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OK! ONE of my jobs I teach arobics at a gym! I WANT to know why is it that THE MEN THAT WORKOUT THERE! FLIRT with me AND/OR talk to me! BUT when there girlfriends are around they become so cold! I just today was at the supermarket and ran into him and his girlfriend and HE was so cold, but when the girls are gone oh they are back on you like stink on SHIT! I find this to be very immature for a LITTLE BOY TO ACT THIS WAY! NOW I wont even give them a second look. IF I HAVE a boyfriend I would introduce him to the person not ignore them. I WANT TO KNOW FROM YOU MEN WHAT IS UP WITH THIS. MEOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
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Hi Kitty, Glad to see you're here from A.Com. To answer your question, which is simple, men are chicken. I hate to admit it, but I've done the same thing. We, men, are afraid that our current significant other will get pissed at us, or get even. Not right to behave that way, but we will. Also, I know girls who will do the same thing. Basically, people, MOST men and women are shallow in that respect. BB -
Thanks Intim, and sorry Kitty, my bad. BBComment
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They are worried that you are gonna tell the girlfriend/wife that they flirt with you at the gym. Also, possibly worried that the girlfriend/wife will pick up on vibes that they are attracted to you. They are playing the flirting game correctly, you are just misinterpreting.Comment
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It can also be with they have an attraction for you. Not that they would necisarally do anything but just the flirtatious interaction can be fun. Now when there girl is around they will feel guilty and afraid of getting in trouble. i.e. The girls thinks he's being too flirty and wonders how bad it is when she's not around. Or he knows he's been doing something that would not be approved of no matter how incignificant. So he tries to pretend your just some aqcuantance.Comment
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Intim, good to hear from you too. Hope your Christmas was good. BBComment
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my girlfriend is fucking crazy I try and keep her away from everyone!Comment
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It means they have done something that isnt right and they are hiding it.. if i treat someone cold it is because i don't like them. not because i have flirted with them. thats is tyhe best way to get your chic curiousty up moronsComment
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KITTY, if I may.
1. You're obviously a hottie.
2. Guys sometimes need to know that they can still flirt and maintain a relationship with a girlfriend. It's like the old saying, "Have your cake and eat it too." Some of these guys look at it as a quest to see how many girls they can flirt with and not get caught.
3. You're obviously a hottie. (Did I say that already?)
Finally, I would ask if you were doing anything to provoke guys to flirt with you, and then in turn be cold to them? ***I'm not saying you are!*** Just asking you to reflect upon your own actions. Was that a fair question?Comment
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i think its kinda odd i wouldnt give a fuck i'd just talk to you or introduce you i dont know what the deal is there.....chubComment
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Well let me say this....If he has any kind of conversation where he is even slightly nice to you.......He is going to get the 3rd degree from his girlfriend/wife. Nothing he says will satisfy her curiosity and he will be in the dog house NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS AFTER THE FACT.....This is what women do...Women want to know details about everything and are always disatisfied with the answers men give because men are not detail oriented enough...ie...What do you talk to her about?...What does she say?...etc., etc., etc. As soon as you say "I don't know" to any question you are cooked.
Plus they just want to nail you. They don't want you to know them or there other halves....lol.....but absolutely true..Comment
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Just my bit on this. If there just wanting to nail and not wanting to believe you. The relationship already has big problems.Originally posted by Gilster
Plus they just want to nail you. They don't want you to know them or there other halves....lol.....but absolutely true..Comment
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Basically, He wants to get with you and he doesn't want you to know that he has a girlfriend, Therefore he won't introduce you to her. I bet if you asked him who she was when she's not around, he would probably say a friend. However he can't say that in front of her cus that would cause an uproar.
"He's a Player or a wannabe Player"
MurtleComment
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Originally posted by Murtle
Basically, He wants to get with you and he doesn't want you to know that he has a girlfriend, Therefore he won't introduce you to her. I bet if you asked him who she was when she's not around, he would probably say a friend. However he can't say that in front of her cus that would cause an uproar.
"He's a Player or a wannabe Player"
Murtle
Well actually if he was a true player he wouldn't HAVE a girlfriend but any girl he talks to he'd let know that he was seeing someone else. I've told females I 'd talk to that I was with someone else and they'd be more interested. Something about a girl's competitive nature I guess. Not that I'm a player though. And yes, he's afraid he'll get bitched at by his lady. Nag, nag, nag, you know what I'm talking about.Comment
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Murtle
[B]Basically, He wants to get with you and he doesn't want you to know that he has a girlfriend, Therefore he won't introduce you to her. I bet if you asked him who she was when she's not around, he would probably say a friend. However he can't say that in front of her cus that would cause an uproar.
"He's a Player or a wannabe Player"[B]
I'd probably agree with Murtle here. He may be trying to keep all of his options open. If he was in a secure relationship he would have introduced you to his sig other. That goes for females introducing their male sigs too. Something that you want to consider is the content of your conversations with these guys. You call it flirting- is the brunt of your conversation laced with sexual innuendos? This can be important in establishing motive or intentions of the interested parties. Either they are just casual acqaintences or possibly, do they try to get you out on dates with them? Do they ever talk about their sig others to you or have ever asked them about them? Perhaps if you were their girlfriend or wife, they would be doing the same thing (flirting) with another female. The key here is would they ever act upon it? Herein lies your answer.Comment
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