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Originally posted by The_Grinder
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Yeah, it's definitly too soon. It's not going to be the same after this, bro. If she's going to hang the relationship on her emotions, than be prepared for this to happen again. You should stay away for a while. As hard as that would be, it has to happen. You're setting youself up to get hurt again.Originally posted by The_Grinder View PostComment
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Tell her if she takes it up the ass, she can have the ring back!
Only kidding
At the end of the day bro you have a good head on your shoulders and I don't think you need to be too guarded, just have the confidence that if things don't work, you can move on. I'm sorry but there are like a few billion people in the world! don't get too hung upComment
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She probably wants to wear the ring again because for what ever reason it makes sense to her since you moved back in. But that would put you right back where this all started.Comment
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Ok so today it all came to a head. I moved back out. And I actually took all my stuff this time. We were just fighting about so much petty shit, it was almost time to just laugh at it, and go our separate ways. We are calling it a "break", which it might be. But that also might just be what we are calling it so we feel better about the whole thing. We shed a few tears, but we both agreed on some things, and actually got along better than we had in a while.
The problem for the last few days was this... Both of us knew we needed time away from eachother, whether that be temporary time or permanent time. The problem is, it hurt too bad to hear the other person say it. It still hurts a little bit. We talked a lot tonight. We talked about the great memories. But I was thinking about it on the way home, and all the memories we brought up were from before we moved in together.
Thanks for all your support everyone. No need to say "sorry to hear that" after this post. I really feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. It still hurts, but mainly because I miss what we had during the first half of our relationship. Right now I just have to make sure that I don't look at any old pictures or read any old letters, because it might be too much.Comment
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It sounds like you two just gave to much to avoid any problems, instead of fining a realistic compromise, and in turned into bits of constant resentment. I could be off but that's usually what happens when you are fighting about nothing.Comment
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Starting to hurt a bit now.... The fact that I am staying with my parents for the time being isnt helping much.Comment
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This is similar to what happened between me and my ex. We decided we needed a break but in the end it's that it wasn't gonna work between us. We both wanted different things. It's definitely gonna be tough, but you just need to keep your head high and look to the future and how you need to live your life. In the end if it's meant to be, it will be. Let fate take it's course and just live your life to the fullest.Comment
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Thank God my college homecoming is this Saturday night. Going back to see a lot of friends I havent seen in quite a while. Gonna drink and have a good time. Suprisingly I'm not even thinking about the random hookups I could have. I just want to see the old crew again and do it up like the old days.Comment
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If I said it once I said it a million times. Nothing gets you over the last one, like the next one! Dont move in with anymore girls until your like 30, dont get anyone pregnant, I wouldnt ever see the same girl more then twice. Trust me man, you have plenty of time to settle down.Originally posted by The_Grinder View PostComment
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