How shallow are you?

[FrankTheTank55]

You speak of girls/boys.

We grown men act differently; young boy you are

Grown men should be mature enough to know what's really important in life...

[jack tors]

Shallow people are just insecure. They think the people they date or hangout with are a reflection of themself. They are more worried about what people think they are rather then what they really are. I've always dated attractive women but they didn't have to be perfect for me to hook up with them. I've even taken a couple ugly chicks home here and there after the bar. Oh, and once I had a one night stand with a fat girl!! :)

is nt that just what ugly ppl say to make themselfs feel better?

[Bouncer]

i dont really get it. are you shallow if you wont date someone your not attracted to?

[Sassycat]

ok ... from a woman's perspective ...I've dated really exquisite men ,younger men ,then men the kind of ugly that you want to beat up ... It all comes down to dynamics ...it seems that the younger men fall in love with me and I get weird about what ppl think of the age ,then the ugly ones just want to conquer me for "status" and try harder with lies ultimately screwing you over the worst ,in my experience ... the men that take care of themselves and that are most comfortable in their own skin that are the most attractive and I have better relationships with ,but truth be known ...it comes down to friendship and mutual respect: looks are actually just a(bonus).... it's going to be the one that you even have fun with in the grocery store big ass or not ... because in the end the right woman will love you no matter how small your penis is and even if it falls off the next day ... E<3

[FrankTheTank55]

i dont really get it. are you shallow if you wont date someone your not attracted to?

No, it's being with somebody completely based on their looks. I'm not saying you're shallow if you won't date a obese chick or a complete dog. But if a girl isn't a 10 but super nice and loyal and you won't give her a chance because she isn't perfect looking than that is shallow.

[mofo]

i've dated some less-than-attractive men but they were probably the most honest, loyal ones out there. i've also dated some ridiculously good-looking ones too, but they are too focused on what they should do because they want to keep up this "image" that they become douchebags.

[jack tors]

ok...it comes down to friendship and mutual respect: looks are actually just a(bonus).... it's going to be the one that you even have fun with in the grocery store big ass or not ... because in the end the right woman will love you no matter how small your penis is and even if it falls off the next day ... E<3

I agree w this but if your ugly it would never get this far.

[jack tors]

i've dated some less-than-attractive men but they were probably the most honest, loyal ones out there. i've also dated some ridiculously good-looking ones too, but they are too focused on what they should do because they want to keep up this "image" that they become douchebags.

Young and imature guys I'm sure. I can honestly say I could care less what anyone thinks of me

[Bouncer]

I just hate guys that are into themselves! Lolz

[dago]

I agree w this but if your ugly it would never get this far.

:rofl:

[FitnessBrat]

Interesting responses....

I don't care if you're the nicest guy in the world, my best friend, my closest confidante, whatever. If I am not attracted to you, then it stays just that. I can not be with someone I am not physically attracted to. I also don't think that makes me shallow.

[FrankTheTank55]

Interesting responses....

I don't care if you're the nicest guy in the world, my best friend, my closest confidante, whatever. If I am not attracted to you, then it stays just that. I can not be with someone I am not physically attracted to. I also don't think that makes me shallow.

Being shallow is only dating someone because their looks. I agree attraction has to be there but if someone has great qualities and would treat me great but maybe they're not a perfect 10 I can see past that.

Would you date a guy that was incredibly good looking but his personality sucked? If so I think that's sad.

[FitnessBrat]

Being shallow is only dating someone because their looks. I agree attraction has to be there but if someone has great qualities and would treat me great but maybe they're not a perfect 10 I can see past that.

Would you date a guy that was incredibly good looking but his personality sucked? If so I think that's sad.

Obviously not. I just stated I needed to be physically attracted to them in ADDITION to other traits. I'm not interested in someone "fat" because that would obviously mean we do not share the same interest in taking care of ourselves - and that's a pretty big one (for ME). When I say someone I'm attracted to, I mean JUST me. I don't care if anyone else thinks they are attractive, nice, etc.

lol @ sad. I think it's sad to take someone home from a bar that you think is fat and unattractive just for sex. :wack:

[Bouncer]

Agree with fb. Frank you think your better or less shallow because you would date or take home some pig? Lol fuck outta here.

[FrankTheTank55]

Agree with fb. Frank you think your better or less shallow because you would date or take home some pig? Lol fuck outta here.

I never said I was better than anyone....lol

I just believe that some things are more important than other things in a relationship. I've been with super hot girls and to be honest they're only hot for a couple months before their personality ruins their looks.

I'm not saying I would date some fat ugly girl but I am willing to look past some physical flaws. Physical flaws are easier to look past than personality flaws. But whatever make you happy is cool with me. I'm just saying how I am.