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I wonder how many of the guy's that are condeming DG, are porn addicts?
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Damn, what did I do with that stone, hmm? I know it's around here somewhere, I need to throw it! :rofl: BBOriginally posted by bad14u
People, people , people.......it takes all types to make the world work!
Everyone of us here has done something that others would say is wrong! Some have injected shit into their bodies, others have snorted , smoked and drank whatever! Others have invited whoever into their bedrooms!Others gamble...and so on! You live, you learn, you move on!
Not everyone can have an open mind! If we all did this world would go to shit and quick!
"Live and let live! I say.
And let he who hath not sinned cast the first stone!Comment
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Who's judging her? people are just expressing their point of view on the situation as requested by DG. So you want to jump on the band wagon too now?:rofl:Originally posted by bjbabe
Dreamgirl
I know that a lot of people here are judging you, But i just would like to say congratulations for having the courage to try something new. Good Luck with that! I have asked my boyfriend to swing with another couple but he wont agree. I hope its fun and exciting for you and your honey.
Let me know all the details, maybe i will be able to convince my honey.
Good luck
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Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....
:worthlessOriginally posted by dreamgirl
We've been talking to this couple about swinging together for a couple of months. We've gone out 2 times and even ended up at eachothers houses, but no one knows how to start it all. Were all new to this - never tried- and everyone was nervous the last time, and no one wanted to step up. WEll, we have a date for this Saturday scheduled. I promised the other husband that I would start something... any tips?Comment
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Like I said.....this was years ago, and all three of us have been drunk around each other since. I didn't want this to happen, but posed a question. No she wasn't drunk, but I firmly believe it wouldn't have mattered. I have came to the conclusion, she just isn't like that, and I'm no longer concerned with the results of my test. Yes, we did talk about it....the next day after I sobered up, and she expressed her firmness about it. She wouldn't have done it, and I wouldn't have shared her. I also apologized for letting him see her naked, and that was that. I love her, and I'll be with her for the rest of my life. The whole point of this is whether I agree with sharing my partner with another man, not whether she would have said yes if intoxicated. She just isn't into stuff like that, because she has values.Originally posted by psyko1
how the hell do you figure?
BenchAnimal why did she say no? because she was ass naked when you "yelled" for your friend all of a sudden. i'm sure she had no clue what was going on with you interrupting sex to yell for your buddy to come barging in the room and "look" at her tits. you said she was asleep so i'm thinking she wasn't drunk, it was all a shock and a surprise for her. the real test should've been done the next weekend when you, your friend, AND her were all drunk. think real hard about it, do you still think she would've said no after you already put the thought in her mind? and let me guess after you said "I was just drunk, and got a little too freaky" you never talked about it again did you? did you ask her again? of course she wouldn't request it afterwards it was something you did out of the blue for no damn reason (in her eyes). so tell me were you really satisfied with YOUR "test"?Comment
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:rofl:Originally posted by bonebreaker
Damn, what did I do with that stone, hmm? I know it's around here somewhere, I need to throw it! :rofl: BBAttached FilesComment
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Re: Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....
So you slam her and say she and her husband must not "give a fuck about each other" and now you ask for pics.Originally posted by Mr incredible
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What a hypocritical thing to do...............Comment
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Re: Re: Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....
I know:rofl: I did that one one purpose, to foooool yoouuuu:rofl: :drunk: :angel: :elephant:Originally posted by The_Jarhead
So you slam her and say she and her husband must not "give a fuck about each other" and now you ask for pics.
What a hypocritical thing to do...............Comment
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Re: Re: Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....
Hey jarhead,Originally posted by The_Jarhead
So you slam her and say she and her husband must not "give a fuck about each other" and now you ask for pics.
What a hypocritical thing to do...............
could you put this in a jar?:moon:Comment
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this is hilarious... thank you all for caring... i am very secure in my marriage. I don't feel like my hubby is gonna leave me... I for sure am not leaving him. We've have lots and lots of conversations about this. And even more recently.
This is sex... it's for fun... for something different for both of us. It doesn't mean I love him less or he loves me less.
If this act would cause him to leave, then he probably would leave me anyway sometime in the near future. We're doing this together.
The other wife is cute... I would think I am better looking than her, but she's really cute don't get me wrong. I remember someone asking me this. My hubby is better looking than the other husband. The other guy is hot, but my hubby is for me. This isn't for a relationship, it's just sex. To have the thrill to be with someone else and to watch the other do that. My hubby shouldn't feel jealousy, because I'm not leaving him. I can't stress that enough to everyone who thinks that both of us have other motives... the other couple is the same. They aren't in it to leave their relationship either. We've all had extensive talks with eachother about all of this to make sure everyone is in this for the right reasons.
Never know, it may not happen, we'll have to see on Saturday.Comment
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Well, best of luck to ya both!Originally posted by dreamgirl
Never know, it may not happen, we'll have to see on Saturday.Comment
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Ditto, sound like a nice couple anywaysOriginally posted by bad14u
Well, best of luck to ya both!Comment
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Best of Luck to you!Originally posted by dreamgirl
this is hilarious... thank you all for caring... i am very secure in my marriage. I don't feel like my hubby is gonna leave me... I for sure am not leaving him. We've have lots and lots of conversations about this. And even more recently.
This is sex... it's for fun... for something different for both of us. It doesn't mean I love him less or he loves me less.
If this act would cause him to leave, then he probably would leave me anyway sometime in the near future. We're doing this together.
The other wife is cute... I would think I am better looking than her, but she's really cute don't get me wrong. I remember someone asking me this. My hubby is better looking than the other husband. The other guy is hot, but my hubby is for me. This isn't for a relationship, it's just sex. To have the thrill to be with someone else and to watch the other do that. My hubby shouldn't feel jealousy, because I'm not leaving him. I can't stress that enough to everyone who thinks that both of us have other motives... the other couple is the same. They aren't in it to leave their relationship either. We've all had extensive talks with eachother about all of this to make sure everyone is in this for the right reasons.
Never know, it may not happen, we'll have to see on Saturday.Comment
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Have fun and be safe :DComment
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DG, you said one thing that concerns me for you, and it may not even be what you meant. You said, "This isn't for a relationship, it's just sex" That kind of sounds like that sex, whenever and with whomever is Ok, because it's just sex. Also, and this is not a tit for tat analogy, but; What if you came home after the act of the switcheroo one day, and your husband was having sex with this girl. You get upset and he says, "honey, what's the problem, I've been with her before and it was just for sex". Or vice versa with you and the other guy. Again, it's just for sex. I still say that you will never get over the thoughts of your husband, the man you love, being inside another woman, and the same for him. I don't think he will ever get it out of his head about some other guy being in you either. What if you drove up to fill up your car one day and your husband was sitting in a car with this girl. Maybe truly and honestly they had just bumped into each other and were indeed having just a conversation. Do you think there wouldn't be just a hint of suspicion in your mind. I know it's possible, and that suspicion grows with every little thing that doesn't sound quite right. I know you'll do what you want and think you'll enjoy. But I think the risk is just too high. Just my 2 cc's. I hope you don't do it, but if you do, I truly hope that it all works, especially long term. BBComment
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