moodiness..

[LOCO]

my girl is pissing me off once again... it's her moodiness this time... at the begining of the relationship she kept everything quiet and nice (her mood swings) but now almost a year after she 'gives in' every time her mood changes... almost every week has something to it... the week before her P it's supposedly really bad.. the 1st week is ok... the 2nd week is almost the worst, etc etc... drives me nuts...
last night she brought me a little tree, and we decorated it, made a fkin gingerbread house... everything was fine but every time i'd try make a funny comment about stuff like the icing (cuz she fuked it up got it too liquid so i was trying to suggest to her how to fix it) she'd flip out instantly.. and start bithing etc... i mean it's the fkin icing! give me a break.. big fkin deal... anyways... i would just shut up and do something else till she would calm down... it went like that the whole evening... then she's like, wanna give me a massage, and then have some fun.. i said yes.. so i give her a friggin massage (it was a long one - i was sweating at the end) and then at the end i was playing with her ass, cuz my hands were sticky from the oil... and she flips out again cuz "i'm jiggeling her fat" i mean what the fuk... it's a fukin ass... FAT..... that's what an ass is... and beside she's not fat at all... she's just "uncomfortable with her weight"
i mean i'm not either with mine but i never go nuts about it and take it out on others... i deal with it till i'm ok with it..... but anyways... se jumps up and starts walking around the room and bithing blahblah... how she's sensitive and she can get turned on and off very easy.. and stuff like that turns her off... etc etc.
after that she took all her clothes off and laid down beside me... like waiting for me to do a move or somehting... i just hugged her and told her i'm too tired and want to go sleep instead...
she was soooooo pissed off... didn't say notihng after that tho... she went took a shower, came back and went to sleep... (1st she was waiting for a bit for me to start the 'conversation' and explain things - i didn't do nothing tho)

why do women have to be moody and stuff?! pisses me off..... i get moody too sometimes so much i could like strangle someone, but u never see me do it... i keep my shit to myself... and it's NOT hard at all... it's all about the willpower.....
and then when she pisses me off really bad she still expects to 'have fun' after that.. where i'm like totally not in the mod for it anymore... she just kills it every time wiht her moodines stuff... ugh!

[Puddles]

PMS moodiness is really awful for some women. I usually just want to be left alone because I feel like such a bitch and I don't want to do or say anything that I'll regret. I'm usually good at controlling it now that I recognize what it is, but years ago I didn't even know what was going on and I'd just be bitchy for a few days. Kinda makes a woman feel like she's going insane when one minute she's fine, then she's either crying or angry without good reasons to be that way. The best thing you can do during PMS is to just brush it off and know that she's not intentionally trying to hurt you or be a pain in the ass.

One thing that may help (this was suggested by my GYN) is St. John's Wart. She'll need to be supplementing with it for about a month before changes are evident. It's also good for mild depression.

If her moodiness isn't just a pms thing maybe there are deeper issues. If it's getting in the way of your relationship and discussing it and working on it together doesn't help, maybe she'd benefit from a prescription medication. She should speak to a doctor if things don't get better. There are a lot of chemical imballances that we don't realize and they can be controlled easilly by medication. Unfortunately most of the meds tend to have sides, such as lowering sex drive in women or impotence in men.