Monogamy

[MarcusMaximus]

Originally posted by fitness-girl
:confused: WOW you really losed me on that one lol:confused:

it is a play on words and a metaphor. monogamy or the " bored " game Monopoly. then i continued on talking about monopoly being the same thing as monogamy. some people got it, some people didn't .

[VeggieLifterGal]

Interesting thread this turned into.

I got over feeling like I was missin out. I got more pics of my bf, and realized he's hotter than anyone I see here. Waiting...waiting...waiting...

MrsP I liked your post: "
That's tough but when you make it through, you'll both be closer and appreciate what you have in eachother even more.

In the meantime, get yourself a good toy with lots of batteries, get him a big bottle of lube and have pleanty of phone sex."

[houseman]

Originally posted by VeggieLifterGal
Interesting thread this turned into.

I got over feeling like I was missin out. I got more pics of my bf, and realized he's hotter than anyone I see here. Waiting...waiting...waiting...

So the basis of your relationship and whether or not you'd cheat is based on the fact he's hot and moreover, hotter than anyone you see here?

[MarcusMaximus]

well there now, don't we all feel special now?:rofl: i think that she's talking bout the ppl at her gym.

[VeggieLifterGal]

Originally posted by houseman
So the basis of your relationship and whether or not you'd cheat is based on the fact he's hot and moreover, hotter than anyone you see here?

I was just saying I have something very good to look forward to, that anyway whatever guys are here don't compare to him. And they look good here.

I wouldn't cheat on him because I never want to lose him. Getting ass would come at far too high a price. The fact that he's hot is important to me, but it's only a bonus on top of how wonderful he is. He's a beautiful person inside and out, cool as hell, funny, sweet, intellectual...:) And I never lie to him. Never could.

Clear?

[dial_tone]

I'm actually a one-woman guy; never really wanted to be anything else. I like the idea of being tuned into ONE person. I'm in a relationship (if you can call it that) with someone I only get to see twice a year. We find ways to squeeze in some extra lovin either with the camera, phone or Instant messages. The only thing I really miss is the huggin, but we always make up for that pretty quickly.

[Blackdream71]

Originally posted by VeggieLifterGal
And I never lie to him. Never could.

That's good to know :)

[houseman]

Originally posted by VeggieLifterGal
I was just saying I have something very good to look forward to, that anyway whatever guys are here don't compare to him. And they look good here.

I wouldn't cheat on him because I never want to lose him. Getting ass would come at far too high a price. The fact that he's hot is important to me, but it's only a bonus on top of how wonderful he is. He's a beautiful person inside and out, cool as hell, funny, sweet, intellectual...:) And I never lie to him. Never could.

Clear?

Very clear. You no longer appear so shallow.

A

[VeggieLifterGal]

Originally posted by houseman
Very clear. You no longer appear so shallow.

A

:)

[inkman]

Monogamy does not work for my girl and I. Too boring for people with our sex drive and our tastes. She is Bi and I will damn near try anyone once if it feels good and even more if I like it. With our life style we do not have to cheat on each other when we both have permission to play with others.

The only stipulation is that both of us have to be with in arms reach of each other when we play with other couples or singles.. We still have plenty of alone time together when we enjoy just each other to the fullest. It takes a very strong couple to be able to handle that life style and you have to be able to seperate love and sex or the jealousy will destroy you.

Monogamy sucks for us cause we could never enjoy the sexual combos that are only possible with 3 or 4 people when we felt the urge to murge :3some:

[VeggieLifterGal]

Originally posted by inkman
Monogamy does not work for my girl and I. Too boring for people with our sex drive and our tastes. She is Bi and I will damn near try anyone once if it feels good and even more if I like it. With our life style we do not have to cheat on each other when we both have permission to play with others.

The only stipulation is that both of us have to be with in arms reach of each other when we play with other couples or singles.. We still have plenty of alone time together when we enjoy just each other to the fullest. It takes a very strong couple to be able to handle that life style and you have to be able to seperate love and sex or the jealousy will destroy you.

