family isn't doing too well

[the art of war]

just went out feeling like fuck it all but stayed in line - my rents told me they are going to seperate - caught me off guard, not because they seem happy but because they are in their 60s and frankly they both just seemed to accept civily that this was their life - I'm very used to it. Shit is fucking with my head , I know I'm better off with this happening later in my life than earlier, it's still a tough nut to swallow - but I'm home sober which was a huge test for me frankly. Whatever fuck it thats life right. Have any of you guys gone through anything like this ? At my age ?

If not my age - how did you handle it when it happened. Shit is a real mess iun the house now :(

[ROCKETW19]

I didnt go threw divorce but my dad just passed away last year. I still have a hard time with it. I guess the only thing I can say is at least they are both still here and you can see and talk to them. stay strong bro you know the drill.

[Mr I]

parents separated when I was 12, dad was scary anyway so glad the arguments stopped but it was still tough, I felt shame for some reason that my parents were separated, silly when I look at it now. So I became the only guy in the house which was good and bad at the same time. My sisters were 3 and 6 years older than me and the eldest always had boyfreinds that turned violent so I would have try scrap with them, not easy when your so much younger and punier.

Then dad died in a car crash when I was 15.

Feel for ya bro but like you said, better now than when you were younger I'd say, a little bit anyway

[Bouncer]

its for the best bro.

your mom and dad deserve a better life then they are giving to each other.

[blm]

its for the best bro.

your mom and dad deserve a better life then they are giving to each other.

I agree, simply put.

Don't bring yourself down over something that you have no control over.

[bigscott]

its for the best bro.

your mom and dad deserve a better life then they are giving to each other.

agreed

[wnabeabeast]

Agreed with the guys. As two adults this is what they decided.

I know this is going to sound kind of insensitive but the way I see it is when parents get divorce it's no different then us breaking up with our girlfriends. I mean when it doesn't workout we move on so why is it any different for our parents?

[the art of war]

yea , it's whatever man , shit happens and we move on - i see it as the same I guess.

[jack tors]

sucks bro, sorry to hear that. its best on you that it happened now or when you were 5yrs old b4 you knew any better. this just happened to my friend parents they were married for 30yrs! everyone knew the dad was a pain,in the ass and difficult. the mom just stuck it out for the kids until they were out of the house. now the both are much happier. old skool thinking there seems stupid to be unhappy for yrs just for your kids sake. its good that its civil bro. cuz for a while they would through him in the middle of it make him take sides and shit...

[buell]

things will turn out okay. and u should do your best to keep a even keel with your relationship with pa and ma and the way they regard you and the way u handle this .step up bro and move forward and not back whatever happens.

[the art of war]

things will turn out okay. and u should do your best to keep a even keel with your relationship with pa and ma and the way they regard you and the way u handle this .step up bro and move forward and not back whatever happens.

thanks brother - they are concerned about me due to the fact in the past i would've just gone and used - but I keep them calm by letting them piss test me - it's only fair, i put them thru hell.

That's what I'm harping on unfortunately is the fact that I put them through so much man, i feel like any family would have fallen apart - I certainly don't blame myself for it ALL - but at the same point I know that I certainly didn't help things, shit sucks bro. Just got focus on working , lifting , and of course my love affair with tren (lol) :P

[buell]

thanks brother - they are concerned about me due to the fact in the past i would've just gone and used - but I keep them calm by letting them piss test me - it's only fair, i put them thru hell.

That's what I'm harping on unfortunately is the fact that I put them through so much man, i feel like any family would have fallen apart - I certainly don't blame myself for it ALL - but at the same point I know that I certainly didn't help things, shit sucks bro. Just got focus on working , lifting , and of course my love affair with tren (lol) :P

well its seems that there is a plan and said plan includes u liftin and keepin it real for u and your ma and dad..so maintain and maintain again and do it again..let them know that u got your a game on and all is good ....fall apart later in your own time when no one is around and gather that shit up and spend it later .:)

[the art of war]

well its seems that there is a plan and said plan includes u liftin and keepin it real for u and your ma and dad..so maintain and maintain again and do it again..let them know that u got your a game on and all is good ....fall apart later in your own time when no one is around and gather that shit up and spend it later .:)

thanks brother - i will do this - as long as I have good people / good advice in my life - I'll be fine - I just need my friends - I skipped childhood ... skimmed thru growing up - wham im meant to be an adult, which ive fucked up royally - so time to just do what is best each day as it comes. Maybe this will all be for the best.

[Tizz]

thanks brother - they are concerned about me due to the fact in the past i would've just gone and used - but I keep them calm by letting them piss test me - it's only fair, i put them thru hell.

awww you let your mommy and daddy piss test you? lmao you sound like a real winner. I'm now embarrassed for ever arguing with such a low life. I've lost some brain cells and street cred. lmao

[the art of war]

awww you let your mommy and daddy piss test you? lmao you sound like a real winner. I'm now embarrassed for ever arguing with such a low life. I've lost some brain cells and street cred. lmao

I'd let anyone piss test me - it's called being responsible - keep searching out threads of mine and try to make me give a fuck you exist LOL , you think anything you say matters after the fool you made already. Love me , try to touch me , it's obvious you need me - fucking joke bahahaha. You just took curtis role in my life on this board - another laugh at your own expense congrats !