Real Nightmare

[dago]

Man I had the worse nightmare last night it is really bothering me today. I dreamed that I was at this house and my little girls mother is there my daughter is 8. Anyway I know something bad has happened and I keep asking her whats going on and she finally tells me my little girl was raped by her boyfriend. So I go to my daughter and she tells me what happened man it so fucking real and graphic when I woke up it was like this shit had really happened. Anyway in my dream I'm looking for this guy outside and its dark and raining and I'm gonna kill him period. I remember thinking I was gonna do it with my bare hands. My parents are there and everybody is freaking out but like everybody just expects me to kill this dude. And I'm thinking that I probably won't get the death penalty because of the circumstances but will most likely get life. So I'm out in the rain soaking wet looking for this guy and 2 state troopers roll up on me and they are looking for him too. They are trying to talk to me but I'm just like in a trance and my hatred is just demonic. I'm standing there in the rain and its like a thunderstorm with lighting and shit and these cops are standing in front of me with their ponchos and shit on but I'm just drenched. The worst part of the dream was the look on my kids face when she told me what happened and I could really hear her voice it was so real.

I don't know what caused this dream and its tripping me out. My daughters mother has been with this guy for 7 years now and I don't like him but my daughter loves him he is good to her. We have had some problems in the past but this dream was crazy. Idk if its my paranoia about something happening to my only little girl or my hatred for this guy that caused this dream. I had a similar dream that something was happening to her once before in this really big house and I was running from room to room trying to find her and I finally did at the last moment before I woke up. This was without a doubt the worst dream I've ever had in my life. Most of my dreams don't make sense just weird random shit in different places with different people and I forget them soon after I wake up. Not this one this shit was scary, the human mind is a strange thing...

[dna9488]

There are many ways to interpret this dreams in a psychological point. Whether its a behaviorist theory or whatever.

Regardless, it makes sense for your stressors in life to affect your dreams. Its your brains way of dealing with it. Don't think too much of it, because it will just add on to your stress.

If it will make you feel better, call your ex and ask to speak with your daughter. I am sure having her reassure you that she's fine and happy will put your mind to ease.

[dago]

There are many ways to interpret this dreams in a psychological point. Whether its a behaviorist theory or whatever.

Regardless, it makes sense for your stressors in life to affect your dreams. Its your brains way of dealing with it. Don't think too much of it, because it will just add on to your stress.

If it will make you feel better, call your ex and ask to speak with your daughter. I am sure having her reassure you that she's fine and happy will put your mind to ease.

I have done that already Dna I spoke to her earlier she is fine. I didn;t mention the dream to anyone

[dna9488]

I have done that already Dna I spoke to her earlier she is fine. I didn;t mention the dream to anyone

in that case, sit down, relax, and know that everything is fine. Dreams are dreams, nothing more.

[dago]

in that case, sit down, relax, and know that everything is fine. Dreams are dreams, nothing more.

I guess thanks man...

[dna9488]

no problem bro

[Ashop]

in that case, sit down, relax, and know that everything is fine. Dreams are dreams, nothing more.

I agree. Thats why they are called nightmares. They generally mean nothing from what I have found.

[jack tors]

u start that Tren yet

[dago]

u start that Tren yet

No I'm not using any gear at the moment

[mofo]

There are many ways to interpret this dreams in a psychological point. Whether its a behaviorist theory or whatever.

Regardless, it makes sense for your stressors in life to affect your dreams. Its your brains way of dealing with it. Don't think too much of it, because it will just add on to your stress.

If it will make you feel better, call your ex and ask to speak with your daughter. I am sure having her reassure you that she's fine and happy will put your mind to ease.

since when did you become a therapist?

dago. i read a theory about dreams that stated that they are simply your brain running scenarios by your consciousness to prepare you for any situation that could occur. i'm not saying that what you had a nightmare about will come true (and i hope it won't) but i think it's a valid theory. your brain is playing the "what if" game and running scenarios and allowing you to take actions without suffering from consequences like going to jail or taking the life of someone.

while i think you should talk to your daughter's mother, you should also take it as a sign that you should do some self-reflection on how you would deal with situations that surround your daughter. even though she's only 8 there is no time better than now to decide how you will keep her safe when she starts to date or even just befriend guys. it's always good to have even a skeletal plan when it comes to situations like these to prevent over-reaction.

but at the end of the day, it is just a dream. don't worry. :)

[Shibby]

I will tell you right now that a dream is just a dream. Doesn't mean anything. We've all had some pretty messed up dreams and they can effect you mentally after waking up from them. They don't mean anything other than you have a vivid idea of something that was maybe just a momentary thought previously.

Some examples.

I knew this woman who was ok, but nothing that I have desired. I then had this dream that I had great sex with her. For the next month or so, every time I saw her I got turned on. Over time things went back to normal and I saw her the same way I use to. Basically what I briefly saw in her was not her and only what would make her desirable in a perfect scenario. One that she didn't fit, the more I started paying attention to what was right in front of me and not what was in my head.

Another, I had a dream of something happening to my older son. It actually made me yell in my sleep and my wife had to shake me awake. It gave me anxiety for a couple days. The world around me stayed the same and then my mind let go of it and everything was fine.

Oddly enough I haven't had a nightmare or a dream that vivid in 3+years. Something changed where either I know I'm dreaming, in my dream; or as soon as I wake up I take a moment to shake it off, get slightly intrigued and go right back to sleep. Then it never effects me again, but I might think about it in a curiosity sense.

[dago]

since when did you become a therapist?

dago. i read a theory about dreams that stated that they are simply your brain running scenarios by your consciousness to prepare you for any situation that could occur. i'm not saying that what you had a nightmare about will come true (and i hope it won't) but i think it's a valid theory. your brain is playing the "what if" game and running scenarios and allowing you to take actions without suffering from consequences like going to jail or taking the life of someone.

while i think you should talk to your daughter's mother, you should also take it as a sign that you should do some self-reflection on how you would deal with situations that surround your daughter. even though she's only 8 there is no time better than now to decide how you will keep her safe when she starts to date or even just befriend guys. it's always good to have even a skeletal plan when it comes to situations like these to prevent over-reaction.

but at the end of the day, it is just a dream. don't worry. :)

Thank you. I worry about her constantly she is exactly like me in every way but that she is a girl. The part of town she lives in they found a child in a garbage can awhile back. Arrested a sex offendor that lived nearby and he just pled guilty to all kinds of horrible shit. I went to see her and give her momma some money last Sunday and her and her brother are out in the yard playing, they live on a dead end street but I kept thinking how vunerable she was you know so little and helpless. She is so smart and beautiful blonde hair and blue eyes I just have this dreadful feeling that something is gonna happen to her sooner or later. Especially when she becomes a teen you know south louisville is a rough part of town. I know your right I have to be prepared for stuff things are gonna happen I just pray that it will never be anything like what I dreamed about