Do you masterbate even when married?

[Puddles]

Originally posted by believer
By the way, what's a sybian?

The Sybian is an insane vibrator for women. I've seen it used in movies and it's intense. They're over a grand though and quite honestly, too mechanical looking for me.

http://www.sybian.com/sybianindex.htm

[TheStromba]

Originally posted by Big_Swole
Why do you do that, when you have your wife? Doesn't she satifsy you?

It has nothing to do with satisifaction at all. It is just something else fun to do.

2 years ago my wife and I were having a threesome everyday with someone we knew. I had 2 girls on my dick every day for months.

and I still masterbated when they were not around.


Having sex with your partner is like a great steak dinner.

But

sometimes a hamburger is good too.

[TheStromba]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
The Sybian is an insane vibrator for women. I've seen it used in movies and it's intense. They're over a grand though and quite honestly, too mechanical looking for me.

http://www.sybian.com/sybianindex.htm

If there were any kind of male attachments, I would buy it. I am sure that you would use it. :)

[BiggerStronger]

Originally posted by mrsgoodbody
In response to BiggerStronger:

Sooooo wrong. Sorry, just had to let you know! Don't ever "play" someone you have a relationship with. That's not a relationship, that's just plain manipulation. A relationship means you can tell each other "hey, I want sex, why don't you?" and then talk about it...

Anyway, I sometimes masturbate for DrG's pleasure while he watches - but it always becomes a participatory (not spectator) sport...

I didn't consider it playing...or manipulation...

I had all of those conversations. I told her that I feel unwanted...there was always excuses like there's not a right time or place....this or that is wrong...things that didn't cause us not to be intimate in the past were suddenly causing us problems now...I kept asking why....and still we were never intimate...and I did give it plenty of time. I tried to be understanding and that didn't work either. I finally got frustrated and stopped asking...expecting...etc.

I figured I would have to work on myself and figure out why sex was even that important to me...I should be able to get along without it. (even though it's better not to...lol) Sex or lack there of should never make someone question their relationship, I figured that you should not be with someone that lowers your confidence and makes you feel unwanted.

I was basically just taking some alone time to fix my personal issues I was having. With my new self-confidence, and calmer attitude regarding sex she realized that with the time apart, she's misses me more....and realized we should take advantage of those times where we could be intimate. I might of took it a bit to far because I actually got her to the point of thinking I didn't want her either. I was actually turning down sex from her at the beginning because I didn't feel like it. I think now it was just resentments towards what she put me through.

Basically though everything I did helped me out....I don't base my self-worth (with another person) on how much someone has sex with me, I can focus on other things that will make me a happy independent person...these things make my self confidence higher and make my sex life better. No manipulation involved.

[MarcusMaximus]

I can't imagine having sex with someone with whom i am mad.. so it is with some other people i'd expect. Others don't feel that way at all and that's good too! For the womanwho feels this way, she'd feel like she was being raped. With the other things going on in her head, I imagine that your wife is in rough shape mentallly when it comes to dealiing with sexuality.

about masturbation in general- some people still have this whore/madonna thing going on. good girls don't masturbate ever let alone after marriage and neither do men. Any talk about sex brings out those who feel compelled to make negative comments. What a shame that this thinking still exists.

[dudeski66]

wow guyz and galz(didnt know there where others )

yeah youse guys hit a nerve for me,we'll for one yup soaping him really fast in the showers great and been married for 10 yrs god know how i do it but still here(guess the vows thing too and a 4 1/2 yrs old that i wont let her be screwed up in a single parent thing) so for me the jo thing is cool,why do we do it!!!!!???? for me it relieves stress and feels great but also cause the wifes not interested in sex(even though shes been getting more frisky these past 6 months)but after 5 yrs corting(virgin so nothing those 5 yrs,and after married for atleast6 yrs i can actually count on both hands the time we did it (im serious) no never cheated,was too cheap for hookers,and didnt want to go through the bullshit of trying to find a woman in same boat that didnt want a relationship,then you have the disease thing fuck aids there are other things that are worse herpies warts ect ect and yeah i know wrap the weasel but i love to eat before i hunt so that kinda defeats the purpose...hhhhhhhhhhmmmm where am i going with this look to answer the question yes i jo and im married,,,,i think the use of sex as a weapon sucks for those who do it are fucken jerkoffs cause be it man or woman they will go out looking i know cause im browsing,its a shame though atleast here in joisey both usually dont know how to cook clean or sew,and not to try to sound like a chavanist(ok so spelling aint great ok!!!!!!) but i know how to do those things and im just looking for a bit of help when it comes to cleaning(stay away from the kitchen,being a chef i love to do the cooking!!!)you know marrage 70 30 ill do 70 but come on at least after i wash and fold the clothes can you please help put some away!!!!!!!!!!!!ah enough bitchin thanks guys for keeping my memory fresh,and gals the sybian is great but for a grand oh boy and they do have penis attatchments but that'd be like buying that doll 5k screw that to fuck a peice of rubber mmmmmm no!!!!!!!!!!! and no sex as a weapon (personally i just became disinterested with her,i never let her go unsatisfied but my hearts not in it) that is all carry on

[Breeze]

My girl tried that crap on me once and I explained to her that for every woman who won't take care of her man, there is another woman who will- I think she got the picture- I've been divorced twice and after the second one my give-a shitter stopped working. My girl knows that she cannot change me and she accepts that- hell, we get along great- I treat her with respect and she's not into the whole radical feminist girl- power stuff- oh yea, she's absolutely gorgeous also. Hey Believer, next time your lady holds out on you tell her "sweetie, I'm going to have sex within the next 48 hours, would you like to participate"? Then pick up a phonebook and turn to "escort services". THAT will put her in the mood.
Disclaimer: This advice is for entertainment pursoses only.

[believer]

Hey Believer, next time your lady holds out on you tell her "sweetie, I'm going to have sex within the next 48 hours, would you like to participate"? Then pick up a phonebook and turn to "escort services

I've been given this type of advice before but, unfortunately, I'm not the type to do something like that so it wouldn't be taken seriously.

[mick-g]

My girl likes to watch me stroking it. She will lay on the bed and i will start slow and start talking dirty to her she loves to fantasize about men fucking her and all sorts of things. She'll start to play with herself moaning and rubbing and her boobs and arch her back in wild emotion. She will start to talk real dirty about geting it in the ass while sucking on someone else etc. Sometimes she'll start stroking me and get me off and then she will lick me till i'm dry. Its such a turn on!