I wanted to drive the 300 miles and throw him out, did once. I had to shut myself off from it for a bit.

Now, he still a little con man in some respects, but a certain sense of descency has returned to him, like the kid I once knew, works all he can, maybe never gonna be a rich man but he's definitely more grown up and more pleasant to talk to, more descency about him. Could be all bullshit but it looks like my mum turned him round to some extent.

Fucker still lives in the house though and mums moved in with her partner of 16 years so the creep has the house to himself lol!

He's probably trying to creep his way into her will now lol!

you know what though, it makes my mum happy so I don't care, life is too fragile to hate

yea, that would piss me off.

[Mr I]

yea, that would piss me off.

yeah it did but she's happy and content, I'm doing what I want to do, he's not mentally capable of achieving anything great he's too dumb:retard:, just a bit of a sad case really so its probably best all round:):)

[Konitz]

Dude you are fuckin crazy I would never cut off my mom for sucsess(sp?)
I would live on the streets and be close to my mom over a mansion and not talking to her.

That's you personally, I just find the whole family thing kinda silly. I am forced to be nice to these people juse because they are my family? I would rather select the people I will be nice to and help out. My mother is the only family member I would help out, because she helped me out a lot over the years, but if I had someone trying to drag me down I'd cut them off in a second.

[alwaysgrowing]

That's you personally, I just find the whole family thing kinda silly. I am forced to be nice to these people juse because they are my family? I would rather select the people I will be nice to and help out. My mother is the only family member I would help out, because she helped me out a lot over the years, but if I had someone trying to drag me down I'd cut them off in a second.

I agree. People say you can't choose your family. They are right, but you can choose to extricate yourself from them if they are detrimental to your future.

[Mr I]

I agree. People say you can't choose your family. They are right, but you can choose to extricate yourself from them if they are detrimental to your future.

yo, just got back from seeing mum, family cold with me, there lack of apparent give a shitness embarrassed me infront of my wife, not even invited to stay anywhere. What I do wrong? nothing, made something of myself completely unreliant on family thats what lol!

Fuck it, still love em but happier away doing my own thing, feel emotionally drained, see your not the only one:)

[Bouncer]

yo, just got back from seeing mum, family cold with me, there lack of apparent give a shitness embarrassed me infront of my wife, not even invited to stay anywhere. What I do wrong? nothing, made something of myself completely unreliant on family thats what lol!

Fuck it, still love em but happier away doing my own thing, feel emotionally drained, see your not the only one:)

i have no fucken clue what you just said. explain again in proper english.

[alwaysgrowing]

I think he was saying BOuncer that he went and saw his family. Their I donj't care about you attitude embarrased him in front of his wife. This attitude came from nothing he did, so he doesn't rely on them. He does his own thing

[Mr I]

Exactly, love em but don't rely on them, do my own thing