My friend is dating my ex

[xxxkazxxx]

I just find it funny how all the posts on this topic have you all wanting to strangle the guy. Untill we read that she is tied to the bed struggling to be set free, then maybe the blame should be cast 50/50. I'm a female, & I am more than willing to say that females are just as much to blame!

[vigil76]

I think beating the shit out of this guy sounds fun... but maybe you can be more creative-- see if they are willing to do a threesome... and when you're done, nut on her face and tell her what a dirty whore she is and walk away...
Realistically... i say:
fuck it! life is too short- move on- they have demonstrated they have no respect or consideration for you.
That's enough in my book to disassociate from them. I live life by the circular theory; everything in life is circular, if you fuck someone over it will come back someday... just remember that.

However, I think the idea of fucking one of her friends sounds fun, but do you really want to lower yourself to their level? if you can live with it then do it.

I would focus and redirect this energy into something more productive... focus on yourself train harder and concentrate on the more important facets of your life.

Good luck!

[CrazyShane]

i dont date my buddies x's, yeah we can all talk about right and wrong and debate it as "adults" but in the end nothing good comes from it... so i dont bother

[Live2bHuge]

Real friends DO NOT hook up with another friends ex. Let alone of 3 years. My suggestion, fuck him, and fuck her.. if they can do that then the two dirtbags deserve eachtother.. You should invest your time in having sex with her best friend, and then leave it all behind..

[saffittiri]

he isn't a loyal friend....

[Ashop]

My friend recently started dating my ex and he doesnt act like there is anything wrong with it. Me and my ex were dating for three years and we broke up about about six months ago. We still hang out all the time and we are basically friends with benefits. We made a mutual friend through work and we all started hanging out together. Recently they started to hang out alone. They have gone on two dates so far and now I think it might be getting serious. He knows I am unhappy with this, she has dated other guys since but none were my friends. I hated the guys but I wasnt as upset as I am now. I think its wrong to date your friends ex's and if you are planning on it you should ask your friend first and if it bothers him find another girl.

I just wanted to know what you guys thought.

Thats not your friend,,,he proved that.

[ROCKILLER]

I just find it funny how all the posts on this topic have you all wanting to strangle the guy. Untill we read that she is tied to the bed struggling to be set free, then maybe the blame should be cast 50/50. I'm a female, & I am more than willing to say that females are just as much to blame!

In this case its a little different because it doesnt sound like him and the other guy were really close for very long or anything and also the fact that he still hangs out with the case. Normally, at least from what I've seen when a guy and a girl break up, they go their seperate ways. The girl can do whatever she wants but the guy, if he is your friend, should still be your friend. It just doesnt show any respect to your friend. Its not like you broke up with all the guys you knew when you and the girl split. Its hard to explain. bottom line. bro's before ho's but this guy wasnt one of his bro's so it doesnt count. neither of them are worth the trouble though.

[lifterjaydawg]

He shouldn't do it. He should ask first, and then find another girl. If he is a real friend he will leave her alone.

[Lmg2701]

With as many girls as there are out there he has no business going after a friend's ex.

He's not your friend bro I don't give a damn what anyone says. It's obviously going to affect you emotionally and if he was your friend he wouldnt want to cause you that pain.

[wordski]

That aint shit!!I had a cousin date my ex....AFTER HE ASKED FOR PERMISSION AND I SAID NO!!We used to hang out all the time,then he just stopped answering my calls,turns out he wasa spending the weekends at her house.The kicker is,they both ended up getting chlamydia and blamed it on each other!!!(Just for the record I didnt have it so it wasnt me)I think they got what they deserved,a trip to the clinic.But the thing that gets me is,you know how dudes are we tell all the grimey details.I asked him "Why would you wanna kiss her after all the stuff she did to me?"His reply was "................................................. .......................I dont know." Needless to say,me and him aint as cool as we used to be.

[bm1984]

i did that to a friend of mine when i was pretty young, like 16 / worste thing i ever did. lost the friend and the girl didnt last long. would never do it again even if it was a dime piece

[DragonRider]

I wouldn't care who my ex dates. But that's just me. I don't really get emotional when it comes to women.

Amen. Breaking up with a girl is like throwing trash away. You are saying you don't want it anymore. If you don't want it, then it's fair game to anyone who does.
A true friend would wish his buddy the best of luck.

[Shibby]

Amen. Breaking up with a girl is like throwing trash away. You are saying you don't want it anymore. If you don't want it, then it's fair game to anyone who does.
A true friend would wish his buddy the best of luck.

or it could be that you don't want that person in your life anymore. So then your friend can either bring her around and piss you off or he can stay away, which will either kill the friendship or make the "new" relationship worthless.

[metalmarty]

Whether or not I really cared, I'd kick the fucking hell out of both of them anyway. That shit is uncalled for.

[Megiddo]

6 months have passed. She is fair game for friends. Like it or don't like it, learn to love it.