Why do guys ask a girl for their number...

[Puddles]

Originally posted by INTIMID8OR
I wrote a number in a spare bedroom one time in the closet under a shelf only to have my g/f find it ..I tried to tell her it was there before we moved in but she proceeded to tell me "NO WAY" because I painted that bedroom last year ...I quit getting numbers after that :rofl:

Naughty, naughty! :whip:

[Breeze]

I absolutely hate talking on the phone, but if I ask a girl for her number then I am most definitely going to call her. I don't say crap like "I'll call you" just to be nice. I believe in honesty, even if it does piss people off. I hate it when people tell me they are going to do something and then don't. I make very few promises and commitments, but when I say I'm going to do something I always do my best to follow through.

[Shibby]

Re: Re: Why do women give out phony numbers?

Originally posted by Puddles
She is pretty old fashioned when it comes to dating...she's from Spain and just wouldn't ever ask a guy for his number.


I remember one weekend about 2 months ago where we went to a resteraunt that has an outside bar on the water with live music and dance floor. Mostly people in their 30's - 50's which is perfect as she's 40. This younger guy (32 y.o.) and his friend ask us to join them for drinks and I say that I can't can't accept a drink because I'm married but my friend can. My friend had told me an hour before the guys walked up that they were looking at us. I don't even notice it when that happens because I'm married and just not interested in who's looking at who when we're out. Anyway, we spent the rest of the night bs'ing with them and the guy and her seem to be hitting it off well. He programs her number into his cell AND she gives him her business card. Well, all week, nothing. We wound up back there the following weekend and guess what...those two guys are there and each one is with a girl but you can tell it's not just casual, they are definitely attached. As we walk by my friend smiles at the guy she was talking to and he ignores her, just looks away. Obviously he is with his girlfriend and he does not want to strike up another conversation. The other guy came over a bit later and said they'd come over to chat in a bit but 30 minutes later they hadn't left their spot and I was ready to go home so we left. I'll never understand the whole dating thing, thank goodness I'm married. LOL

Well you never know how good the relationship with the guy and that girl was the other night, is now or what ever, unfortunatly. Also I don't know what she does for a living, but if it has anything to do with sales/getting clients, but giving her business card could have come across wrong.

[JUICE]

Originally posted by INTIMID8OR
I wrote a number in a spare bedroom one time in the closet under a shelf only to have my g/f find it ..I tried to tell her it was there before we moved in but she proceeded to tell me "NO WAY" because I painted that bedroom last year ...I quit getting numbers after that :rofl:

busted:eek:

[meat12]

Originally posted by sunkiss
Aw. see that is nice to hear from a man.
Have had a guy actually ask for my number, and then while I was standing there, he took out his cell, called my number and leave me a message on my machine. That was funny and a bit too much for me. lol.

OMG thats great, sounds like a friend of mine:rofl:

[bhcpp]

Asking a girl for her HOME phone number takes confidence. Women will not always give men thier HOME phone number when asked. Some women give you their cell phone number or their work number after you specifically asked for the HOME phone number. A woman who is not interested in you will never tell you that she is not interested in you. Instead she will give you her cell#, work# or say she does not own a phone or even worse she will ask you for your home phone number. She will NEVER call you. Many of the women who do give their home phone numbers will screen their calls and let you talk to their answering machine for a week and never return your calls. Or she will have her roomate answer the phone and tell you she never got the message.
A woman who is interested in you will make it easy for you. She will give you her HOME phone number, answer the phone herself or call you right back. She will NEVER cancel a date, she will touch you a lot on the date and laugh at all your stupid jokes.
It is a numbers game. You have to get lots of HOME phone numbers and weed out the wacko's wierdo's and feminazi's.
When you get the HOME phone number wait 5-9 days to call her. She will respond to a CHALLENGE because no one has ever waited that long to call her. All the other horndogs call her within 48 hrs if they call at all. The more beautiful she is the more she will respond to CHALLENGE.
If you want more information about how to be a CHALLENGE to women and have them chase you for a change checkout
www.doclove.com . He has the best information about men and the dating game. Stop making stupid mistakes and begin to win with women.

[hlcn8]

Originally posted by bhcpp
Asking a girl for her HOME phone number takes confidence. Women will not always give men thier HOME phone number when asked. Some women give you their cell phone number or their work number after you specifically asked for the HOME phone number. A woman who is not interested in you will never tell you that she is not interested in you. Instead she will give you her cell#, work# or say she does not own a phone or even worse she will ask you for your home phone number. She will NEVER call you. Many of the women who do give their home phone numbers will screen their calls and let you talk to their answering machine for a week and never return your calls. Or she will have her roomate answer the phone and tell you she never got the message.
A woman who is interested in you will make it easy for you. She will give you her HOME phone number, answer the phone herself or call you right back. She will NEVER cancel a date, she will touch you a lot on the date and laugh at all your stupid jokes.
It is a numbers game. You have to get lots of HOME phone numbers and weed out the wacko's wierdo's and feminazi's.
When you get the HOME phone number wait 5-9 days to call her. She will respond to a CHALLENGE because no one has ever waited that long to call her. All the other horndogs call her within 48 hrs if they call at all. The more beautiful she is the more she will respond to CHALLENGE.
If you want more information about how to be a CHALLENGE to women and have them chase you for a change checkout
www.doclove.com . He has the best information about men and the dating game. Stop making stupid mistakes and begin to win with women.

