Fucking women...

[FitnessBrat]

That is a lame excuse in my mind, it shouldn't take two years to know this. If you liked someone the entire time you should never have engaged in the relationship. Its like girls(people) jump ship at the first sign of doubt. Real smart....thats why the divorce rate is so high.

Are you serious? You think once you're in a relationship that's it? You have very little experience, it's quite obvious. People do grow apart, people do grow up and realize different goals in life, and there is nothing wrong with realizing these things before you're in way over your head. The divorce rate has nothing to do with this - she realized her feelings BEFORE she married him.

And really, you're this pissed off because your friend has a broken heart right now?

[Shibby]

Sometimes your stories sound pretty familiar. For the most part women under 25 want to give the perception of commitment so they don't seem slutty, but in reality they are rightfully promiscuous. Too many games to try and live in the mainstream. I think that is a huge part of the attraction to my wife. She doesn't play all that American chic BS since she didn't grow up in the states. She likes what she likes and doesn't care how most people perceive her. She doesn't bring attention on her, but she also doesn't hide from being the person she is happy with. Until the maturity level as a whole (out of college) matures, everyone kind of plays the expected role. It's like a political battle to continue to move forward in life properly without missing out on life.

[NewbieChris]

And really, you're this pissed off because your friend has a broken heart right now?

Last night I was extremely pissed off. Today I'm apathetic. These guys are my brothers. I am closer to them than I am my real brother. They are my family. I think it is shitty how she did it and won't explain a thing. I think its shitty she called the police on him. Its bullshit. I think you are misunderstanding the fact that she told him she loved him, but at the end she said, "I might have liked someone else."

Thats a game. Thats not being smart and saving yourself from making a mistake.

[FitnessBrat]

Last night I was extremely pissed off. Today I'm apathetic. These guys are my brothers. I am closer to them than I am my real brother. They are my family. I think it is shitty how she did it and won't explain a thing. I think its shitty she called the police on him. Its bullshit. I think you are misunderstanding the fact that she told him she loved him, but at the end she said, "I might have liked someone else."

Thats a game. Thats not being smart and saving yourself from making a mistake.

I understand you're bothered that someone has hurt your friend, however, there are three sides to every story, and you're only hearing one. If she spent 2.5 years with him, she probably really did love him. But at the same time, she is young, and she should move on if that's what's best for her.

Maybe you should view it as "he's better off without her" right now - since he was/is obviously in a different place than she is/was.

[ROCKETW19]

POST 16 and 17 are right on. chris how old are you? way to young to be having a serious girl friend. you and your girl will change and change again untill around 25 and still some will change more. you can be in love today and tomorrow something else. trust me I have been there. I was married at a young age I was 24 she was 21 two years latter we were totaly different people goin in different directions. It hurt a bit to leave her but we both knew it was best. you should be looking to have fun with girls not gettin serious and just let it happen naturaly. dont sit down with "the talk" that is gay and probaly freaked the kid out.

[NewbieChris]

Its just been a stressful weekend. I'm sorry for venting here so much. Its just easier to get it out semi-anonymous.

[Mr.Mafioso]

i think all the single guys here need a lesson in leykis 101

Tom leykis...radio personality

even though he comes of as an asshole he is hilarious and seems to know what he is talking about

check him out

The Tom Leykis Show - BlowMeUpTom.com

[Bouncer]

Chris, honestly I think you are way to sensative to shit. not to come across as being an insensitive ass but I could really give a fuck if my buddies girl dumped him. lol.

Like everyone is telling you, STOP LETTING EVERYTHING GET TO YOU AND ENJOY LIFE.

[alwaysgrowing]

Humainty is like a sewer, deep dark and full of shit. so just enjoy. everything is what you make of it. you can't control what happens to you, only how you react to it

[murdy]

let me tell ya something. I did alot of running when I was 16 -20. Got my highschool girlfriend preg. She aborted to my disapproval. I was 18 and wanted to be with her. anyhow she didnt. I found someone else got her preg and we got married. It was rough. three seperations but we made it been married 12 years. she gets on my nerves and I am sure I do her but we got two daughters and we are a family. Sometimes it aint so easy I mean happy evr after shit. It can be hard work but when it works it is great. I dont regret anything xcept being a jerk to any girl and and especially my wife even when she did me wrong. Now that I have daughters I relize how special and great a womans companionship can be.

[NewbieChris]

Its my fault. I'm just letting a bunch of stuff compound and kick my ass. I don't know what to do about anything anymore.

[FitnessBrat]

Its my fault. I'm just letting a bunch of stuff compound and kick my ass. I don't know what to do about anything anymore.

Then women should be the last thing on your mind. You come around here saying women are bitches and liars - it's disrespectful and it's shitty.

[NewbieChris]

Then women should be the last thing on your mind. You come around here saying women are bitches and liars - it's disrespectful and it's shitty.

They have shown me that they are disrespectful and lie. That doesn't mean that there can't be something I'm taking too seriously.

[FitnessBrat]

They have shown me that they are disrespectful and lie. That doesn't mean that there can't be something I'm taking too seriously.

The mere fact that you are grouping every single woman together is what is so ridiculous Chris. Sure, there are many scandalous women out there - but do you really think every single one is that way? :hmm:

[NewbieChris]

The mere fact that you are grouping every single woman together is what is so ridiculous Chris. Sure, there are many scandalous women out there - but do you really think every single one is that way? :hmm:

It wasn't literal that it was every woman, just everyone I've encountered.

Latest update. I get a text from the girl I was seeing:

"I guess we should meet up sometime"

I sent something back saying it was her decision.

I get: "I wouldn't text you if I didn't want to talk to you."

Then I get something along the lines of needing closure. Really? Is it me or is this crazy?