Been married 12 years, anniversary was 2 weeks ago. Never cheated, not even close. In my eyes there is no other woman in the world, she is all I can see.....IKE
Originally posted by Blackdream71 I CONCUR! If you wanna be a cheater then don't be in a relationship, i've never cheated on any of my girlfriends and i never will, it goes against everthing i stand for, if you wanna cheat on me just break it off and move the fuck on cause i ain't got time to be wasting on that stupid shit! :mad:
very true, cause why hurt someone. I rather be single and be banging all the girls I can without worrying on getting caught. I rather not worry about getting busted and all.:D
I'm married 19 yrs. and until the last few years we were monogamous. Things have changed a little now, we don't cheat, but from time to time we play with another girl together. It's only when we're together though, otherwise to us it would be cheating. Flirting with girls when we're apart is ok because we have the trust in eachother not to take it too far and hopefully it'll evolve into a :3some: .
That's cool about not cheating, but how can you EVER truly know what your better half does when he/she isn't around. My g/f right now I cheated on 22 months ago with my ex and got her pregnant. This girl is STILL with me even though that happened. That's love I guess. But I ain't gonna lie, I'm a dog. I cheat every chance I get. And no I'm NOT BRAGGING, it's just how I am. I give props to all of you that are faithful. Stay cool.
Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL I'm married 19 yrs. and until the last few years we were monogamous. Things have changed a little now, we don't cheat, but from time to time we play with another girl together. It's only when we're together though, otherwise to us it would be cheating. Flirting with girls when we're apart is ok because we have the trust in eachother not to take it too far and hopefully it'll evolve into a :3some: .
That is how it started for me and my wife too. But with time it evolved into more. We have been married for 19 years as well. My wife still brings in a female "friend" now and then, and I do the same and bring home a female "friend". However I do play alone with others as well sometimes..I don't do it much but I do get to take advantage of thos oportunities that come along that are too good to pass up.:doggy:...And you want to hear this...I never asked her for this and I had never cheated EVER on her ever. She just up and told me one day that she trusted me and that it would be ok if I was with others without her, and that it would turn her on if I told when something happened. My jaw hit the floor when she said this, and I realized how much she cared for me to do this for me. I would never make her regret it or abuse it.
Originally posted by Gilster That is how it started for me and my wife too. But with time it evolved into more. We have been married for 19 years as well. My wife still brings in a female "friend" now and then, and I do the same and bring home a female "friend". However I do play alone with others as well sometimes..I don't do it much but I do get to take advantage of thos oportunities that come along that are too good to pass up.:doggy:...And you want to hear this...I never asked her for this and I had never cheated EVER on her ever. She just up and told me one day that she trusted me and that it would be ok if I was with others without her, and that it would turn her on if I told when something happened. My jaw hit the floor when she said this, and I realized how much she cared for me to do this for me. I would never make her regret it or abuse it.
That is definately different...Not that there is anything wrong with it...It's just different!
Originally posted by Gilster That is how it started for me and my wife too. But with time it evolved into more. We have been married for 19 years as well. My wife still brings in a female "friend" now and then, and I do the same and bring home a female "friend". However I do play alone with others as well sometimes..I don't do it much but I do get to take advantage of thos oportunities that come along that are too good to pass up.:doggy:...And you want to hear this...I never asked her for this and I had never cheated EVER on her ever. She just up and told me one day that she trusted me and that it would be ok if I was with others without her, and that it would turn her on if I told when something happened. My jaw hit the floor when she said this, and I realized how much she cared for me to do this for me. I would never make her regret it or abuse it.
I have to admit I am jealous. I love women, I cant resist them. I want them to love me and I want them to be monogamous. But I cant resist and I haven't. I have a wife and girlfriend and I have cheated on both and it has been miserable when they find out, but I have explained to them that I cant stop they still love me. I dont think I could be that good.
have never cheated, but have been cheated on. i dont have the time to waste trying to find a good guy any more. i pride myself on being one of the normal non phyco types, and all my male friends tell me they wish their g/fs were more like me. but finding a good guy who wants everything im willing to give and not abuse it, is a waste of time. there is no more out there. they have all been ruined by crazy fucked-in-the-head chicks
As much as it hurts to have someone cheat on you, it hurts 100 times worse to be unfaithful to the girl you love and watch her crying her eyes out and asking "Why?". I have been in both positions and it killed me to see how my lack of judgement and selfishness hurt her and damaged our relationship. She forgave me but the relationship was never the same and we ended up breaking up a year later due to other problems. I'll always regret what I did to hurt her and wonder "what if...." Lesson learned....I'll never cheat again. BSH
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