help!!!!!!

[The Beast]

what does this mean??


ok last night i ask my exgirl to come over and watch a movie well i promised her that i wouldn't even kiss her well she ended up spending the night as we are watching the movie we get really close and i told her that i would never break a promise but i really wanted to kiss her and she said she did 2. so i told her to do it well she did then we end updoing the nasty like 3 times well we are lying there talking and we start talking bout us and how she would marry me next week if it was possible but then she says that we an't get back together right now cause she can't trust me and that we are just friends that are not looking for anyone else and not sleeping with anyone else and that oneday we will get married. o and talk bout kids n shit but not right now having them just in the future!!!!


so my question is how the hell do i get her to want me back as more than friends do i not call her but like 1 everyother day and make her miss me? or what someone please help me

[psyko1]

Be her friend again, take it slow. Obviously you slept with her so she still sees you that way. Don't push for sex but if it happens great, I guess. Talk to her, be nice, blah,blah,blah. Just don't be up her ass all the time give her space. I think she wants to get with you she just can't trust you? Just don't have "Peggy Sue" call you while she's with you. That's not gonna go over well with her.;)

[rude]

Take her out on "friendly dates" like bowling and stuff like that, where you all can talk and laugh together

[The Beast]

Originally posted by fitness-girl


Can i ask what youve done to make her not trust you?

yea i kissed a girl on my birthday while she was at home cause she had just gotten her new boob job and then i lied to her about it when she found out

[Primal Instinct]

Originally posted by rude
Take her out on "friendly dates" like bowling and stuff like that, where you all can talk and laugh together

Rude hit the nail on the head here. The very best relationships are built on trust and the trust comes from friendship first. Don't smother her just be fluid in your relationship. Let stuff happen, not try to push her away or hang on to her in a stranglehold. Let it unfold. And don't kiss anymore girls, bro. Plus, she just got a boob job done...man, don't mess it up :agree:

[trip]

Grasshopper you have already swiped the stone from the masters hand.

Do you not know that?

She already said, all is cool, let's take time and rebuild trust, which takes time, and she has SHOWN with her actions that is what she wants to do.

Relaxe, enjoy, and like the famous Eagles song, "Take It Easy"

[Blackdream71]

Show her this maybe it will help.....:p :D

[bransun]

hmm..both good info from fitness-girl and rude...i would try the both of them...

[Gongshow]

it takes time man...be her friend....gain some trust in her again.

[The Beast]

Originally posted by Blackdream71
Show her this maybe it will help.....:p :D

:cursin: :moon:

[TrippersGirl]

It sounds like she wants you. Call her every day if that's what you want! Even if its just to see how she's doing and how her day went I'm sure she would appreciate that.

[telephone]

i dont like it one bit..i was in same sit about 4 yrs ago..we did get back together after we bothed fucked other people..hurt us both..it was never the same..if you got the heart for it start showing it now and give her all you got cause once either one of you are with another its fucked..

[urso8up]

Trust is a big thing ina relationship and once trust is broken it takes a while to get it back ..Trust me i know I had my ex break taht trust. But be friends take your time and don't push her into anything.

[purphaze]

dude tell her you shouldnt have lied but ya did, and their was no reason to have lied. If this is indication of my future. when i fuck up, it is held over me like a gilateen-.. then maybe both of you should move on. and you are not playing the game which is exactly what she is doing. everyone fucks up move on. promise not to lie again.. and dont it is moronic guys do that stupid shit all the time. i have a buddy he is 27 and he lies to his girl friend about smoking cigaretts pitiful