Do you get upset when

[tantra74]

Sometimes is okay. Point her out to me don't hide it. That pisses me off. And don't play that crap i'm checking her out for you. She's cute you looked I do too. I HATE liars and sneaks

[Lexi]

I hear that too. If he says that to me, I'll roll my eyes. Or I'll say, then go up to her and get her number for me, see how fast he chickens the hell out.

If he looks and its not too noticeable, I'll say something like, "haha, yeah shes hot" but if its too much, then I'll say something like, "Hey, go for it" and be a bitch. LOL Depends on my mood. Usually I dont mind, but sometimes...

[CiViC SpiKeS]

Dont mind really.. long as ur not staring and ignoring me or something... i dont mind once in a while but dont do it all the time either...and if u think someones hot u can point it out id like to know what ur looking at..

[inkman]

Originally posted by Irishgirl
I mean blatant. And I mean all the time.

Now ok, imagine you're bi and he says "I'm just checking her out for you (us)". mhmmmm!

Ok maybe I can help. My gf is extremely bi and I do point out women once in awhile that we both could get off on however thier is a time and place for it. If I do it too often then she will tell me that I am and I tone things down alot so she does not feel that I am disrepecting her.

Sometimes we even try to guess what women are wearing thongs when they walk by us just for fun and laughs lol. The thing I want to make clear tho is if it bothers you let your man or women know. The fact that one or both are bi can make things a bit complicated when it comes to checking people out and he or she may think they are not breaking any rules or being disrespectful by doing so... Ink

[redMachchick]

Re: Do you get upset when

Originally posted by Irishgirl
your bf/husband or gf/wife looks at other men/women?

ex. Ladies do you get mad when your bf checks out other women?

Is it an insecurity thing? Or do you think it's disrespectful on their part?

Nope..it doesn't bother me...I would be right there with him checking a hott girl out!! We have too much fun together!!

[checkoutmyrap]

My girlfriend flips out when I look at other girls like I am going to ask them out or something. I have never given her any reason to worry either I had never cheated on her. She always blames it on her insecurities, but she knows who I am coming home too.

[Primal Instinct]

Originally posted by trip
blatant and consistent disrepectful

looking as natural as rain

I'm with trip on this...

[ixoye66]

To stare would be rude, my wife always asks me if I think someone is pretty and want them.I say no, cause there's a difference in thinking someone has a good figure and appreciating it and lusting after them,that's where I draw the line and don't go beyond that.

[voneber]

I too believe that it is human nature to be attracted to someone of the opposite (or same depending on preference) sex if they are attractive. In my relationship, it's ok to look... just not to touch.

[parsnip1965]

>Betty And I are always pointing out hot chicks to each other and talking about the things we would like to do to them.
We know we are going home together at the end of the night and if we're lucky one of them will be with us.

Ha! I love it. However, for me and my wife it is more of a game - we point out hot girls to each other (and I sometimes point out hot guys to her but she and I rarely agree on which guys are hot) but we always go home together with just each other. So far so good, 23 years, faithful and planning to stay that way.