Who's in the Wrong?

[JUICE]

Originally posted by shortz


Today's society is just a bunch of pussies.

:agree:

[sana]

Originally posted by beefcake
Cause people who work the system to get over make people like us sick to our stomachs. That woman was so confident that if shit went down she'd be the victor because she could press charges. A person like that needs to have their ass beat down and then not be able to do anything about it. Hopefully it'll be a wake up call so that maybe she thinks twice before she tries to pull some shit like that again.

how do you know that he wasn't saying things to egg her on as well?

since you weren't there you can't make that assumption.

seems to me, you're bitter. sounds to me like you don't know how to be the bigger person and walk away.

this situation isn't about man vs. woman, it's about being in a bad situation and knowing that you need to walk away before it turns bad.

[sana]

Originally posted by shortz
Because the law obviously does not teach people that you shouldn't talk to someone that way. Why is it before the 70s it was normal to put someone in their place that talked to you this way, not it's not right? This is the reason why more and more people get away with just fuckin with someone. If people knew they would be decked by being nasty to someone, how often do you think it would happen?

Today's society is just a bunch of pussies.

well, why does it have to resort to violence?

reference my first point - be the bigger person and leave. you know and the other person will know who's the ass.

[shortz]

Yes, and that the woman should have walked away too...but I guess that's not the case. Walking away puts your back to someone who is hostile and could get you killed too.

[sana]

Originally posted by JUICE
to answer this one, this doesnt pertain to all men.

i'm specifically referring to all the guys on this thread who have replied that they would have decked her.

i'm not talking about the world at large. or any other situation.

[beefcake]

Originally posted by JUICE
Totally off the thread topic:
Another thing is when ur with ur partner. Lets say its you and your guy. You have a nice body and guys start checking u out, ur man aint gonna like that. I say thing cause Ive seen it alot and its always the same thing. No matter where I go to San Antonio, Austin, other Texas cities, its all the same, even in Mexico.

I know its crazy but thats how it is to some, only the smart ones know what to do. I say think before you react.:D

On that note. I was doing bb shoulder presses on monday. I have to turn my head to the left to bring the bar down to touch my chest. There was a girl working on a bench to my left. So her man supposedly thought I was scoping her out. Was looking at me all dirty and shit the whole time. I didn't know why till my girl told me she thought he was thinking I was checking his bitch out. Either he was too much of a pussy to say anything or he was trying to be the bigger man.

[sana]

Originally posted by shortz
Yes, and that the woman should have walked away too...but I guess that's not the case. Walking away puts your back to someone who is hostile and could get you killed too.

in this specific situation, if the guy had walked away, he would have diffused the whole situation.

she obviously wasn't violent towards him. verbally abusive - sure. if he walked away and she pelted him with some object, he would have obviously been able to file a complaint. but the point is that he didn't. he shoved her.

in the end, they were both wrong. but he had the opportunity to be the bigger person and chose not to.

[rude]

Originally posted by sana


this situation isn't about man vs. woman, it's about being in a bad situation and knowing that you need to walk away before it turns bad.

The things, he probably was trying to walk away, she woudnt let him. I mean honestly, how would you feel if you were minding your own business enjoying a sporting event and then some random person starts to give you a hard time because of his political views. Then after that, this lady begins to insult him verbally in front of a crowd. I dont care who you are, you will eventually snap after a while.

Besides, he just pushed her away (I dont blame him), he didnt strike or attack her.

I will take crap from my family and close friends, I will not take crap from a complete crazy stranger that has some agenda.

[shortz]

Originally posted by sana
in this specific situation, if the guy had walked away, he would have diffused the whole situation.

she obviously wasn't violent towards him. verbally abusive - sure. if he walked away and she pelted him with some object, he would have obviously been able to file a complaint. but the point is that he didn't. he shoved her.

in the end, they were both wrong. but he had the opportunity to be the bigger person and chose not to.

So when a woman goes to court and says her husband verbally assaults her, it's ok to do. Shouldn't she just walk away?

The point is to stand up for yourself. Don't let people push you around or you will end up stpped on or even dead. If you don't want to be hit, don't mess with someone. How hard is that?

[sana]

Originally posted by rude
The things, he probably was trying to walk away, she woudnt let him. I mean honestly, how would you feel if you were minding your own business enjoying a sporting event and then some random person starts to give you a hard time because of his political views. Then after that, this lady begins to insult him verbally in front of a crowd. I dont care who you are, you will eventually snap after a while.

