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  • Should parents have to be licensed?

    Let's discuss the subject

    Should we need a license to be a parent?; Janice Turner
    You need a licence to drive a car, serve liquor, go on a deer hunt, heck, you need a licence to call yourself a barber.

    Why not to raise a child?

    Why is it that society demands so very little of prospective parents?

    That's what two Nova Scotia academics want to know. They suggest would-be moms and dads be required to get a ``parenting'' licence.

    Their idea has attracted much attention, not all of it flattering.

    They call the concept pro-active. Some call the idea elitist and authoritarian.

    They insist they have only the best interests of children in mind. Parents would be more respectful of their obligations if they had to earn the privilege, they say. A licence would set some minimum requirements, symbolize the importance of parenting and underscore the notion of children's rights.

    Child abuse and child abandonment hit the headlines with depressing frequency. Most recently, a 5-year-old girl was found wandering barefoot in the snow in the middle of the night while her mother was at a karaoke bar. The Toronto Children's Aid Society said it deals with 10 cases each week in which children have been left unattended.

    A Toronto Star investigation two years ago looked at 70 cases between 1991 and 1996 in which a parent (or other caregiver such as a mother's boyfriend) was charged criminally after a child died of abuse.

    Katherine Covell, an associate professor of psychology, and husband Brian Howe, an associate political science professor, are directors of the Children's Rights Centre at the University College of Cape Breton. They maintain that family life and parental freedoms are already regulated. The trouble is, they say, the rules deal with problems after the fact.
    Last edited by alwaysgrowing; 12-04-10, 07:26 PM.

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    Damn you suck at links :D

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Shibby View Post
      Damn you suck at links :D

      :pissed::pissed::pissed:

      lol. And it is not that I don't know how to do it. Yet still screw it up

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      • #4
        I definitely agree that it would be nice to be able to make parents more responsible. It would just be impossible to "license" since you don't need anything but sex to make it happen.

        I think a nice start would be after having a first one, if you are on welfare or have charges of "bad parenting" and have a second child you are forced to have a vasectomy or tubal.

        From there if your faith creates an environment where you have more kids than you can financially give a quality future to, but do not fit into the above category, you should be ineligible for any kind of charity outside your faith. No Angel Food, no toys for tots, none of that kind of stuff.

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        • #5
          I feel that if I need a license to skydive when I place my own life at risk, someone (a parent) who has another's life (child) in their hands should have to be vetted somehow. Too many bad parents leading to screwed up children. Although the few who make it out from extreme hell of a youth tend to be strong adults who make a difference

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          • #6
            Everything else that you need a license for means going to some sort of vendor to get it. Hunting, need to buy a gun or bow and laws restricting you you can sell to( I don't think anyone has got a knife hunting license :D). Fishing, fishing stuff. Sell liquor, regulated and laws restricting who you can sell to.

            Licensing to cut hair is more of an accreditation than a necessity to work.

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            • #7
              though it would be impossible, yes. there should be some sort of regulation to having kids. people don't realize how much of a financial/emotional/social/physical/mental burden it is to have a kid. i'm not saying i speak from experience but i have seen people who are my age with children doing a crappy job.

              i'm all for counseling before childbirth. to-be-parents should know how to deal with situations around their children, including having the drug talk, the sex talk and even making sure the parents know how to plan a decent future as a family.

              and it would also help to make sure that the couple can financially support the children without relying on welfare. it would make a huge impact on our economy to cut out child support checks signed by the government.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by rado
                Good post...But with that said...You can't prevent the unexpected; and that happens more often that you'd like.
                oh i know. that's why i worry about myself and don't stress out about Dante and his 15 kids with different baby mommas.

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