me being selfish is gonna lose the best thing in my life,my lady

[BigSoda]

latley I havent been there like I should and really just not being the man I should be to her,she is the best woman guy could ask for yet in the last few months i have been acting like an ass.I think she is done with me and I hope to god not,she is my life she is great ,I just hope its not to late.

[pigmeat]

Hope everything works out. It took my wife leaving my dead ass for me to realize what I realy had. Luckily for me, things worked out!

[BigSoda]

thanks bro shes the world ta me

[JUICE]

Hey Soda Ive gone through the same man with my girl. I feel like an ass at times like right now she was playing with me and I jumped at her and told her to stop. She was just plaing with me, damn I feel like an idiot. Shes my everything in the world and Ilove her so so much.

Hey man try to do the best for her man, try to please her more, take her out without doin stupid things tihngs like that. If u know she does something to get u mad dont bro,as hard as its gonna kill u man dont. If u need advice bigbro feel free to ask amigo.I like helping bros out with relationship advice.

[Gongshow]

good luck to ya bro

[IntensityX]

Re: me being selfish is gonna lose the best thing in my life,my lady

Originally posted by BigSoda
latley I havent been there like I should and really just not being the man I should be to her,she is the best woman guy could ask for yet in the last few months i have been acting like an ass.I think she is done with me and I hope to god not,she is my life she is great ,I just hope its not to late.

Bro you need to tell her how much you love her with all of your heart bro take her out to a romantic dinner,buy her roses with a card and just spend some time with her,your a good bro Soda and I would hate to see stuff like this happen to ya bro,especially in light of what happen with Jim,stay strong bro and most of all,keep those you love close to your heart.

Eat,Learn,Train,Grow
IntensityX

[jack hust]

best wishes bro your a great person she will stay around

[urso8up]

Good luck and i hope everything works out.

[Bruce Banner]

Good luck with your lady bro.

We really don't realize what we have, until we lose it.

[Stonecold54]

soda,

if you mean what you say and want her to stay with you, you need to do more than say things to her and give things to her. you need to give yourself to her. saying I love you is the easiest thing in the world to do, showing someone you love them is the hardest. My girl, and i am not bragging, would never have to hear me say the words, I love you, because I show her every day. Its listiening to her, doing small things for her, understanding her, and lastly doing the best for yourself. People need to be on the level with themselves before anyone is going to want to be with them. you can't have a solid relationship with someone else until you have a solid relationship with yourself.

[Starr]

Stonecold said it perfectly - it's not saying the words, it's the actions that will mean the world to her.

I actually just left my husband because he failed to show me the love that I needed. And when I told him that I was leaving, regardless of how much I love him and am in love with him, it was time for me to go because his actions showed me that I was not the girl for him. So he scrambled to be the man I needed him to be...but it was too late. For my own heart, I had to go, he should have shown me the entire time - not at the 11th hour when I already had opened the door to leave.

There is no need to buy your girl flowers, candy, gifts...all she really wants from you is your heart.

[Trojanmn2]

good luck bro, just make sure you don't get too lazy by being too comfortable in your position. Remember what you guys are and what you have been to her. Keep in my mind whats on HER mind all the time.

See, I don't buy things for her love, I don't just tell her I love her, I show it........but its hard when you're with a person who takes almost everything as an accusation to her and its hard to believe that I she's being listened and understood when she has a paranoia over her head. Pretty soon she doesn't how to see the love coming to her.

[petite]

Originally posted by Starr
Stonecold said it perfectly - it's not saying the words, it's the actions that will mean the world to her.

I actually just left my husband because he failed to show me the love that I needed. And when I told him that I was leaving, regardless of how much I love him and am in love with him, it was time for me to go because his actions showed me that I was not the girl for him. So he scrambled to be the man I needed him to be...but it was too late. For my own heart, I had to go, he should have shown me the entire time - not at the 11th hour when I already had opened the door to leave.

There is no need to buy your girl flowers, candy, gifts...all she really wants from you is your heart.

EXACTLY!!! I agree with Starr on this one 100%

[Liftingchic]

Me too.. i am with Starr.100%..



Soda.. i hope all works out because i want what is best for you and i don't want to see you sad anymore :(

[philt]

Good Luck

Lots of great advice Bro I would let her know how you feel, just like you wrote in this post, and never let your ego get in the way we are men and we do that alot . Apologize. I have been with my wife now 10 years of marriage and five dating so 15 years all together and she dose mean the world to me we have two sons. I have found over the years to be straight up with her about every little thing that goes on with me. Bro in every relation ship you have your ups and downs, But true love never fades. I don't know if I am making any sense, but remember if you truly lover her you will do what ever it takes. Good Luck Bro hopes it works out for you.