Am I a racist

[dago]

Man 9 times out of 10 if I have problem with a guy they are black always. My girl started a lil part time job for a lil extra Christmas money about a week ago. Its lil restaruant anyways this black dude tried to holla at her she said to him I know your girlfrind she works at the grocery up the street. Black dude works with my girl not a customer. Well the last 4 days in a row he been saying things to her but she wouldn't tell me as I try to be good but it dont always go down that way I admit and thats stupid for me. Today she told me she couldn't take it anymore and came clean with me. Says he stares at her makes her uncomforable keeps making out of line remarks..last thing he said to her before she left he walked by said hey when you gonna drop your bf and go out with me. So she says to him look I have a bf and he's not 150lbs or a bitch Ima tell him and he will come up here. She told the managers they did nothing. She dont even have to work she has me. But she gets bored at home and its cold out she wants to make some extra cash for presents. Here is the kicker I know the dude went to school with him he 6' 150-160 name is Lamar real hard gangster type baller works for 8 bucks an hr..he doesn't know I'm her bf. So i dont need to be fighting I have a child and jail sucks so this what ima do. Go up there tomorrow ask for the manager and ask to see Lamar like I know him in which actually I do. I will be as nice as I can but..still make myself clear. Look I'm her bf your making her uncfortable leave her alone don't say anything to her unless its work related. If she tells me again I wont be outside waiting with a bunch of white dudes I'll be by myself waiting on you...and I will. Idk if he remembers me and I have changed a lot in size and I never hung out with black dudes or white boys that hang out with black dudes. I really shouldn't say black dudes because they are niggers and there is differnce in good black folk and niggers and the wanna be white boy wiggers are fucking pathetic imo. Nothing against a black man at all but now a days all types of races act like niggers its not even color anymore unless your on the yard in GP somewhere. Now its about just people act like they can just do or say whatever and nothing will happen because they are niggas my nigga feel me? He says another thing outta line to her ima get mad and agrgessive plus I already know he gonna have slick mouth to add fuel to it when I show up I could be wrong but you know them niggas :D then one of my friends said I was racist? I was like what? I opened the door for an elderly black lady at the gas station other day I played ball with black guys in school not niggers and never had a problem. I guess its gonna come down to if he wanna follow the rules..ya ok I see that happening. So the racist thing again as I said I denied it. My buddy says man only people you ever beef with is blacks how many frinds you have on fb and how many are black?? I wouldn't msre it that way but when I got home I looked one mixed girl :rofl: I'm not scared to fight at all would love to just slam him around real hard but the charges in Ky its fucked they frown on violence and I already have felony assualt not proud of it but I need to keep that in mind. Plus its a commonwealth state if he dont press charges the state picks it up. My girls friend told her to quit she aint having it. So there is me..what would you guys do and remember I have a little girl that needs me..I really just wanna smash him

[FitnessBrat]

Whew, I need a nap after that post :P

I think you know the answer. You really have no business going up to anyones work and causing a scene, because you know it isn't going to go "as planned." I have worked in that business for years. It comes with the territory, sorry. She's a big girl, tell her to ignore him.

[Bouncer]

Man 9 times out of 10 if I have problem with a guy they are black always. My girl started a lil part time job for a lil extra Christmas money about a week ago. Its lil restaruant anyways this black dude tried to holla at her she said to him I know your girlfrind she works at the grocery up the street. Black dude works with my girl not a customer. Well the last 4 days in a row he been saying things to her but she wouldn't tell me as I try to be good but it dont always go down that way I admit and thats stupid for me. Today she told me she couldn't take it anymore and came clean with me. Says he stares at her makes her uncomforable keeps making out of line remarks..last thing he said to her before she left he walked by said hey when you gonna drop your bf and go out with me. So she says to him look I have a bf and he's not 150lbs or a bitch Ima tell him and he will come up here. She told the managers they did nothing. She dont even have to work she has me. But she gets bored at home and its cold out she wants to make some extra cash for presents. Here is the kicker I know the dude went to school with him he 6' 150-160 name is Lamar real hard gangster type baller works for 8 bucks an hr..he doesn't know I'm her bf. So i dont need to be fighting I have a child and jail sucks so this what ima do. Go up there tomorrow ask for the manager and ask to see Lamar like I know him in which actually I do. I will be as nice as I can but..still make myself clear. Look I'm her bf your making her uncfortable leave her alone don't say anything to her unless its work related. If she tells me again I wont be outside waiting with a bunch of white dudes I'll be by myself waiting on you...and I will. Idk if he remembers me and I have changed a lot in size and I never hung out with black dudes or white boys that hang out with black dudes. I really shouldn't say black dudes because they are niggers and there is differnce in good black folk and niggers and the wanna be white boy wiggers are fucking pathetic imo. Nothing against a black man at all but now a days all types of races act like niggers its not even color anymore unless your on the yard in GP somewhere. Now its about just people act like they can just do or say whatever and nothing will happen because they are niggas my nigga feel me? He says another thing outta line to her ima get mad and agrgessive plus I already know he gonna have slick mouth to add fuel to it when I show up I could be wrong but you know them niggas :D then one of my friends said I was racist? I was like what? I opened the door for an elderly black lady at the gas station other day I played ball with black guys in school not niggers and never had a problem. I guess its gonna come down to if he wanna follow the rules..ya ok I see that happening. So the racist thing again as I said I denied it. My buddy says man only people you ever beef with is blacks how many frinds you have on fb and how many are black?? I wouldn't msre it that way but when I got home I looked one mixed girl :rofl: I'm not scared to fight at all would love to just slam him around real hard but the charges in Ky its fucked they frown on violence and I already have felony assualt not proud of it but I need to keep that in mind. Plus its a commonwealth state if he dont press charges the state picks it up. My girls friend told her to quit she aint having it. So there is me..what would you guys do and remember I have a little girl that needs me..I really just wanna smash him

