I've been reading so many threads about couples breaking it off.....My girlfriend broke up with me today and although we've done the on-again/off-again thing, I really think this time it's for real. I have so many emotions going through my head right now I don't even know where to start.
For about 7 months now she's been telling me that she was "in love" with me and although I told her that I loved her, I told her that I wasn't "in love" yet and that if and when I would tell her that I wanted to know for sure that she was going to be the one. I didn't want to just go around throwing the whole "in love" thing around and then have us break up down the road. Well, about a month ago I told her that I really thought I was falling in love with her and for valentines day she made me this card that was really sweet and from the heart saying different things she loved about me and how she was "in love" with me and wanted to share her life with me if I'd let her and so on.....
Well, sure enough, 2 weeks later she is telling me she wants to break up because she isn't sure we're going to last and she would rather tell me now rather then have us break up further down the road and end up hurting each other more. She says she still has feelings for me and that she loves me but she just isn't sure that we would last.
I don't know, I just don't get women sometimes. How can you go from saying your want to share your life with someone and that you're "in love" with them to saying that you want to break up with them because you're not sure it's going to work in TWO WEEKS......
I've been through some break ups before in relationships that lasted pretty long so I know it's going to be pretty shitty for some time and that eventually it will get easier, but I don't see how emotions can change that quickly. I think that is what hurts the most. Not wanting to say I was "in love" for fearing the relationship wouldn't last and then finally saying it and having the feeling of being "in love" only to have the relationship end soon after........
Sorry for the rant just had to get that out. I surely know things could definitely be worse and there are people out there with much bigger problems then me.
For about 7 months now she's been telling me that she was "in love" with me and although I told her that I loved her, I told her that I wasn't "in love" yet and that if and when I would tell her that I wanted to know for sure that she was going to be the one. I didn't want to just go around throwing the whole "in love" thing around and then have us break up down the road. Well, about a month ago I told her that I really thought I was falling in love with her and for valentines day she made me this card that was really sweet and from the heart saying different things she loved about me and how she was "in love" with me and wanted to share her life with me if I'd let her and so on.....
Well, sure enough, 2 weeks later she is telling me she wants to break up because she isn't sure we're going to last and she would rather tell me now rather then have us break up further down the road and end up hurting each other more. She says she still has feelings for me and that she loves me but she just isn't sure that we would last.
I don't know, I just don't get women sometimes. How can you go from saying your want to share your life with someone and that you're "in love" with them to saying that you want to break up with them because you're not sure it's going to work in TWO WEEKS......
I've been through some break ups before in relationships that lasted pretty long so I know it's going to be pretty shitty for some time and that eventually it will get easier, but I don't see how emotions can change that quickly. I think that is what hurts the most. Not wanting to say I was "in love" for fearing the relationship wouldn't last and then finally saying it and having the feeling of being "in love" only to have the relationship end soon after........
Sorry for the rant just had to get that out. I surely know things could definitely be worse and there are people out there with much bigger problems then me.
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