Monogamy sucks for us cause we could never enjoy the sexual combos that are only possible with 3 or 4 people when we felt the urge to murge :3some:

Very interesting. How long were you together before you went for the open thing? Did you have difficulties with it or was it pretty smooth the whole way? Do you worry about diseases/pregnancy?

[inkman]

Originally posted by VeggieLifterGal
Very interesting. How long were you together before you went for the open thing? Did you have difficulties with it or was it pretty smooth the whole way? Do you worry about diseases/pregnancy?

We were together for a few months before we started playing with other couples but I had been in the life style with my 2nd ex for 5 years and really enjoyed it.

I started by accident when I asked my wife at that time is she would be with another women for me on my 40th bday. We started out slow having same room sex which means you fuck in front of the other couple but thier is no contact with them and then we worked our way up to were we were cool having sex with other couples. As long as we are with in view of each other it is cool.We love to watch each other. Think what it would feel like to be giving a man head while one was fucking you doggie style or how about a women licking your clit while your man was fucking you reverse cowgirl style.. talk about your imagination running wild huh?It is all a reality when you get into the lifestyle.

It was a very smooth transistion. The main thing is to let your partner know ahead of time where the you draw the line and what you feel is right for both of you.

My gf and I have a wonderful sex life and swinging is just the iceing on the cake. The possibilites are endless. Imagine a resort in Mexico or Jamica or A Sea Cruise where swingers are the main guests and sanctioned by the resorts or Cruize line. Lifestyle poeple come from all backgounds and all ages from 18 to 80, lawyers, doctors, CEO"S, Cops, teachers, you name it and there are clubs around the world where you can meet and greet and play..

Even Website personels NewFriends.com West coast Swingers.com for my area. As far as disease and pregnancy you have the same amount of risk meeting someone in a night club. It is really safer with swingers cause most of us get tested every 6 months and news travels fast in our circles. If someone came to a party with a wart or something weird that person gets 86ed. and the reptution follows that person.The house rules almost always are you have to wear a condom and most all parties supplie there own.. I have a v section so I am not going to knock anyone up.... Any more Q' feel free to ask.

[Orgasmicpleasur]

you go inkman...
veggie girl u sound in a similar situation to where we were about 5 years ago. we moved to a new location, met some new people and both of us have high-profile jobs. can u say teacher/adminstrator and undercover cop? we really have to stay on the low down. we are within an hour of myrtle beach, sc and we go to sexchat.com and find our couples and occasionally a man or a woman. most of the time its just phone and instant messaging mixed in with trading personal pics. phone can be so hot sometimes other times we hang up because its just not us.
we started out doing something this simple and boring veggie girl:
she got all dressed up and we went to a club in myrtle and she can dance her ass off and she would just get out on the floor and start dancing and i would just watch from across the room. it totally got me off watching her because she would have some guy worked up into a frenzy dancing. no kissing but fondling was allowed. she would say she was going to the bathroom while i carefully watched and she would come out in a different top and a realistic looking wig i would conseal in a coat (it was winter time) and she would sneak out while i watched to make sure the guy didnt notice her and we would go back to the hotel and you wouldnt believe what our talk was like. i would get her warmed up and she would get brave (along with a glass of wine or two) and ask her did you feel his cock up against your ass and stuff like that and we would make believe we were having a 3 some with this guy. poor guy but he probably just thought "another tease" and went to the next girl. we both hid our rings while in there. there is a small risk involved but dont forget im an undercover guy and i know a lot of tricks.
another time she knows im sorta turned on by her sister a few years younger and we would sorta dance 3 way on the floor and they would bump and grind each other and tease me and then we would split up eventually and go do our thing.
now heres the kicker:
there was no direct cheating involved, just tease and roleplay stuff. some people think that stuff is boring but not us.
her and her sister even modeled lingerie for me one night. god that was cool. i would never touch her sister and her sister would never touch me but its just fun stuff to fantasize. anyone else out there like us or are we just too weird?
i have some cool phone stories too if anyone interested. she has only done bi stuff on the phone but boy does that get wild.