Besides, he just pushed her away (I dont blame him), he didnt strike or attack her.

I will take crap from my family and close friends, I will not take crap from a complete crazy stranger that has some agenda.

we were not there, we will not know what the situation was. but i know that ANYONE who finds themselves in this type of situation will ALWAYS benefit from keeping the level head and just walking away.

there is never any reason to violence. and even if all he did was push her out of his way - he had no right to lay even a finger on her. period.

[JUICE]

Originally posted by sana
how do you know that he wasn't saying things to egg her on as well?

your right here, u never know maybe he was the one who went over the line too. Thats why its best to hear both sides of the story.

Originally posted by sana
this situation isn't about man vs. woman, it's about being in a bad situation and knowing that you need to walk away before it turns bad.

I also think of this. What if the guy was those skinny or even wimpy looking guys like the ones that look like u can run all over them. What if he was a bum or something. They never said what type of guy he was, either could have also been violent. Maybe the girl saw him as a weak person and decided to attack him.

Thats what some people go for also, how the other person looks. I dont think if the guy was a tough mean biker looking guy, or even the looks of a prison convict she would have gotten near him.

But all I know is that this girl had guts so do that, or crazy (loon).

Originally posted by shortz
Yes, and that the woman should have walked away too...but I guess that's not the case. Walking away puts your back to someone who is hostile and could get you killed too.

yup, like a security guard where I work at got shot by his wife as he was walking away.

With todays society, you just never know who you mess with. It could even be a kid pulling a gun on you, never know:(

[sana]

Originally posted by shortz
So when a woman goes to court and says her husband verbally assaults her, it's ok to do. Shouldn't she just walk away?

The point is to stand up for yourself. Don't let people push you around or you will end up stpped on or even dead. If you don't want to be hit, don't mess with someone. How hard is that?

and a man can go to court and say that his spouse is verbally abusive to him. it does not only go one way.

the point is not to stand up for yourself by acting out upon OTHER people. it is to stand up for yourself by protecting yourself by diffusing a situation where there would be no winners by any acts of violence.

period.

he could have left, and complained to a security guard that there was a woman menacing him. he did NOT have to lay one finger on her, nor did he have the right to.

[JUICE]

Originally posted by sana
i'm specifically referring to all the guys on this thread who have replied that they would have decked her.

its weird how the majority would have decked her. :agree:


I would've loved punching her nose inside her skull, but I rather leave her there talking trash and looking like an idiot. I would tell her " You know what Honey, I got better things to do", and just walk away and eat my hotdog.





But your right Sana, its best to avoid shit like this. People ain't worth it. Now even a shove is worth 2-5 years of your life in prison.
:agree:

[rude]

Originally posted by sana
we were not there, we will not know what the situation was. but i know that ANYONE who finds themselves in this type of situation will ALWAYS benefit from keeping the level head and just walking away.

there is never any reason to violence. and even if all he did was push her out of his way - he had no right to lay even a finger on her. period.

You just contradicted yourself. On your previous post where you replied to shorts you said "she obviously wasn't violent towards him. verbally abusive - sure." now your saying that we were not there, how do you know she wasnt threating to this man. Well, obviously, we weren't there but common sense says dont be messing with strangers.

Im sure if you were minding your own business and some man started bothering you, you would be wishing bouncer would whoop his ass even though he didnt physically hurt you, only verbally.

I agree its not about man or women, its about respect and commen sense

[beefcake]

Originally posted by sana
how do you know that he wasn't saying things to egg her on as well?

since you weren't there you can't make that assumption.

seems to me, you're bitter. sounds to me like you don't know how to be the bigger person and walk away.

this situation isn't about man vs. woman, it's about being in a bad situation and knowing that you need to walk away before it turns bad.

I'm not saying it's about man vs woman. It's anybody, any gender in general. If you're going to talk shit, be ready to own up to the consequences. Don't start something with the intentions of turning tail and running to your nearest police officer like a pussy. If someone is talking shit to me, why the hell should I be the one to walk away like a little fairy. I don't run from situations. I can understand what you're trying to say, but that "be the bigger man" saying doesn't work all the time. People who believe in that are someday going to be in for a rude awakening.