[blm]

Always somethin....

[Juiced1]

Listen bro. If your girl is attractive, she's going to get hit on wherever she goes and wherever she works. That's just life. SHE should be able to handle this. Unless the guy puts his hands on her, is stalking her, or threatening her just take it as a compliment that another man thinks your girl is desirable. Most black men are very direct and forward with their desires towards women. If a white guy was doing this same thing would you be this pissed off? If your answer is yes then, no, you aren't racist.

If you're going to fight every guy that hits on your girl you'll be spending quite a bit of time in the jail.

[dago]

Listen bro. If your girl is attractive, she's going to get hit on wherever she goes and wherever she works. That's just life. SHE should be able to handle this. Unless the guy puts his hands on her, is stalking her, or threatening her just take it as a compliment that another man thinks your girl is desirable. Most black men are very direct and forward with their desires towards women. If a white guy was doing this same thing would you be this pissed off? If your answer is yes then, no, you aren't racist.

If you're going to fight every guy that hits on your girl you'll be spending quite a bit of time in the jail.

I try to avoid conflict and my girl told me she been trying to ignore him but thats why she finally told me. I figure with the manager present and me calling him out and seeing i'm very much in the position to bounce him off the pavement he might knock it off. I have to say weight lifters do have that advantage of intimidation in situations like this. I wont be out of line or make seen just knock it off leave her alone simple. Break the rules..well

[dago]

because you know it isn't going to go "as planned." I

shit whatever I have seen situations go exactly as planned when people realize what could happen.. all the sudden they wanna be your friend

[decadecadeca]

Always be nice and polite in public.

Just go in to see your girl, stop by to say hello and make sure the dude is there and you get a chance to shake his hand real nice like a gentleman.

No need to ever make a scene or threats in public.

If the dude can't take the hint you drop when you show up then handle your business.

Just be smart and handle it the right way.

[dago]

i'm not even the jealous type i had my share of scraps coming up like any normal kid..but i'm not a kid now and its moore the disrepect she told him too many times no no no I have a bf leave me alone. I would think the manager should get it too fuck it :D

[dago]

Always be nice and polite in public.

Just go in to see your girl, stop by to say hello and make sure the dude is there and you get a chance to shake his hand real nice like a gentleman.

No need to ever make a scene or threats in public.

If the dude can't take the hint you drop when you show up then handle your business.

Just be smart and handle it the right way.

I will do just that bro i'm trying to avoid a fight I just got off paper from one in 08 I dont have a lot of trouble normally but this got me a lil heated..ima be cool until its time to not be then it is what it is I guess..

[Mr I]

yes

[FrankTheTank55]

i'm not even the jealous type i had my share of scraps coming up like any normal kid..but i'm not a kid now and its moore the disrepect she told him too many times no no no I have a bf leave me alone. I would think the manager should get it too fuck it :D

See the problem is she is saying "No, I have a boyfriend!" so he takes that as if she didn't have a boyfriend she would be interested. She should just completely ignore him and if he doesn't get the hint then I'd go up there and tell him to knock it off. Chances are he will get the point then. You don't have to fight but she shouldnt have to go to work and be harassed. Doesn't matter if she is a big girl or not I'm sure some low life thug could be intimidating to her. There is nothing wrong with standing up for your loved ones!

[Bouncer]

dago just go to her work with a couple guys dressed in white sheets to signify peace and burn a cross to signify religion and love. i am sure he will realize how good a guy you are and leave her alone for good out of respect..

[lipripper]

dago just go to her work with a couple guys dressed in white sheets to signify peace and burn a cross to signify religion and love. i am sure he will realize how good a guy you are and leave her alone for good out of respect..

:rofl::rofl:

[dago]

dago just go to her work with a couple guys dressed in white sheets to signify peace and burn a cross to signify religion and love. i am sure he will realize how good a guy you are and leave her alone for good out of respect..

your full blown idiot:rofl::rofl::rofl: