Do you get upset when

[Irishgirl]

your bf/husband or gf/wife looks at other men/women?

ex. Ladies do you get mad when your bf checks out other women?

Is it an insecurity thing? Or do you think it's disrespectful on their part?

[Irishgirl]

I mean blatant. And I mean all the time.

Now ok, imagine you're bi and he says "I'm just checking her out for you (us)". mhmmmm!

[trip]

blatant and consistent disrepectful

looking as natural as rain

[rude]

I wouldnt get mad if it once in a while, but if its all the time, then I'll get pissed

[Starr]

I agree...human nature to look, but completely disrespectful to glare.

[urso8up]

As long as I know she is coming home with me. She can look at what ever she wants to on the menu as long as she doesn' order off of it

[Irishgirl]

Originally posted by urso8up
as long as she doesn' order off of it

:rofl:

[Puddles]

I only think it's disrespectful if the other partner feels intimidated by it. One of my best friends has very low self esteem and a poor self immage and she's terribly hurt when her husband checks out other women. Her former husband cheated on her repeatedly so in her case I think the husband is wrong for oogling other women when she's around.

For others, checking out a hot looking person of the opposite sex is pretty normal. Stromba and I point out to eachother who we think are attractive. When I'm on a break at work and I'm hanging with my lez friend we have a good time talking about the women we find attractive. Stromba hangs out with this same friend and they do it too. It's all in fun though...it's not like just because you're fantasizing about someone you're gonna go after them for real.

People need to lighten up and just enjoy life sometimes! Remember, your partner is with YOU by their choice...if they didn't find you attractive they wouldn't be with you to begin with.

[The_Jarhead]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
People need to lighten up and just enjoy life sometimes! Remember, your partner is with YOU by their choice...if they didn't find you attractive they wouldn't be with you to begin with.

I sooooo agree with you.

Betty And I are always pointing out hot chicks to each other and talking about the things we would like to do to them.
We know we are going home together at the end of the night and if we're lucky one of them will be with us.:D

[Irishgirl]

MrsP if everyone shared your attitude and security, I think the world would be a much happier place :)

[Irishgirl]

Originally posted by Keiser
I concur!

And there sure would be alot of people having sex :D

[urso8up]

Originally posted by Irishgirl
And there sure would be alot of people having sex :D

:agree: :agree:

[dreamgirl]

I like knowing that my hubby thinks of other girls, becuase I know he still thinks that i am hotter. I like to hear about him checking out their "tits" as he calls them... I like it...

[Irishgirl]

Originally posted by dreamgirl
I like knowing that my hubby thinks of other girls, becuase I know he still thinks that i am hotter. I like to hear about him checking out their "tits" as he calls them... I like it...

me too for the most part. But it gets to a point where it's like "shut UP about other women, if I'm not good enough go elsewhere...."

[Blackdream71]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL


People need to lighten up and just enjoy life sometimes! Remember, your partner is with YOU by their choice...if they didn't find you attractive they wouldn't be with you to begin with.

I agree, very well said......;)