OMFG- someone here at my new job just tried...

[gymratin]

ill see a mother fucker breakin his back on shrugs, bent over rows, deadlifts, whatever, and ill be damned if i tell/show correct form

[gymratin]

oh by the way congrats red, on the job and pregnancy, i missed you on your preg thread

[FitnessBrat]

ill see a mother fucker breakin his back on shrugs, bent over rows, deadlifts, whatever, and ill be damned if i tell/show correct form

I personally won't either, but I guess I understand when others "help" people so that they won't get hurt.

[3v1lj03]

:).

I know....it is really just so amusing to me. I'm already overly senstive, and to have this girl who "thinks" she bangs it, and eats good, that she has the right to tell me something like that. I wouldn't even tell my best friend something like that.

Hey at least she is fit now and not telling you of her former glory and giving you advice because she used to be sooo fit. That is what I get all the time at work. Hey, relax you know what you know that is all that matters.

[redsquirrel]

fucking unsolicited advice. i see it happen all the time : @ the gym (with proper form, a "better way" etc) @ work - everywhere.

why dont people understand - if i want your advice ill ask for it

GREAT question. And, the funniest part about all of it, is that I could run circles around her and what she "thinks" she knows about how to eat.

And let's just not even mention the slew of fertility meds I have been on in the past 6 months. That's probably the worst part about it- that she has NO CLUE about my history with fitness, my history with trying to conceive....and yet she is the first one to pass judgment. Sort of humbling, & somewhat of a life lesson, really- to never judge a book by its cover.