Girlfriends Decreased Interest in Sex

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Originally posted by Mr incredible
Whats the problem? get a top shelf magazine and a slice of pizza and chill bro

I wish it were that easy, but she wouldn't be too happy about that. I mean don't get me wrong....I jerk off whenever I can't take it anymore, but that really isn't as satisfying as the real deal. It's not just the fact I'm horny, and want some ass.......I really love fuc$ing her, and she used to love it before too. She was the one who always wanted it, but I haven't grown accustomed to her devoting all her attention and affection to my son. I just hope once I'm off the juice, this sex drive will chill out enough to where I'm not "bugging" her all the time. She blames it on the gear anyway, but I have always been a horndog. :bj:

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
I wish it were that easy, but she wouldn't be too happy about that. I mean don't get me wrong....I jerk off whenever I can't take it anymore, but that really isn't as satisfying as the real deal. It's not just the fact I'm horny, and want some ass.......I really love fuc$ing her, and she used to love it before too. She was the one who always wanted it, but I haven't grown accustomed to her devoting all her attention and affection to my son. I just hope once I'm off the juice, this sex drive will chill out enough to where I'm not "bugging" her all the time. She blames it on the gear anyway, but I have always been a horndog. :bj:

Yeah, jerking off is stupid. I need my chick's box when I'm horny!

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Originally posted by GreekTank
Yeah, jerking off is stupid. I need my chick's box when I'm horny!

She just thinks I want to bust a nut.....it's not that. I really desire the sensation of being with her, and feeling her. I promised her, I would stop hassling her anymore, so I guess I better buy another bottle of lotion :agree:

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
She just thinks I want to bust a nut.....it's not that. I really desire the sensation of being with her, and feeling her. I promised her, I would stop hassling her anymore, so I guess I better buy another bottle of lotion :agree:

Bro, I know what you're feeling I'm a man too. Sometimes I won't get p***y from the girlfriend because her periods last a little over a week, sometimes 2 weeks. It's bad enough when you're off gear but If you're on TEST on top of that, It's rough, I'm going crazy by the time it's over. Luckily she enjoys going down on me and it takes away the frustration for a while. Hang in there bro things will get better!

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Okay yall........she blames it strictly on the fact that I'm on juice. She said I never wanted to do it all the time (BULLSHIT--FACT IS....WE DID DO IT ALL THE TIME), and said if I quit right now, she would be willing to do it more often. We were standing in the kitchen, and I was holding her. We started to kiss, and I started to run my hands down back, and down into her pants. I started to rub on her but, and pull them down, and she said I'm stupid for getting on "that shit", and it's made me sex crazed. Now I'm standing there in the kitchen...dick hard as a rock, and her pants down off her butt, and that is what she says!! I only have about 3 weeks left until I'm done, and I'm not about to waste all my hard work, and money which is exactly what I told her.I She just pulled her pants back up, and walked away. :( I never thought she would turn into one of those women who use their pussy as a bargaining tool, but she has. This goes to show it's really nothing to do with the way her hormones are or how her body looks....she's just pissed cus I'm on cycle, and won't give me any until I quit. Wise man once said, "If womans pussy is tool, and she won't let you use it, then borrow friends to get job done" :)

[BBAddict]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
Wise man once said, "If womans pussy is tool, and she won't let you use it, then borrow friends to get job done" :)

I feel for you man, but I hope you're kidding.:( That'll get you a whole lot more than you bargained for--and not in a good way!

[The_Jarhead]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
This goes to show it's really nothing to do with the way her hormones are or how her body looks....she's just pissed cus I'm on cycle, and won't give me any until I quit. Wise man once said, "If womans pussy is tool, and she won't let you use it, then borrow friends to get job done" :)

Wow you really don't know much about about women do you?

I hope you wise up if for no other reason for your new born child.

[dreamgirl]

bench animal... you seemed so caring about your gf before and now you seem like all you care about is you getting sex. Your gf just went through a huge thing... pregnancy and delivery. Her body just produced a new healthy life into this world. So now she is 10-12 weeks later and YOU"RE mad about not getting sex? Are you truely sure you love her, cause it doesn't seem like it. She needs love, not this kind of aggrivation...


this is really upsetting me thinking about this! :(

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
Okay yall........she blames it strictly on the fact that I'm on juice. She said I never wanted to do it all the time (BULLSHIT--FACT IS....WE DID DO IT ALL THE TIME), and said if I quit right now, she would be willing to do it more often. We were standing in the kitchen, and I was holding her. We started to kiss, and I started to run my hands down back, and down into her pants. I started to rub on her but, and pull them down, and she said I'm stupid for getting on "that shit", and it's made me sex crazed. Now I'm standing there in the kitchen...dick hard as a rock, and her pants down off her butt, and that is what she says!! I only have about 3 weeks left until I'm done, and I'm not about to waste all my hard work, and money which is exactly what I told her.I She just pulled her pants back up, and walked away. :( I never thought she would turn into one of those women who use their pussy as a bargaining tool, but she has. This goes to show it's really nothing to do with the way her hormones are or how her body looks....she's just pissed cus I'm on cycle, and won't give me any until I quit. Wise man once said, "If womans pussy is tool, and she won't let you use it, then borrow friends to get job done" :)

Okay...first of all...the "wise man" comment...just a joke. I wouldn't cheat on her. I plan on marrying this woman.

