My friend is dating my ex

[IronAdonis]

My friend recently started dating my ex and he doesnt act like there is anything wrong with it. Me and my ex were dating for three years and we broke up about about six months ago. We still hang out all the time and we are basically friends with benefits. We made a mutual friend through work and we all started hanging out together. Recently they started to hang out alone. They have gone on two dates so far and now I think it might be getting serious. He knows I am unhappy with this, she has dated other guys since but none were my friends. I hated the guys but I wasnt as upset as I am now. I think its wrong to date your friends ex's and if you are planning on it you should ask your friend first and if it bothers him find another girl.

I just wanted to know what you guys thought.

[beefcake]

I disagree with the part where he has to ask you for permission.

[phatchopper]

yeah if hes a close friend he should definitely ask and then let it go if it bothers you

[johnstephenson]

You should'nt date a buddy's ex for any reason period.... I would punch a so called buddy for even asking..

[SloppyJo]

You should'nt date a buddy's ex for any reason period.... I would punch a so called buddy for even asking..

:agree:

[twizzbeats]

KILL HIM

[daf2]

he obviously is not a "friend" so to speak.

[go Yankees]

yeah, you should always ask, or run it by, or somehow test the waters...if you even want to do that sort of thing...date your friend's ex of three years...

[BBAddict]

Friends are off limits--even with permission, I think it's stupid. It would be a rare occasion that it would be OK, IMO.

[slipshady]

he is a walking piece of shit...not a friend

[metalmarty]

Bro, I'd annihilate both of them. That's messed up.

[Mr I]

He sounds a bit weird and a bit sad, forget her bro, don't show any interest in either of them and they'le probably burn out before they even get started. But trust me, don't hang out with her any more because if she's not commited to you then she's gonna do as she pleases and you'll get pissed off every time she talks to a dude. Find some fresh ass, chences are she'll then start looking for your attention again, but stuff her she doesn't sound like she has much respect anyways

[ROCKILLER]

I think the big difference is why you broke up in the first place. If you dumped her because you got tired of her shit then who cares, if she left you then it could really be tough. Either way, this guy is not your friend. Not by the way I define friends anyway. If youre on this site, I'm sure you can find something better.

[beefcake]

They broke up 6 months ago. Then they met this mutual friend at work. He's not his homeboy. They've only known each other for 6 months or less apparently. So quite frankly, he's really only there for her. Number two, how do you think she'll take it if dude did ask for permission and you said no? Probably think you're over possessive and have control issues. I know this from experience.

[meat12]

This guy is not your friend then bro, there are certian lines you don't cross.