2 days of lifting weights,lol fuck this

[BEAST]

Lol at bouncer. Words of a typical 28 year old. Bro regardless of kids or no kids body and mind changes as you get older. You WILL NOT feel the same when you hit 40 or 50 period. You can yack about how things will never change and you will always be hardcore and blah blah blah. It will all change period. Kids or no kids.

Rocket I know how you feel brother. Hang in there it'll get little easier. Lol. :)

[blm]

And his lady gets zero.hours.

I.don't agree with bouncers pessimism but if your buddy is truly dealing with all those things you.claim he is, then something else.fundamental is getting neglected because they're just aren't enough hours.

Don't speak of something you have no idea about. There is nothing fundamentally neglected. He and his wife and his teenage daughter balance responsibilities very well. They are an inspirational family. His wife works from home and runs the cheer team for her daughter as well.

[FitnessBrat]

Before taking a break was no big deal but now being older coming back from a break is so much harder!!! LOL I know exactly how you're feeling!

Lol at bouncer. Words of a typical 28 year old. Bro regardless of kids or no kids body and mind changes as you get older. You WILL NOT feel the same when you hit 40 or 50 period. You can yack about how things will never change and you will always be hardcore and blah blah blah. It will all change period. Kids or no kids.

Rocket I know how you feel brother. Hang in there it'll get little easier. Lol. :)

I totally agree!

I've found the older I get the harder it becomes to find the motivation and energy. The gym used to be something I loved, and couldn't wait to get there after work. I just do not feel that way anymore, and I don't see that I ever will, unfortunately. It doesn't mean I won't still go, or will ever give up a healthy lifestyle, it just doesn't feel the same as it once did.

[blm]

not depressed but 2 kids specially baby is pretty bad with 1 and she is 3.5 its a breeze but not 2 and not a baby. again for me at least.
Grand ma comes over at 4;30 to watch kids while I lift or it would really be hard.

again in my world kids are everything might not be right but thats the way I see it they are first I am second.

not everyone needs to be like me kids are fucking awsome but I dont think they are for you yet bro. took me untill 40 to have a kid cuz I was like you selfish ect nothing wrong with it as long as you dont bring a kid in to the world and not be there for them

There is nothing wrong with that. It's a personal decision and not a bad one. Any sacrifice made for the benefit of your children is worth it in my opinion.

[BEAST]

I totally agree!

I've found the older I get the harder it becomes to find the motivation and energy. The gym used to be something I loved, and couldn't wait to get there after work. I just do not feel that way anymore, and I don't see that I ever will, unfortunately. It doesn't mean I won't still go, or will ever give up a healthy lifestyle, it just doesn't feel the same as it once did.

So true. :)

At 28 - 29, you couldn't get me out of the gym. Now...you have to pay me to be in the gym. Lol lol. :rofl: :rofl:

[blm]

I totaly agree!
we are all different and I choose to do as my kids want. if she comes u to me and says lets got the park well then we going to the park fuck everything else is how I am. dont mean I am right but also dont mean I am wrong.
50+ hours work a wekk alone he will never have time durring the week for anything. weekends yes but thats it.

my wife gets home at 6 she has reg 40 hr job and she only has 3 hours to take care of her stuff shit shower shave(lol) eat clean and spend time with both her kids then you can for get me I need blow jobs ect just aint enough time

Sorry man, but you're wrong. His days are long; starts at 4am and he is home at 6pm. 6 days a week. Yes there are days that he does not work those hours but I was just showing it is possible. I take offense to the statements of neglect because I know him and his family so well. His little ones are in bed and school for the bilk of his day. They are only home for a couple hours before he gets home from work. Families do different things to make ends meet and take care of their loved ones.

[Chadd77]

I think everyone is different. For me getting home at 6pm 6 days a week and only seeing my kids for 2.5 hours before they are off to bed would not work at all. Not saying he is a bad father by any means. Sounds like he is a great one. But his schedule and time spent with his kids would not work for me.

[Mr I]

Don't speak of something you have no idea about. There is nothing fundamentally neglected. He and his wife and his teenage daughter balance responsibilities very well. They are an inspirational family. His wife works from home and runs the cheer team for her daughter as well.

Oh bro stop being so touchy, from what you said pof the hours worked etc that sounds a little difficult for most people to achieve balance.

This family may be inspirational to you and I'm sure they're great peple if you say so but they sound like military.clockwork, not everyone wants to live that way, sounds like surviving, not living to me

[blm]

I think everyone is different. For me getting home at 6pm 6 days a week and only seeing my kids for 2.5 hours before they are off to bed would not work at all. Not saying he is a bad father by any means. Sounds like he is a great one. But his schedule and time spent with his kids would not work for me.

Everyone is different and not always by choice. Sometimes we get stuck in jobs that don't necessarily foster a perfect home life but we do what we have to do. It's life.

[Mr I]

I think everyone is different. For me getting home at 6pm 6 days a week and only seeing my kids for 2.5 hours before they are off to bed would not work at all. Not saying he is a bad fath:)er by any means. Sounds like he is a great one. But his schedule and time spent with his kids would not work for me.

Exactly

[blm]

Oh bro stop being so touchy, from what you said pof the hours worked etc that sounds a little difficult for most people to achieve balance.

This family may be inspirational to you and I'm sure they're great peple if you say so but they sound like military.clockwork, not everyone wants to live that way, sounds like surviving, not living to me

You're typically insulting while following on my heals taking pot shots so yes I took it personal.

Of course he would rather a more ideal pace but this is the life they have built so they have to work with what they got.

[Chadd77]

Everyone is different and not always by choice. Sometimes we get stuck in jobs that don't necessarily foster a perfect home life but we do what we have to do. It's life.

I guess that was my point. We are all different. I think Rocket putting his kids before himself shows true selflessness and I respect him for that. That being said, you have to find some time for yourself and your spouse too.

[Mr I]

You're typically insulting while following on my heals taking pot shots so yes I took it personal.

Of course he would rather a more ideal pace but this is the life they have built so they have to work with what they got.

So they're stuck with it and putting a brave face on is what your saying. People just need.to do what makes them happy bro, no good trying to liver to another persons ideal

[blm]

So they're stuck with it and putting a brave face on is what your saying. People just need.to do what makes them happy bro, no good trying to liver to another persons ideal

Not what I meant. It's not as easy as just stopping what you are doing and start doing with what just makes you happy. It is more about putting a roof over their heads, food on the table, and clothes on their back. Their not living another persons ideal they are working with what they have to take care of their family. This is the real world bro; it's not simple and it's not perfect.

[FitnessBrat]

I think everyone is different. For me getting home at 6pm 6 days a week and only seeing my kids for 2.5 hours before they are off to bed would not work at all. Not saying he is a bad father by any means. Sounds like he is a great one. But his schedule and time spent with his kids would not work for me.

Doesn't the "average" professional work until ~5pm? By the time they get home it's at least 5:30.


There really is no such thing as ideal, unless it's not working at all and doing as you please 24/7 while someone else pays all your bills. Even then, I'm not sure that's necessarily fulfilling.

I work until 2 in the morning, so my schedule is completely opposite on some days. We all do what we have to do or what works best for us/our family. *Someone* out there has to work all hours of the clock. Nobody else gets to judge whether it's wrong, right or somewhere in between.