Life Lesson & Humbleness From My Perspective

[Bouncer]

It's true what they say, our best lessons in life come during times of struggle. During these recent injuries it's really forced me to change my way of thinking a bit and swallow my pride. I've always been a person that thought the only person i needed in life was myself. I now realize just how wrong I was. Without my friends and family, the people at the hospital, and even you guys to tell me like it is, I'm not sure where i'd be right now.

i know I'm being a bit dramatic here cause it's not like I had a fucken heart attack or something but none the less it shook me up pretty good and made me see things from a different perspective. The old me would have sat in the ER and looked on in disgust at all the sickly weak people sitting there coughing and looking like hell. I now realize how easily that could be any of us if something were to go wrong with our health beyond our control.

i think this temporary pitstop will end up being one of the best things for me. To anyone that I've ever spoken down to or acted like i was better then them i want to apologize. I was a spoiled asshole that knew nothing about life.

One last note to my girl who I haven't always been the nicest person to be around. She has been unbelievable in supporting me and standing by my side during one of the lowest points in my life. i won't forget it and I thank you babe.

Anyway guys, i know I'm being a bit dramatic over what is a bit of a minor issue but it's been pretty mentally hard for me. This forum and all the people that have helped me get through it (even the ones like moochie and rado who called me a dumb fuck lol) have all been an important part of getting me back on track. Seeing how chadd and Mr.I have dealt with there own injuries has been an inspiration to me in how to remain positive during a down time has also been a great help.

Anyway, thanks guys and hopefully I wont be forgetting this lesson anytime soon.

[chuckz28]

I'm just happy you're still around. Some lessons in life have to be learned the hard way but you got there, in a good place with good people.

[rado]

Can I say "I told you so" you dumb fuck:D

Anyway, I knew you wouldn't be gone for good and hopefully your post is meant with heart and you truly believe what you posted, not saying it's not.

Lessons in life are at times learned the hard way and IMO, I like it that way. If it weren't for those mistakes we make giving us a hard lesson, we'd be at it again. In your case, your lesson(s) haven't been learned bro. You know I truly care about you to a point where I'd call you my bestie. However you continuing on ANYTHING other than PRESCRIBED meds is dumb, just dumb. But we've had this discussion on your thoughts and reasons why and I've voiced mine as well. So I won't bring it up again, let's move on.

I just hope that you learn how to be smarter, that's all. Not book smart but being smarter about your own body and listening to it; our bodies speak to us in many ways and we choose to ignore it.

Glad you're getting better and I know this time around you'll be more cautious. ;)

Btw....how the pups ? You haven't posted much, how are they doing? I know dogs can sense when their masters are not well.

And yes, arrogance can destroy you...I've learn that in bjj:) that's why I'm the most humble guy you'll ever come across.

[ssoyegun]

Bro, you know I only been on here for a few, but you helped me alot already. Glad you doing okay

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[Turbo3000]

Great post. The members here obviously care about you. I've been a member here for a long ass time.

I hope you are still going to be an asshole every now and then. Don't change too much!

You will be fine. This will pass and you will be stronger mentally and physically. Your living in paradise with a great girl and two badass dogs. Keep your head up.

[dna9488]

Thanks bouncer. We wish you nothing but the best. Even in your times of being the biggest douchebag on the planet, we know you meant well. Glad you learned a life lesson in all this. It will shape you into the man you will become. Stay strong man, and keep trucking through

[Keiser]

Finally, this is true alpha behavior.

[Mr I]

Can I say "I told you so" you dumb fuck:D

Anyway, I knew you wouldn't be gone for good and hopefully your post is meant with heart and you truly believe what you posted, not saying it's not.

Lessons in life are at times learned the hard way and IMO, I like it that way. If it weren't for those mistakes we make giving us a hard lesson, we'd be at it again. In your case, your lesson(s) haven't been learned bro. You know I truly care about you to a point where I'd call you my bestie. However you continuing on ANYTHING other than PRESCRIBED meds is dumb, just dumb. But we've had this discussion on your thoughts and reasons why and I've voiced mine as well. So I won't bring it up again, let's move on.

I just hope that you learn how to be smarter, that's all. Not book smart but being smarter about your own body and listening to it; our bodies speak to us in many ways and we choose to ignore it.

Glad you're getting better and I know this time around you'll be more cautious. ;)

Btw....how the pups ? You haven't posted much, how are they doing? I know dogs can sense when their masters are not well.

And yes, arrogance can destroy you...I've learn that in bjj:) that's why I'm the most humble guy you'll ever come across.

What a toss pot

[Mr I]

All the best B

[redback]

Great to see you humble brother but with all due respect you just fell over and bumped your head. Just keepin it real nigga.

[redback]

What a toss pot

You're a toss pot. Why don't you stop spreading your negativity you sciatic homosexual.

[rado]

You're a toss pot. Why don't you stop spreading your negativity you sciatic homosexual.

Ignore the person bro:thumb:

[lipripper]

Good to see your "maturing" brother,,as you know can see..there are many things in life. We have to pick our priorities and always remember unless you have walked in his boots you really don't know what its like. Humble pie sucks going down....but what we get/ learn from it makes us better people in the long run.

[Mr I]

Ignore the person bro:thumb:

Someone puts out a heartfelt post and respond with a diatribe about yourself lol

[Mr I]

You're a toss pot. Why don't you stop spreading your negativity you sciatic homosexual.

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