Internet conversation, need opinions.

[stormshadow]

I met this chit on the internet Sunday night when i was bored and hanging out in my room. I hardly know her but have fallen head over heals for her. The thing is I looked her up at the college that she supposedly goes to and there is no record of her. I'm attaching her picture also. She has not been online since we talked so I don't know if it was someone fucking with me, or if she just hasn't been online. Please read and tell me what you think. I guess I really like her because she is so young, and my last gf was 33, so I'm excited to be hanging out with a young girl.

vgirl2002: hi
stormshadow_2k: do you go to UVM ?
vgirl2002: I do
stormshadow_2k: cool
stormshadow_2k: I wasn't able to open your profile?
stormshadow_2k: what is your major?
vgirl2002: communications/public relations
stormshadow_2k: are you married
vgirl2002: me?
stormshadow_2k: yeah u
vgirl2002: i'm 19 years old
stormshadow_2k: yeah but you are gorgeous, I figured some guy would have snatched you up by now
stormshadow_2k: they get married young around here
vgirl2002: awww, that's sweet, thank you
stormshadow_2k: does your bf tell you that?
vgirl2002: my imaginary bf tells me that all the time :P
stormshadow_2k: well you deserve it
stormshadow_2k: do you workout at the gym
vgirl2002: I do
stormshadow_2k: cool
stormshadow_2k: I am training for the burlington bodybuilding show in april
vgirl2002: really? that's awesome, you're a very handsome guy by the way
stormshadow_2k: oh thanks, I look much better with my hair grown in
stormshadow_2k: I shave it off sometimes
vgirl2002: haven't seen it grown in, but you look great with it shaven
stormshadow_2k: really? thats good to hear
stormshadow_2k: so you are 19 ?
vgirl2002: I am
stormshadow_2k: can I add you to my buddy list?
vgirl2002: sure please do
stormshadow_2k: do you use the weights?
vgirl2002: free weights a little but only 20 lbs :">
stormshadow_2k: hey thats good for your size
stormshadow_2k: what is your name btw
vgirl2002: I don't want to get to muscular, just stay well toned
vgirl2002: it's Jill
stormshadow_2k: I am Jared
vgirl2002: hi Jared
stormshadow_2k: do you live on campus or with mom and dad?
vgirl2002: I live on campus, my parents are in Boston
stormshadow_2k: oh, so do you go home often?
vgirl2002: not a whole lot, I just came back today from home though
stormshadow_2k: tired?
vgirl2002: not really
stormshadow_2k: any chance you want to do something this weekend?
vgirl2002: I bet we could probably work that out
stormshadow_2k: nice
stormshadow_2k: I was going to see the matrix with my roomate and her friend, if you were interested in that. We could also do something just u and me
stormshadow_2k: I could also help you pump up those arms in the gym
vgirl2002: I don't want them to be to pumped
stormshadow_2k: I know, I was kidding
vgirl2002: :-P
vgirl2002: when is your body building show?
stormshadow_2k: its probably hard for you to tell when I'm joking on here
stormshadow_2k: I joke around alot, if you like a funny guy
stormshadow_2k: I can be serious too
stormshadow_2k: it is in april
stormshadow_2k: I dont' start to diet down until dec
vgirl2002: are you gonna wear one of those binki things in it?
stormshadow_2k: yep...:">
vgirl2002: don't let me forget about it, I want to be there
stormshadow_2k: that is standard
stormshadow_2k: I went to it last year to check out the competition
stormshadow_2k: it is an awesome experience, even if you are not into bodybuilding
stormshadow_2k: the crowd goes nuts...there are girls that compete also
vgirl2002: i'm not really I just want to see you in the binki trunks
stormshadow_2k: men and women of all ages
stormshadow_2k: :">
stormshadow_2k: so you have a roomate I assume
vgirl2002: I do
stormshadow_2k: do you get along with her
vgirl2002: we get along really well
stormshadow_2k: thats good..my roomate and me got along real well
stormshadow_2k: so can I give you a call sometime
vgirl2002: we'll get there
stormshadow_2k: ok
stormshadow_2k: thats fine
vgirl2002: how tall are you?
stormshadow_2k: 5' 11"
vgirl2002: cool
stormshadow_2k: how tall are you
vgirl2002: 5'7
stormshadow_2k: you look like a size 1 or 2
vgirl2002: you're good
stormshadow_2k: lucky is more like it hehe
stormshadow_2k: I'm alot bigger then you :-P
vgirl2002: yes I know
stormshadow_2k: who was your last boyfriend
vgirl2002: he's someone from boston
stormshadow_2k: no one from college has asked you out?
stormshadow_2k: are you the study hard type or the party hard type
vgirl2002: we didn't break up until August, i've been out with a few guys but nothing serious
vgirl2002: I do both
stormshadow_2k: do you like it here
vgirl2002: I do, I like it here a lot, this my second year in Burlington
stormshadow_2k: thats cool, I get tired of hearing people complain about it
vgirl2002: the icy air that comes off the lake is the only thing I complain about
stormshadow_2k: well you have to find someone to keep you warm
vgirl2002: yeap, if he wears bikini trunks that's a plus too
stormshadow_2k: I'll have to go shopping for them once I start to lean up
stormshadow_2k: find my color
stormshadow_2k: they are pretty skimpy...not like a speedo, they are even smaller
stormshadow_2k: I swam in highschool
vgirl2002: even better than i thought then
stormshadow_2k: when is your birthday
vgirl2002: sept 10
stormshadow_2k: so you just turned 19
vgirl2002: yeap i'm still a baby
stormshadow_2k: have you ever gone out with someone older
vgirl2002: my ex boyfriend was older but only a year
stormshadow_2k: I turned 24 end of July
vgirl2002: cool
stormshadow_2k: is that a turn off?
vgirl2002: that's a big plus
stormshadow_2k: most girlz like older guys
vgirl2002: including me
stormshadow_2k: I have noticed that
stormshadow_2k: a lady at work is 30 and married a guy who is 45
vgirl2002: that's cool
stormshadow_2k: are you doing homework?
vgirl2002: i'm finishing up a paper
stormshadow_2k: ok am I bothering you
vgirl2002: not at all
stormshadow_2k: so you go to the UVM gym?
vgirl2002: yeah
stormshadow_2k: are you going to do some pushups before bed?
vgirl2002: I don't know if I will tonight or not
stormshadow_2k: I was teasing
stormshadow_2k: what is your paper on?
vgirl2002: the affect war has on the global economy
stormshadow_2k: well I hope you didn't mess up and have a sentence talking about bikini trunks in there
vgirl2002: lol........I didn't I just kept that as a mental picture
stormshadow_2k: so is there anything you are dieing to know about me
vgirl2002: you mean other than what you look like in those binikis
stormshadow_2k: :">
stormshadow_2k: man you like to embarrass don't ya
vgirl2002: nah
stormshadow_2k: what is your last name
vgirl2002: gering
stormshadow_2k: pronounced gear-ing
stormshadow_2k: ?
vgirl2002: long a
stormshadow_2k: ok, I'm lost you will have to say it for me sometime
vgirl2002: lol.......ok
stormshadow_2k: what time do you go to bed
vgirl2002: just depends usully around 12
stormshadow_2k: ok, I have to go to sleep now
vgirl2002: oh ok
stormshadow_2k: well I would really like to hang out this weekend and get to know you, leave me a message with your number sometime ok
vgirl2002: I will
stormshadow_2k: and don't be thinking about other guys in bikini's
stormshadow_2k: thats only me :-P
vgirl2002: don't worry
stormshadow_2k: ok, goodnight Jill, it was really nice to meet you...I promise a good time...get in touch with me soon
vgirl2002: great talking with you sweet dreams
stormshadow_2k: night
vgirl2002: night