wow, does it come with pills to give me a HUUUUGE wang too?

i agree with some of what you say. but i also advocate, in rape self-defense classes i teach, to NOT give out home phone numbers. the internet is an interesting animal, and it includes tools whereby the whacko men (yeah, there are whacko women too) in the bars and clubs can perform reverse searches of the phone number and obtain addresses and other personal information. sometimes standing up to stalkers is the real........ CHALLENGE!

in all seriousness, i once wrote down a girls number at a party, and i had placed the paper on my knee to write it. the next day I went to go look at it and i had written half of it on my pants, and the other half on the paper (damn alcohol....) i even had a few friends look at it and try to help me figure it out, and i tried a few combinations of what i figured it might be. a week later a girl i met at the same party asked me why i never called her friend and we had a great laugh about the story. I got the correct number and brought her flowers and an apology. and while nothing happened b/w us it was a chance to be honest and make her feel better about the experience as well.

[Puddles]

Re: Re: Re: Why do women give out phony numbers?

Originally posted by Shibby
giving her business card could have come across wrong.

Why does that come across as wrong? It lists her cell as well as an e-mail addy with her name. She verbally gave him her cell and he programmed it into his cell and showed it to her to make sure it was correct.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by bhcpp
Asking a girl for her HOME phone number takes confidence. Women will not always give men thier HOME phone number when asked. Some women give you their cell phone number or their work number after you specifically asked for the HOME phone number. A woman who is not interested in you will never tell you that she is not interested in you. Instead she will give you her cell#, work# or say she does not own a phone or even worse she will ask you for your home phone number. She will NEVER call you. Many of the women who do give their home phone numbers will screen their calls and let you talk to their answering machine for a week and never return your calls. Or she will have her roomate answer the phone and tell you she never got the message.
A woman who is interested in you will make it easy for you. She will give you her HOME phone number, answer the phone herself or call you right back. She will NEVER cancel a date, she will touch you a lot on the date and laugh at all your stupid jokes.
It is a numbers game. You have to get lots of HOME phone numbers and weed out the wacko's wierdo's and feminazi's.
When you get the HOME phone number wait 5-9 days to call her. She will respond to a CHALLENGE because no one has ever waited that long to call her. All the other horndogs call her within 48 hrs if they call at all. The more beautiful she is the more she will respond to CHALLENGE.
If you want more information about how to be a CHALLENGE to women and have them chase you for a change checkout
www.doclove.com . He has the best information about men and the dating game. Stop making stupid mistakes and begin to win with women.

One thing about home numbers...I do not use my home phone for a contact number because of several reasons, but mostly because I always have my cell with me so I do not miss calls that way. My home number is used primarilly by my daughter which is often busy and we got rid of call waiting as well as the answering machine because we forget to check messages for a week at a time. If a girl gives out her home number and lives with her family, there is no guarantee that she will get messages taken by other family members. I dissagree with the home vs. cell number argument.

Also, playing games in regards to making a girl wait is b.s.! OK...go ahead and wait your 9 days, that just gives her more of an opportunity to meet someone else. If you're interested in a person, call them and let them know. The longer you wait to make that cal the more the girl will think you don't give a shit and the less interested she will be in you when you finally do call. Or...you can play those games but you'll likely catch a girl who's into playing games too.

[Shibby]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Why do women give out phony numbers?

Originally posted by Puddles
Why does that come across as wrong? It lists her cell as well as an e-mail addy with her name. She verbally gave him her cell and he programmed it into his cell and showed it to her to make sure it was correct.

It may not have anything to do with it. What does she do for a living?

[Puddles]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why do women give out phony numbers?

Originally posted by Shibby
It may not have anything to do with it. What does she do for a living?

Insurance, claims dept.

[bhcpp]

Waiting a week to call is not a game it's called self control. You are married and not even in the dating scene so how would you know anything. Look up www.doclove.com and check out his materials and study them before you judge my post.

[mastakillah]

your asking about guys that get a girls number and never bother to call her? well i dont know about that, but why does a girl give you her number and you'll try and call her everyday for a week straight and she never answers her phone!
whats up with that puddles?
p.s. and you know its her number cause the answer service comes on and says her name.

[jmac2222]

1) CHALLENGE! LOL --FEEL THE FUCKING PUMP!

2) Puddles...you wont let someone buy you a drink? I can see explaining to them that you are married, but most of the time I wouldnt care, I'd buy it anyway just so that I could sit with a pretty woman, esp if you're as much fun to talk to as your posts. (Assuming that your husband isnt with you...then I can see telling somebody "no thanks".)

My thinking...If I'm sitting next a to a good looking girl who looks is fun to talk to, then who cares? That's more fun than standing around and who knows...maybe she has a friend. Most of the time, at a club, I'm happy if I just meet some new people, single or not. Just through networking alone good things can happen :)

[njlovehandles]

we are all insecure fools, especially guys who like to bb. thats my take on it. have a few beers and wallla. man i look good i can get any chick. wake up w a hangover and its back to lifting and thinging about ourselves. sometimes you just dont remeber the girl. sometimes you just figure that they r a slob. i usually dont call girls i meet in bars. i prefer girls i meet when im sober