Does this happen with you guys? - Dealing with Mom - Need input.

[BEAST]

I know this kind of backwards but try to call her more often for a bit, maybe then she won't have to much shit bottled up to talk about. :dunno:

[Bouncer]

Na, closer you get the worse it gets.

[dna9488]

just had a battle with her. ended with us agreeing not to talk to each other for awhile..

Other ways to deal with it. She is your mother man.

she thinks life is all about being miserable and feuding with everyone. fuck her. full of piss and vinegar.

:disagree:

[Bouncer]

You don't know bro, she is borderline insane.

[dago]

So my mom lives about 2 hours from me. Every time she calls she wants to tell me all this drama BS, its always something no matter what she has something negative to say. It has gotten to the point where when I see she is calling I get stressed out. I will be having a great day and boom talk to her for 10 minutes and I am stressed out. It has gotten to the point where I am pulling away from her. Even though I live 2 hours away I only see her maybe 4 times a year. I love her and all that and I dont want to be mean to her but fucks sake she is just a miserable old bitch these days. I refuse to let her drag me down into a shitty mood anymore.

You guys go through anything similar? How do you deal with it?

Bro I go through the same shit with my mother and it sucks ass. She is always depressed and doesn't understand a lot very old school. She is going through menapause or however you spell it. I thought about posting the same shit on here the other day. In the end I just have to remember that she is my Mother and deal with it. Its not easy i feel ya man try to have some patience and understanding you may regret it later if you don't and regret sucks I know trust me.

[Bouncer]

Ha, my mom been saying she has been going threw menopause for 15 Fucken years

[dago]

Ha, my mom been saying she has been going threw menopause for 15 Fucken years

Mine too...trust me I feel ya:wack: Still my mom though

[Bouncer]

YouTube - eminem - cleaning out my closet

[redback]

Just say; "Fuck your uncle" :)

Yup. Call her an uncle fucker

[Bouncer]

Got into another fight with her. We just cant seem to get along anymore. We dont agree on anything, we see everything differently etc..

Sucks. Our wedding is coming up soon etc.. and the relationship between me and my mom has just taken a nose dive in the last 6 months.

[BEAST]

Got into another fight with her. We just cant seem to get along anymore. We dont agree on anything, we see everything differently etc..

Sucks. Our wedding is coming up soon etc.. and the relationship between me and my mom has just taken a nose dive in the last 6 months.

Sorry to hear that bro. I wish I had a better advice for you but at this point just because she mom and you know how she is you should keep the conversations to the basic hi, how are you, just wanted to check in and say hi.
And be done with it. This way you can save both of you from headache and aggravation.

[Bouncer]

Sorry to hear that bro. I wish I had a better advice for you but at this point just because she mom and you know how she is you should keep the conversations to the basic hi, how are you, just wanted to check in and say hi.
And be done with it. This way you can save both of you from headache and aggravation.

tried that. problem is we have so many issues and fights with each other that it doesnt work. there is anger etc..

[dna9488]

Sorry to hear that Bouncer. Hopefully your relationship changes with her soon.

[Mr I]

Got into another fight with her. We just cant seem to get along anymore. We dont agree on anything, we see everything differently etc..

Sucks. Our wedding is coming up soon etc.. and the relationship between me and my mom has just taken a nose dive in the last 6 months.

Maybe she's getting afraid she's losing you, the marriage may be making it all too plain to see. Also how old is she?, does she have social life? Is she going cenile?

[Bouncer]

Na, she has so many issues and stresses of her own she is just becoming a different person. Not enough money to pay her bills, splitting up with husband and then getting back together every 2 months, the list goes on and on.