As far as me not knowing anything about women, I have to disagree. I know plenty about women in general, but have no experience in the "post pregancy" aspect of women, and how their hormones operate. I'm assuming you've already went through this jarhead, and that is why you can make that comment. I don't know what to expect, but when she is holding me, sticking her tongue down my throat, and rubbing my chest while my hands go down her pants, then I'm assuming she wants to have sex. I know how she acts, and what she does when we're about to fuck, and she was telling me yes. Then when she stops in mid kiss to ask me to quit the juice, I say no, and she just stops and walks away......then yes....my comment is valid.

Please don't question my love for this woman. I bend over backwards to make it easy for her. I've always done all the cooking, so that is no different now. I clean the house, do laundry, and go to the grocery, so she doesn't need to worry about those kinds of things. It gives her the extra time she want to spend with our son, or by herself......whatever she wants....I try to do it. I spent an hour outside chiseling her car out of ice, and snow so it would be ready to drive today. I go out in the morning, an hour before I even get up and start her car, carry her briefcase, and stuff out. All I would like is some affection and appreciation in return, and not feel like I'm bugging her for wanting some. Damn people.....you are looking at me like I'm an asshole, but I do everything for this girl, and if she truely doesn't have the hormonal feelings to have sex, then fine, but when she is giving me the signals, and then doesn't get the answer she wants, so backs off then I don't think it's the hormones as much as it is her trying to prove her point on me doing roids. I'm done with this topic, and regret posting it, because I'm being made out to be a dick. It's not like I cuss her out, and tell her to fuck off when she won't give me any. If anything I feel hurt, and rejected.

[BBAddict]

Like I said, "I feel for you man". It's clear that she seems to be initiating things and its definitely wrong to get a guy worked up (no pun intended) and then quit-that's just plain mean. But I just wanted to make sure you were kidding cause I've seen exactly what you said happen too much to not say something.

Good luck with the woman-does she know you're off cycle in a couple weeks-maybe it'll help to know you're quitting soon.

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Originally posted by BBAddict
Like I said, "I feel for you man". It's clear that she seems to be initiating things and its definitely wrong to get a guy worked up (no pun intended) and then quit-that's just plain mean. But I just wanted to make sure you were kidding cause I've seen exactly what you said happen too much to not say something.

Good luck with the woman-does she know you're off cycle in a couple weeks-maybe it'll help to know you're quitting soon.

I'm on a Sustanon/ Tren cycle, and I was doing Sust 250 mg E3D, and tren 75mg EOD, but now I've bumped the Sust up to 250 mg EOD and the tren to 100mg EOD, just so I can end it 2 weeks sooner. I told her that today, but no comment about it. Just a roll of the eyes :rolleyes:

[The_Jarhead]

Look bro I'm not trying to make you look like dick, but some of your comments are not making you out to be the most loving understandable person.

I do think you should look in to post pregancy issues in women. Do some research, there are a ton of resources on the net about it.

For the next few months your GF is not going to be normal. It's going to be like PMS all the time and worse. Somewomen done go through much at all some are totally nuts. My point is don't think just because she brings up the juice that that is the real thing she is upset about.
It could very well be that she thinks that the only reason you are intreasted in her right now is cause your on juice.
I know it's hard on you right now and being on cycle is only makeing it worse (hell when I'm on my wife wakes up to me trying to hump her in my sleep).

I know you REALLY don't want to hear this right now but I know women who didn't have sex for up to a year after giving birth. Again not all women are like this but some are and the starting and stopping thing is is normal for women going through mood swings. They can and will change thier minds and moods in the blink of an eye.

Just wait till you start PCT and start clomid. Then you'll both be nutty together for a while.

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

It could very well be that she thinks that the only reason you are intreasted in her right now is cause your on juice.

Good point! She may be thinking negatively of herself, and thinks if I wasn't on the juice, then I wouldn't want anything to do with her. Ahh...never looked at it like that.:hmm:

I really do love her, and I don't want to make things hard on her. I'll do my best, but hopefully I can just get through this cycle, and not ruin my relationship.

[BBAddict]

Totally off track, but--That's a sweet signature, jarhead. Gotta love the pain!!

[naughty nurse]

Blame her lack of interest on her hormones. When I had my two children it took months for my former sex drive to return. And I have a very high sex drive!!!!! It will return, its just part of becoming a mother. You could always give her tribulus!!!