I, personally like agressive women. But, If I am doing the chasing, not that I have the time anymore. I usually just stare straight into their eyes, avoid checking out their body, and just say hello....No flash, no special phrases, just hello......then I go into salesman mode....no I don't try to sell them something, but what I learned in sales is that people love to talk. Ask her a question, and then take it back and forth. Be sincere, Be honest, and don't rattle off questions, as well as don't ask yes/no questions unless they are desperately needed. Keep smiling, and lean in(shows attentiveness)....
The most attractive woman I know is not attractive because of her body. As great as it may be, it's her mind & personality. She is a biochem major, and from germany. Since I am a dual major Psych(neuroscience track), and Biochemistry we get along perfectly....we can talk about what we love, now if she was only interested..
Especially since my relationship with my ex ended a little before the holidays :D
The most attractive woman I know is not attractive because of her body. As great as it may be, it's her mind & personality. She is a biochem major, and from germany. Since I am a dual major Psych(neuroscience track), and Biochemistry we get along perfectly....we can talk about what we love, now if she was only interested..
Especially since my relationship with my ex ended a little before the holidays :D
Originally posted by Shibby Sooo your saying you like fugly chics :p
Ooohh Heellll Yeahhhh....
no, but I like a woman that is willing to listen (even fake interest) to what I am passionate about. It is less an intelligence issue, and more a social/conversation issue. Altho when I go off on how close we are to being able to fix spinal injuries, it helps when they understand the terminology. But, its not required...simply conversation.
I've had my share of purely physical relationships, and simply want more at this point in my life.......I want the physical, and the mental...anything in addition to that is just the icing on the....oh well, she was quite fun....
Originally posted by Racer814 OK.here's what you do......ignore him......I dont mean .be mean or unfriendly...I mean, just act like your interest isnt as hot.....this will kill him...trust me...it will play to his ego........works on girls...it will work on a guy....especially one that is used to getting attention.......
~* Thikning *~
Somehow I dont think ignoreing him would do me any good. :( But Ill give it a try, cant hurt it any :confused:
Originally posted by lilgreeneyes LoL
I dont think i need any help really, unless you have some spare guts you can loan me because i have none!!! And yes there is a guy Im intrested in, but thats a lost cause..he is not intrested in me :( :( Oh well, nothing I can do right? What I wanted to know, is what to YOU guys do to get a FEMALES attition if your intrested in her?? Sometimes I cant tell if they are being nice, or if they are flirting & are serious. Sometimes you guys can send some very mixed signals :confused: :agree:
Guys don't give mixed signals. If they are being nice they are trying to get some. If they are flirting they are trying to get some. If they are serious they are trying to get some.
How can we give mixed signals there is one signal we give. :D
Originally posted by The_Jarhead Guys don't give mixed signals. If they are being nice they are trying to get some. If they are flirting they are trying to get some. If they are serious they are trying to get some.
How can we give mixed signals there is one signal we give. :D
So i guess no matter what we are always trying to get some. So now that all you ladies know this there should be no confusion
You said that it is a lost cause? How do you know, just because you don't talk as much as you did. He's probably waiting on you and you're waiting on him. The next time you see him, walk up to him, put your hand on his shoulder, say "Hi, how's it going." Then say, " You know, we used to talk all the time and it seems like we don't anymore, did I do something that upset you or something, if I did I apologize?" If he says no there's nothing wrong, just come out with it and tell him that you find him very interesting and ask him if he would like to have a drink or dinner sometime. If you're that attracted to him, JUST GO FOR IT. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The worst thing that can happen is that he'll decline, but you're no worse than you were. If he says yes, your goal was met. Good luck. BB
it is all about the objective. He may be the opposite of me, he may chase what he can't have.
What is this guy like, what has he said to you, how does he move when around you, does he look you in the eyes? does he look away, does he slouch, or does he stand confident
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