Here is the pic.

[new231]

Looks ok to me. Maybe she is just busy with school and not been online for awhile. I am 28 and my girlfriend just turned 20. She is always busy with school and some nights I don't even get to talk to her on the phone. I met her online and it took us about a week or so to get back in to contact with each other and eventually go out. She still lives with her parents and they were cool with us dating, even with the age difference and meeting over the internet. We have been dating three years now.

[stormshadow]

What site did you meet her on? I met this chick on Yahoo. I've been checking out Yahoo (in my spare time when I"m bored) for the past 5-6 years and this is the first descent looking chick that I've ever come close to dating. All the others were fat and/or crazy bitches.

[Shibby]

Have you ever checked out Friendster? I like it because it's free.

[Tinfish]

wow that made me feel so old. :(

[stormshadow]

Whatever it is, I have been thinking about her alot and have really been anxious for her to get back to me. She is so damn cute and young.

You have to realize that I am 24 and never even went out on a date until I was 18 and didn't sleep with a chick until I met my ex, and I was 22. So I am really behind in the game. Most people probably went through this shit when they were 13, but I never did so I am still caught up on shit that is old news to others.

[stormshadow]

Originally posted by fitness-girl
you need to slow down w/her. I noticed in the conversation you were asking to take her out, get her number etc. and that might have been a little much for her. It would have scared me away. You left it up to her to message you so just chill and let her. chat w/ her more before you ask her out. also she might not even want a relationship so you don't want to come off as a pyscho to her.

Well I wanted to get established because she is very attractive, and when she goes online she probably has alot of guys hitting on her. Its also very easy to lose touch with each other when your only method of correspondence is instant messaging.

BTW my calf got infected from a site injection so I went to the doc today and got some antibiodics and some vicodin. I took 4 of those puppies (double dose) and I am feeling pretty good right now...I am a very caring and loving guy, so I'm really craving a sweet little girl to hug!

My roomate who is a girl says that I'm high maintenance...I really like hugs :)

[Nekrawulf]

Ok MY OPINION.... you claim to be a sweet guy.... yet in your conversation you are the one being the driving force, with an agressive progression towards divulging personal information, with the inference of a relationship. Now to me... that doesnt sound like a nice guy.

My opinion, you scared her off, and quite possibly added you to her yahoo block list(that would explain why you cant see her online)

[Gongshow]

good luck dude!

[GearTripper]

be careful.. could be some old dude on the other end.

[JUICE]

good looking girl but be careful bro