Guy friends

[TrapsBrah]

How do you guys deal with a girl who has a ton of guy friends. I know you guys are older but I want advice. Girls in my age group: 20-24. I just get really jealous ...

[Bouncer]

Key is to never get jealous or at least show it. Once you do the girl owns you and she will most likely give you something to be jealous of.

Jealousy shows insecurity and makes you look weak especially in the female subconscious.

[BEAST]

Tell her to get rid of those losers or pack her shit and get out. :grin:

[chuckz28]

All I know is, you're a guy, think about it. You don't talk to chicks on a regular basis Unless there is a remote possibility of sexual interaction. And given the right circumstances (alcohol and personal talk etc.) shit happens that neither expect. I'd tell those dudes to spend their time with someone else. But honestly if she isn't going give her attention to you then she isn't worth it.

Hodge twins did a good video on explaining this. Out of nowhere he was fucking his ugly friend girl that he didn't even have an attraction to. https://youtu.be/OQwq-IrKIGw

I hear about this shit all the time. Girl has a guy friend and she ends up having an affair after she can talk to the guy friends about stuff she won't talk to you about. You ain't married so you can cut your loses early and easy if need be. Obviously you care enough about her to be concerned so let's hope she respects you too. She may or may not be planning to take those dudes mushroom tips but shit happens unexpectedly all the fuckin time.

[TrapsBrah]

Key is to never get jealous or at least show it. Once you do the girl owns you and she will most likely give you something to be jealous of.

Jealousy shows insecurity and makes you look weak especially in the female subconscious.

I agree but being on cycle makes me more emotional so I'm gonna keep it in check. Good advice b.

[TrapsBrah]

All I know is, you're a guy, think about it. You don't talk to chicks on a regular basis Unless there is a remote possibility of sexual interaction. And given the right circumstances (alcohol and personal talk etc.) shit happens that neither expect. I'd tell those dudes to spend their time with someone else. But honestly if she isn't going give her attention to you then she isn't worth it.

Hodge twins did a good video on explaining this. Out of nowhere he was fucking his ugly friend girl that he didn't even have an attraction to. https://youtu.be/OQwq-IrKIGw

I hear about this shit all the time. Girl has a guy friend and she ends up having an affair after she can talk to the guy friends about stuff she won't talk to you about. You ain't married so you can cut your loses early and easy if need be. Obviously you care enough about her to be concerned so let's hope she respects you too. She may or may not be planning to take those dudes mushroom tips but shit happens unexpectedly all the fuckin time.

Good advice but sometimes it's fun flirting with girls just for the hell of it.

[redback]

There are different types of girls. Some girls are sexually attracted to their guy friends but others just have very outgoing personalities and what looks like flirting to a guy is actually just being friendly. You need to figure out what type she is. A lot of times it is quite innocent but being male you look at it differently.

[FitnessBrat]

When you say "she has a ton of guy friends," what does that mean exactly? She's in college and she KNOWS a ton of guys? Or every night of the week she is hanging out with guys? Or you're going on group dates with her guy friends?

Most everyone has opposite sex acquaintances from school, work, church, wherever. But in my experience, it is a rare occasion that men and women are just great friends without one party having stronger feelings - unless one is gay.

[Bouncer]

There are different types of girls. Some girls are sexually attracted to their guy friends but others just have very outgoing personalities and what looks like flirting to a guy is actually just being friendly. You need to figure out what type she is. A lot of times it is quite innocent but being male you look at it differently.

I agree but I also think it's safe to say that if this girl is actually "hanging out" with multiple straight dudes on a regular basis there is a high chance that something he wouldn't be happy about is going on..

[jack tors]

Dude LET IT GO........ The more jealous you act the more you will drive her away from you. Has she done ANYTHING to give you a reason not trust her? Do you guys love each other? I look at it this way be cool and confident. She with you for a reason. If you turn into a jealous dick it will end fast. ALso, fuck dude if she was boring and ugly nobody would talk to her...take it as a complement. If she wants to fuck up the relationship you cant stop it and shes not meant to be move the fuck on keep your options open your in your 20s.

That being said don't be completely blind or naïve... look for red flags and shady behavior.

[TKD]

What jack said. When I was young a friends dad told me something that stuck with me. You can't control what someone else does. If your the man you should be and she cheats then she was always going to cheat. Make sure you aren't buying her affection and if it doesn't work out that's life.

[redback]

I agree but I also think it's safe to say that if this girl is actually "hanging out" with multiple straight dudes on a regular basis there is a high chance that something he wouldn't be happy about is going on..

iI would also depend on the type of relationship he has with the girl whether he should be bothered by it. If they are not exclusive she has every right to be social and see other people.

[redback]

When you say "she has a ton of guy friends," what does that mean exactly? She's in college and she KNOWS a ton of guys? Or every night of the week she is hanging out with guys? Or you're going on group dates with her guy friends?

Most everyone has opposite sex acquaintances from school, work, church, wherever. But in my experience, it is a rare occasion that men and women are just great friends without one party having stronger feelings - unless one is gay.

I think we were all secretly hoping you were going to comment on the penis thread.

[redback]

^ not even touching that one? Well played, well played.

[henry]

I agree but I also think it's safe to say that if this girl is actually "hanging out" with multiple straight dudes on a regular basis there is a high chance that something he wouldn't be happy about is going on..

this. fuck her off bro if shes not willing to cut them loose.

im in your age bracket im 25.

My mrs who Im about to marry doesnt have any guy friends that she hangs out with. She didnt cut ties but just stopped hanging out with them when we started going out. I did the same thing with the girls I was friends with.